https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 09 May 2026 17:28:19 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen/page/2#post-1877861 Thu, 25 Sep 2014 18:00:18 +0000 GoGoSnoGirl 1877861@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@travellingbee: @LovelyPlum: thank you ladies. I did just get my latest beta back (good #s!) &amp; also haven't bled anymore today, so maybe it wasn't anything to be concerned about, after all... Which is really easy to say, but will be so hard not to worry about until we get a little further along &amp; start getting to see this little bean on an u/s. Thank you for your kind thoughts &amp; finger crossing for us! It's all helpful, I think! :happy: :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen/page/2#post-1876165 Wed, 24 Sep 2014 19:44:34 +0000 LovelyPlum 1876165@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@GoGoSnoGirl: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen/page/2#post-1876160 Wed, 24 Sep 2014 19:38:29 +0000 travellingbee 1876160@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@GoGoSnoGirl: just lurking and saw this. My fingers are crossed that everything is perfect with your little bean!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1876077 Wed, 24 Sep 2014 17:55:00 +0000 GoGoSnoGirl 1876077@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: @Keppa: Hi Ladies, how are you doing??</p> <p>AFM, I'm having a tough day--I was feeling more &amp; more confident with 3 great betas, but then had a fair bit of bleeding this morning after using the bathroom. That slowed to just a little spotting this afternoon, but have a mild low back ache like I feel for the day before AF. :bummed: I am going for another beta in the morning &amp; got my u/s moved from 7w to 6w, but that still isn't until next Tue, which will feel like an eternity to wait!! Please keep fx for me this is still my sticky baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1869664 Fri, 19 Sep 2014 07:07:10 +0000 FaithFertility 1869664@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: Sooooo glad ro hear ♥</p> <p>@Keppa: Stay strong, you will pass this point!!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1867184 Wed, 17 Sep 2014 21:33:07 +0000 pregnantbee 1867184@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: So glad to hear your appt went well. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1867139 Wed, 17 Sep 2014 21:05:02 +0000 mrsjyw 1867139@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: I'm so glad the appt went so well, thinking of you and baby!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1867131 Wed, 17 Sep 2014 21:00:46 +0000 GoGoSnoGirl 1867131@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: I'm glad to hear your appt went well! Fx for your anatomy scan &amp; hopefully more good news. Take it easy until then. :happy: </p> <p>@Keppa: thinking of you &amp; keeping fingers crossed for you, too, that you sail past this scary point. I can totally relate &amp; while all progress is good, it'll feel particularly reassuring for me, too, if I don't start spotting &amp; can get past 6w without event. :goodluck: :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1867076 Wed, 17 Sep 2014 20:32:47 +0000 mrs. tictactoe 1867076@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Keppa: lots of hugs and happy thoughts! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1867021 Wed, 17 Sep 2014 20:04:09 +0000 Mrs. Oyster 1867021@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Tomorrow (5w6d) is the day I started spotting with my m/c a couple of months ago. I'm trying to stay as calm as I've been the past couple of weeks since finding out - but having SUCH a hard time. I've found myself trying to remember if it was exactly 5w6d, or was it 6w? Did it start in the AM or closer to PM?<br /> Doesn't help that LO and I are both coming down with colds and we're both in poor moods. This is hard. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1866581 Wed, 17 Sep 2014 15:16:52 +0000 mrs. tictactoe 1866581@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@GoGoSnoGirl: fingers crossed! Sending lots of good wishes.</p> <p>My appointment went well. She did an ultrasound, I didn't even ask. She said the partial abruption is really hard to diagnose and she said it could be that, or could be previa because the placenta is really close to the cervix, or it could be a fibroid because she saw a bulge. I have my anatomy scan in the next week or two, so that should tell us more. Baby looks great and she said if this particular incident were to cause a miscarriage, it would have happened already. Since I'm not bleeding now and it's been a few days and baby looks good, that's all very good.</p> <p>At first she said I should take a week off, but in the end she left it up to me. No lifting, take it easy. I can do that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1866486 Wed, 17 Sep 2014 14:40:32 +0000 GoGoSnoGirl 1866486@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: thinking of you! Hope your appt went well today. :goodluck: :heart: :happy: </p> <p>Afm, I have my 2nd beta today &amp; have every finger crossed my #s are doubling as they should. I know the actual #s don't matter that much, but I'm hopeful that the trend being higher (3x!) than our last pregnancy (m/c at 6w), is a good sign. I feel particularly nervous because I'm 41 working on baby 1 &amp; don't have time to just keep trying if we were to lose another baby. Trying to stay positive &amp; just live by the mantra I've seen on here several times before: "today I am pregnant". :happy: I may have to look into the Circle + Bloom meditations that @MrsMccarthy: recommends... If I could find time to sit still ever!! :bummed: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1864888 Tue, 16 Sep 2014 15:48:59 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1864888@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: oh honey I just want to give you a big hug. Have you tried meditation, yoga or prayer if you are religious? I am not religious but my stress has been through the roof lately and meditating for 5 minutes every morning helps. There are guided meditations too. Ive heard Circle + Bloom has some good ones that are specifically related to pregnancy. Sending you :heart: and healthy baby thoughts. