https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 12 May 2026 23:04:08 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-783408 Wed, 15 May 2013 13:12:36 +0000 Smurfette 783408@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ice cream, big bowl of it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-783295 Wed, 15 May 2013 12:39:02 +0000 ladyfingers 783295@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>A nap and an apology (but maybe not in that order?). I HATE apologizing, especially when I'm wrong! But it always makes me feel better to have it resolved. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-782410 Wed, 15 May 2013 09:18:41 +0000 Mrs squirreld 782410@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsLipGloss: Haha I was just thinking this is the first time I have felt like a glass ( or two) of wine since being pregnant...maybe I'll indulge in some online shopping! lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-782352 Wed, 15 May 2013 08:56:59 +0000 MsLipGloss 782352@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs squirreld: Gah - I wish I could take you to lunch/ shopping to make you feel better and to help pass the time!</p> <p>ETA: If you weren't pg, I would totally show up with the makings of a cocktail and be your bartender for a couple of hours! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-782347 Wed, 15 May 2013 08:55:09 +0000 Mrs squirreld 782347@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsLipGloss: Thanks... He replied to my msg saying "me too" so I do feel a bit better, but I just hate not resolving things. I know our love goes further than a stupid fight, but still "that feeling" sucks. Hopefully we can resolve it tomorrow when he gets home... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-782322 Wed, 15 May 2013 08:46:12 +0000 MsLipGloss 782322@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs squirreld: Awwww, that does stink. I usually apologize first, too, and I always remind myself that love is not proud, and that I shouldn't let my pride get in the way of our love. BUT, that is not to say that my opinion on whatever topic it was that we disagreed is not valid or doesn't warrant additional conversation, I just put it to bed for a brief period of time, try to understand where DH was coming from, and try again (if necessary) when things have calmed down.</p> <p>((hugs)) I know the weird uncomfortable feeling I get in my stomach when things aren't right between DH and myself. I'm sorry hon. I hope it is resolved soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-782307 Wed, 15 May 2013 08:41:26 +0000 Modern Daisy 782307@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>OH no! I would immediately make myself a very large mug of hot chocolate and go for a walk to clear my head. That always works every time for me!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-782299 Wed, 15 May 2013 08:40:29 +0000 Boheme 782299@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Apologizing and space always make me feel better. Making things right (even if I apologize first) is the only thing that shakes that feeling for me.<br /> Hugs! I hope you feel better today. Its not fun to fight and deal with pregnancy hormones on top of it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-782298 Wed, 15 May 2013 08:40:19 +0000 Mrs squirreld 782298@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Maybe I need to watch something funny...<br /> I sent him a msg saying " I hate it when we fight :-(" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-782292 Wed, 15 May 2013 08:38:49 +0000 Mrs squirreld 782292@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: yeah I made pasta.. it was good at the time.. now I feel sick...lol It's been 4 hours since he left for work :-( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-782291 Wed, 15 May 2013 08:38:19 +0000 littlek 782291@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry, that's rough. I would wait till lunch time and then call DH and say "I'm sorry." As for me, I try not to think about it and just dive into work, it makes time go by faster. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-782289 Wed, 15 May 2013 08:37:12 +0000 Mrs squirreld 782289@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsLipGloss: I always apologise first. It SUCKS, but I guess it will never change he is sooo stubborn, even when he knows he was wrong. It's night time here... so favorite accessory might not work..lol I will make a cup of coffee, cause you are right the caffeine does help. I think I'll send the msg too. Thanks :-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-782286 Wed, 15 May 2013 08:36:23 +0000 mediagirl 782286@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:( I would get something that tasted really good to make myself feel better. I'm an emotional eater. Haha. I would wait a few hours, then I would send my husband an IM and let him know I'm sorry we fought. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-782282 Wed, 15 May 2013 08:34:08 +0000 MsLipGloss 782282@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Diet Coke (for the headache . . . caffeine really helps!), I spruce myself up and put on a favorite accessory (what I put on depends on whether I am staying home or going to work), and send an "I'm sorry we fought" text. Even if I disagree with DH, I don't like to fight about anything, so I try to put things back on track (and then revisit the issue at a later time if necessary). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/urgh-what-do-you-do-when#post-782264 Wed, 15 May 2013 08:28:21 +0000 Mrs squirreld 782264@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>you feel like crap... I had a stupid fight with DH before he went to work, and we didn't resolve it which I HATE. I cried for an hour (blaming pregnancy hormones) and now I have a huge headache, but have so much to do....<br /> So HELP.. what do you do to make yourself feel better?<br /> P.S. It's night time here. :-( </p>