https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 26 Jun 2026 22:19:38 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise/page/2#post-933237 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 16:19:08 +0000 skibobrown 933237@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, not a surprise in that we were actively TTC. It was a little surprising though b/c I didn't really think I was pregnant. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise/page/2#post-933213 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 16:11:50 +0000 JessKas 933213@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It wasn't a surprise exactly, but it WAS a shock. We had literally been NTNP for 2.5/3 weeks prior to getting the BFP, and I thought it would take at least 4-5 months. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise/page/2#post-933193 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 16:04:45 +0000 Mrs. Train 933193@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My twins were a surprise. After so much IF and then adopting I really wasn't planning on being pregnant. My second pregnancy was planned but surprised at how fast it happened. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise/page/2#post-933185 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 16:01:41 +0000 Sweet T 933185@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Both babies have been a surprise! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise/page/2#post-933163 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 15:54:23 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 933163@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, DD was planned but I always thought it would be fun to have a surprise baby(ies) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise/page/2#post-933162 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 15:54:06 +0000 Dandelion 933162@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The mc that I had before I conceived S was a surprise. I got crazy baby fever after I lost it and got her on the next cycle...so she wasn't totally a surprise...just a surprise that I got knock up so fast! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-933150 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 15:50:36 +0000 yellowbird 933150@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, number one was a surprise. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-933125 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 15:44:34 +0000 sera_87 933125@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrsbells: same situation - first cycle after our wedding - BAM! Preggers. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-933093 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 15:36:26 +0000 googly-eyes 933093@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Only in that in happened the first month... Tbh I'd planned for a 3-6 month wait! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-933079 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 15:33:21 +0000 LuLu Mom 933079@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We were officially trying, but were surprised it happened on our first month after the doc said I was probably not ovulating due to short cycles. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-933070 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 15:31:47 +0000 daniellemybelle 933070@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep! Though by the time I could take a pregnancy test, I had a feeling I was pregnant. I was still shocked though! After all the shock dissipated, though, I am so grateful we were able to conceive easily - I had always worried about infertility. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932909 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:55:33 +0000 Running Elley 932909@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We were actively TTC for our first two and for E. This baby was a surprise but we weren't disappointed! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932890 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:53:02 +0000 deerylou 932890@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We were charting, and abstaining during ovulation; my periods have always been like clockwork. As luck would have it, I ovulated a little early the month we conceived, and here we are. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932883 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:52:27 +0000 SAHM0811 932883@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>1st was a surprise... 2nd, planned... 3rd, a surprise again </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932867 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:50:21 +0000 yerpie110 932867@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The result of our first time NTNP'ing (yes I like to turn any word into a verb, haha) is currently 6 months old and waiting for me at home! Definitely surprised, but definitely wanted. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932819 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:42:01 +0000 MrsKoala 932819@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sort of. We were TTC <u>but</u> our timing was so crappy that I thought there was no way in hell it would happen that month. And it did. I still can't believe it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932796 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:37:20 +0000 Modern Daisy 932796@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It was kind of a surprise even though we were actively TTC because it was only my 2nd cycle on Clomid and it showed up at only 7dpo. We weren't expecting anything to work that early since I hadn't been ovulating at all after going off the pill and I had never been pregnant before. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932786 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:35:45 +0000 mamabolt 932786@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, we were actively TTC. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932777 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:33:51 +0000 lilyann 932777@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes and no? ha! We were NTNP so I knew it could happen but I didn't expect it on our 2nd month..I didn't feel pregnant and was only a couple days late (which is the norm for me anyways) so I tested and :bfp: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932760 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:31:14 +0000 Bao 932760@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No we were trying for both, however both months of BFP's I thought for SURE I was out. I felt more pregnant the other months. So in that sense I was surprised ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932757 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:30:05 +0000 mrskc 932757@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DS was planned and we were actively TTC. I was charting and taking OPK's. I'm the same and kind of wishing #2 is a surprise. I hope I can me more relaxed when we try for #2. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932707 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:15:51 +0000 Foodnerd81 932707@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No surprise, very much planned. I was charting and knew we'd hit the right fertile days, then I had some symptoms that made me feel pretty sure we get the BFP, and we did-- although I still felt kind of stunned, even though I was kind of expecting it. </p> <p>I hope I can be more laid back about #2, but I wouldn't actually hope for a surprise. I can't let go that much :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932687 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:10:30 +0000 Mrsbells 932687@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>yes we just got married. literally. It was less than 2 months after our wedding. we werent actively trying or anything </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932682 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:08:59 +0000 regberadaisy 932682@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, she was planned. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932679 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:08:18 +0000 Anutka 932679@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Surprise! A very happy one but not really planned. We were planning on TTC in the near future but weren't careful a few times and bam.</p> <p>I actually didn't POAS until I was 6 or so weeks.... My periods were not very regular and I just thought I was nauseous from drinking too much coffee (oooops). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932663 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:04:58 +0000 Mrs. Champagne 932663@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Kind of. It was our first cycle NTNP and I never thought it would happen that quick. SO while it wasn't a total shocker in that I never thought I'd be pregnant... it was very shocking in that I never ever thought it could happen that quick. Very welcome shock though!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932660 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:04:20 +0000 sslm 932660@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope! I kinda hope #2 is but I doubt it will be! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932652 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 14:02:28 +0000 bisous 932652@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep! We had planned to start TTC in May '13...but got a surprise BFP in Sept '12! It was meant to be--and somewhat fun for it to be unexpected!</p> <p>@yoursilverlining: Our LO came to be same way! Thought it was a safe day! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932631 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 13:54:11 +0000 GrapeCrush 932631@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@matador84: right there with ya sista friend! Lol</p> <p>#1 we were NTNP, so no we weren't surprised that we got pregnant. #2 was a shock as I was on BC a d we weren't planning on trying until DS was closer to 1....I got pregnant at 6 months pp. they will be 1 day shy of exactly. 15 months apart. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/was-your-bfp-a-surprise#post-932629 Mon, 15 Jul 2013 13:52:51 +0000 yoursilverlining 932629@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>yes, it was a shock!! My birthday is in October and we planned to start TTC after my birthday, but I was off bc and charting for a few months prior to that but always used condoms. One night I thought was were in a "safe day" and so we didn't use a condom as backup....dun dun dun! BFP! </p>