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1864807 Tue, 16 Sep 2014 15:11:06 +0000 pregnantbee 1864807@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: Hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1864729 Tue, 16 Sep 2014 14:14:14 +0000 78h2o 1864729@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: Oh, man, how scary. Big hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1864727 Tue, 16 Sep 2014 14:11:02 +0000 mrs. tictactoe 1864727@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm never going to get over this. I am constantly waiting to feel the baby move and always thinking that something is wrong. I'm so bummed because I was SO happy to be pregnant and having a girl and now I'm just worrying non-stop. I know it doesn't help, but I don't know how to turn off my brain.</p> <p>I have an appt with my regular OB tomorrow. Hopefully she can reassure me. I am also going to ask her for a referral to a specialist. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1861587 Sat, 13 Sep 2014 18:29:40 +0000 kml636 1861587@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>omg... thinking of you. Lots of love. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1861523 Sat, 13 Sep 2014 16:27:43 +0000 LovelyPlum 1861523@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: I'm so glad she is OK. Step away from the Google. Sending you :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1861519 Sat, 13 Sep 2014 16:20:42 +0000 Freckles 1861519@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: that is scary and I am glad the baby is ok! I hope you get some rest! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1861410 Sat, 13 Sep 2014 13:47:59 +0000 travelgirl1 1861410@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: hugs mama. Glad baby is okay :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1861385 Sat, 13 Sep 2014 13:16:58 +0000 Tidybee 1861385@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That is so scary. Step away from Google. Nothing you read on there will change what will happen to you. (My mantra!) Rest rest rest! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1861383 Sat, 13 Sep 2014 13:13:01 +0000 mrs. tictactoe 1861383@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So, it's a partial placental abruption. I'm still so scared. My dr made it seem like no big deal, but the more I read the more nervous I am. I just want a healthy baby girl! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1861227 Sat, 13 Sep 2014 09:36:46 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1861227@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hope you're resting at home and keeping your baby girl nice and cozy! Big hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1861144 Sat, 13 Sep 2014 07:06:51 +0000 Orchid 1861144@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: glad it's ok!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1861142 Sat, 13 Sep 2014 07:03:50 +0000 FaithFertility 1861142@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: ohhh I'm so sorry, how scary, glad you saw Dr and all is well! Praying it heals quickly! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1861053 Fri, 12 Sep 2014 23:44:12 +0000 Mrs.Someone 1861053@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: Yikes, sorry to hear that happened :( Hope all works out OK. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1861052 Fri, 12 Sep 2014 23:40:53 +0000 mrs. tictactoe 1861052@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Bad scare today. Started bleeding a lot, went to the dr and baby is ok. Placental abruption, I think is what he said. Lots of rest and it should resolve itself. So so scary, though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1851593 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 11:06:33 +0000 mrs. tictactoe 1851593@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Vegmama: yep, I think the same thing every time I go to the bathroom. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1851571 Sat, 06 Sep 2014 10:20:23 +0000 FaithFertility 1851571@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: I have this too, my fear is more in anxiety......like if I don't feel her move for some time I freak... I've gone in twice already for reassurance :) MW are super sweet!</p> <p>But I completley understand your fear, I wish I could see her on u/s daily! </p> <p>But I try hard to remind myself all is well and God knows my baby better than I and he is watching over us!</p> <p>I laugh when I think of how much a love her already and worry, lord knows I will be a basket case when she is here! ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/waiting-for-something-bad-to-happen#post-1851353 Fri, 05 Sep 2014 21:39:38 +0000 Vegmama 1851353@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. tictactoe: I felt like this my entire pregnancy after a previous mc. It's morbid, but I always expected to see blood when using the restroom. I think doing daily meditation helped me a lot. </p>