https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 28 May 2026 21:16:25 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ways-to-perk-up-after-bfn#post-1615934 Tue, 06 May 2014 10:48:36 +0000 mfa_lady 1615934@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine was wine. Always, always wine. ;) Hugs, lady! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ways-to-perk-up-after-bfn#post-1615903 Tue, 06 May 2014 10:39:45 +0000 HellOnHeels 1615903@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@KelLeeLeee: Ditto. DH and I went out on our first motorcycle ride of the year (last minute decision) and had a few drinks last night. Wouldn't be able to do that with a babe. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ways-to-perk-up-after-bfn#post-1614839 Mon, 05 May 2014 21:12:39 +0000 Mrs. J 1614839@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wine and sushi! DH and I always planned lots of sushi dates until I got a BFP. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ways-to-perk-up-after-bfn#post-1614797 Mon, 05 May 2014 20:55:22 +0000 Grace 1614797@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I always got a massage right after a BFN. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ways-to-perk-up-after-bfn#post-1614587 Mon, 05 May 2014 19:32:13 +0000 MrsKRB 1614587@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Besides drinking a lot of wine :wink: I don't really *do* anything. I mainly just concentrate on what I do have, and what I can still do/enjoy by not be pregnant. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ways-to-perk-up-after-bfn#post-1614585 Mon, 05 May 2014 19:31:23 +0000 FaithFertility 1614585@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I did all the said above!!!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ways-to-perk-up-after-bfn#post-1614556 Mon, 05 May 2014 19:22:50 +0000 Mrs. Coral 1614556@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>During the TWW, I've started to think of one or two ways to pamper myself in the event of a BFN. Make no mistake, I still hold an overwhelming amount of optimism that I will get a BFP each time. However, I feel like pampering myself is nuturing and eases the disappointment ever so very, very slightly. It's also a good way for me to force myself to take a step back and relax.</p> <p>I try to make these treats a break from all TTC-related, as Lord knows after a BFN all I want to do is dive into Hellobee or TCOYF!</p> <p>Do you ever do this? If so, what are some ideas? Mine are: take a bubble bath, pick out/borrow a new non-TTC related book, get a manicure/pedicure (at home or at the salon), try a new type of wine, get a massage, or order sushi. </p>