https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 10 Apr 2026 01:09:01 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1916946 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 08:36:25 +0000 loki 1916946@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@blackbird: good advice, thanks!</p> <p>@edelweiss: i WISH i said that!</p> <p>@Snowybreeze: ya so tough to think of a good comeback at the time. i try to keep my distance from her in general. our company has a loooot of people who have been here way too long and have really bad attitudes. she's not the only one who is fairly miserable around here :( but ya i'll definitely mention it to my manager because unfortunately, this is not my only example of her being supremely rude. usually i can laugh it off but i found this time to be particularly offensive. ugh! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1916935 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 08:28:36 +0000 Snowybreeze 1916935@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would not be able to stand her. It was really good of you to hold back. If you don't plan on being friends and if she offends you again, I wouldn't be nice again. I understand though, sometimes we are just caught off guard with rude comments and not sure how to respond at that moment.<br /> Even if you think HR is unhelpful, I think it's better to let them know and/or let your manager know during your one on one, someone's gotta start improving the company's management, maybe you can start :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1916878 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 07:53:58 +0000 edelweiss 1916878@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>"you're not the bitchiest person around, but you are not nice...wait, you are the bitchiest" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1916872 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 07:52:01 +0000 blackbird 1916872@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@loki: document as much as you can with dates and specifics! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1916857 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 07:43:07 +0000 loki 1916857@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs.Panda: ya i don't think past bad behaviour gives you a right to eternal bad behaviour. someone needs to teach these people common decency at some point!</p> <p>@lamariniere: we have one on ones with our manager and they're coming up soon. i'm thinking i will mention this along with other issues i've had with this coworker. thanks! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915743 Sat, 25 Oct 2014 14:43:41 +0000 lamariniere 1915743@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would still report her despite unhelpful HR. At least it can be documented somewhere, even if nothing happens. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915732 Sat, 25 Oct 2014 14:28:54 +0000 Mrs.Panda 1915732@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@loki: I hate the excuse that people are "just like that". Please. I think that gives you full license to be a bitch right back to her because, well, that's just the way she makes you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915690 Sat, 25 Oct 2014 13:33:01 +0000 loki 1915690@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@travelgirl1: unfortunately we don't really have good HR :(</p> <p>thanks guys, I thought maybe I was overreacting (I do that a lot haha). Honestly I thought about talking to my manager but my company isn't all that supportive. She's been there forever and everyone just accepts that's "just her" unfortunately. I don't think it would be handled well, if at all, and it might makes things worse for me moving forward. In April I'll be gone for a year - i hope by the time I'm back she's gone somehow haha. Thanks for letting me vent!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915508 Sat, 25 Oct 2014 10:20:37 +0000 Synchronicity 1915508@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:meh: </p> <p>Who says something like that?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915500 Sat, 25 Oct 2014 10:07:50 +0000 erwoo 1915500@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That is really inappropriate and unprofessional. She probably said it b/c she is actually intimidated by your age. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915454 Sat, 25 Oct 2014 08:49:41 +0000 marionberry 1915454@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow. I'm sorry! Hugs! I hate mean people. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915430 Sat, 25 Oct 2014 08:27:46 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 1915430@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wtf? I totally would report her! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915406 Sat, 25 Oct 2014 07:31:43 +0000 blackbird 1915406@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would probably report this. This is so far over the line </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915377 Sat, 25 Oct 2014 05:51:02 +0000 SugarplumsMom 1915377@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What a biotch! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915324 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 23:30:07 +0000 coopsmama 1915324@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That was an incredibly distasteful and bitchy thing to say! Unbelievable. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915180 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 20:06:05 +0000 MapleMoose 1915180@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow. That's incredibly rude of her. :shocked: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915059 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 17:06:42 +0000 mfa_lady 1915059@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What?! So sorry that happened to you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915022 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 16:22:24 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1915022@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Huh! :shocked: I can't believe she said that out loud. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915017 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 16:19:53 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 1915017@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What the hell??? So freaking rude! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1915012 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 16:10:04 +0000 cascademom 1915012@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@loki: that sounds like something my MIL would say. A good response is "Excuse me. Could you repeat that please?" It puts them on blast to repeat it and hear their idiocy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1914996 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 15:47:50 +0000 Modern Daisy 1914996@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Blah! How awful!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1914993 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 15:45:48 +0000 bunnylove08 1914993@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@loki: you cant be serious... OMG I would have totally slapped her for that. Ugh I'm so mad for you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1914984 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 15:39:09 +0000 LuLu Mom 1914984@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@loki: OMG do we work together? ;) This is so something my coworker would say followed up with a "well I guess I will have to do it, like everything else" or something equally annoying. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1914968 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 15:30:35 +0000 travelgirl1 1914968@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Do you have good HR? Maybe report her, that was insanely rude and unprofessional of her. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1914938 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 15:13:24 +0000 snowjewelz 1914938@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:shocked: I'm sorry you had to hear that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1914928 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 15:09:06 +0000 .twist. 1914928@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@loki: Yea no. I would have been offended, too. I probably would have straight up said "Well, that was rude". </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1914927 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 15:08:29 +0000 loki 1914927@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@avivoca: i think she's on a heavy daily dose. i wanna ask her her effing IQ cuz head to head i'm sure i'd dominate her haha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1914925 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 15:07:34 +0000 avivoca 1914925@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What in the actual hell? Someone took a b**** pill today. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1914924 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 15:07:30 +0000 loki 1914924@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@yoursilverlining: @.twist.: THANK YOU! so insane, right?!?!?! she is awful. ugh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/vent-i-cant-believe-you-just-said-that-to-me#post-1914923 Fri, 24 Oct 2014 15:07:06 +0000 loki 1914923@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Tanjowen: i wish i had. i was wondering if i was overreacting with being offended but glad to know it was justified :) </p>