https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 20 Apr 2026 08:41:59 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264651 Sun, 16 Aug 2015 17:50:33 +0000 LoveHope 2264651@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: Thinking of you. I hope the procedure went well. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264600 Sun, 16 Aug 2015 15:48:02 +0000 mrsbubbletea 2264600@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry for your loss and I wish you gentle healing thoughts. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264524 Sun, 16 Aug 2015 13:20:32 +0000 delight 2264524@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: thanks. I know we will all have rainbow babies in the future too. All these losses are agonizing no matter when or how they occur. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264513 Sun, 16 Aug 2015 13:05:47 +0000 Crystal 2264513@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@delight: I didn't realize the extra agony you were put through... I'm so sorry. I hope that someday this will be a distant painful memory and we will get to enjoy our rainbow babies. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264509 Sun, 16 Aug 2015 12:51:37 +0000 Crystal 2264509@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs.kiwi: our marriage is definitely stronger, even if it's been tested far past limits we had ever expected. DH is truly wonderful and such a blessing to me. I'm so sorry for your losses as well. </p> <p>@jh524: thank you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264507 Sun, 16 Aug 2015 12:49:46 +0000 delight 2264507@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: my situation is different than yours because we terminated. Between finding out our baby was sick and the termination it was about a week but we had known things weren't right for a month prior from ultrasound and NT findings. I felt like I was in a daydream the whole time and I totally understand when you say it doesn't feel real. I'm glad they were able to get you in quickly, although it sounds like you had to jump through a lot of hurdles. I'm not sure how different a D&amp;E from a D&amp;C is but like I said earlier, the physical recovery was easy for me. I hope you're doing ok. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264489 Sun, 16 Aug 2015 12:00:48 +0000 jh524 2264489@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: I'm sorry your going through this. After reading this thread, my heart breaks for you. :heart: hugs !!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264445 Sun, 16 Aug 2015 10:59:21 +0000 mrs.kiwi 2264445@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: I'm so relieved an thankful they were able to do it for you. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that from the Drs!!! That is horrible.</p> <p>Also so thankful the procedure was done and that you are resting at home. After or losses I kept telling DH that he is better to me than a 100 children.. I know sometimes men don't feel as much as we do especially with our children but I am so thankful you seem to have a wonderful supportive DH who is taking good care of you. If anything your ttc journey is making you and your marriage Stronger.. And you guys wil be more awesome parents bc of it!!</p> <p>Rest up and do small things that you enjoy/make you smile... Thinking of you!! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264440 Sun, 16 Aug 2015 10:46:03 +0000 Crystal 2264440@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: @shopaholic: @winter_wonder: @Greentea: @Happygal: thank you. </p> <p>@delight: how long was it between finding out and your procedure? Mine was about 24 hours, and I think I was still trying to wrap my head around the sudden change a bit. Im definitely relieved to have it done, but somehow the whole thing doesn't feel real... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264409 Sun, 16 Aug 2015 09:12:05 +0000 Happygal 2264409@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh no. I'm jus seeing this. I'm so sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264329 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 20:56:48 +0000 Greentea 2264329@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: I am very sorry for your loss, sending much love. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264286 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 19:10:27 +0000 winter_wonder 2264286@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Completely unfair :sad: I'm so sorry. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264281 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 19:03:14 +0000 delight 2264281@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh no I am so sorry to read this. Life is really cruel sometimes. I hope you have a speedy recovery. I remember thinking after my D&amp;E that the recovery seemed so easy compared to the emotional burden I was carrying. I hope you have lots and lots of support. I know we are all thinking of you here and wishing you lots of strength and healing and hoping your time comes soon for a healthy pregnancy and healthy baby. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264274 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 18:38:05 +0000 shopaholic 2264274@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264230 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 16:25:30 +0000 Adira 2264230@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. Life can be so cruel. :crying: &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264222 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 14:56:27 +0000 Crystal 2264222@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Torchwood: than you so much for saying that, especially after everything you've been through. I appreciate the offer and might just take you up on it. I'm so glad you have your rainbow baby, and I hope I can have mine soon too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264220 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 14:44:49 +0000 Torchwood 2264220@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so, so sorry for your loss. It breaks my heart to read this, and everything they put you through on top of it. I'm glad you were able to have the procedure and at least get that over with. I know I'm just some stranger, but if there's anything I can do, please don't hesitate to ask. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264216 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 14:38:36 +0000 Crystal 2264216@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Tidybee: I just wish I knew why... Why are we suffering like this? All we've ever wanted to be are parents. </p> <p>@Amorini: @sorrycharlie: thank you.</p> <p>@NorthStar: @mrschickpea: thank you for your kind thoughts. The procedure went as well as to be expected. </p> <p>@LovelyPlum: he dr really just made it all worse. I felt so helpless... </p> <p>Im home and resting. We got discharged from the hospital at about 4am. I feel better than I expected to, but still a little weak. (Surprising to me, as all I did yesterday was lay down). I'm sure the numerous medications are helping. </p> <p>I think I'm still a bit in shock, and keep waiting for it to hit me. Right now I mostly feel relief the procedure is done. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264182 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 12:24:58 +0000 LovelyPlum 2264182@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just now saw this. I am heartbroken for your loss and so angry at your stupid doctor. Thank you for never going back to him ever again. You do not deserve that at all. I am glad you found someone to help you get it done as soon as possible. Hugs and prayers for healing and strength :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264181 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 12:21:19 +0000 simplyfelicity 2264181@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thinking of you and hoping your recovering well. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264170 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 11:53:09 +0000 sorrycharlie 2264170@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No no no. I am so sorry. This isn't fair. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264139 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 09:51:47 +0000 mrschickpea 2264139@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: I hope everything went as well as it could :crying: I hope you take some time for you this weekend and I am so so sorry for your loss :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264124 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 09:10:13 +0000 NorthStar 2264124@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thinking of you today and hope the d&amp;c went as well as could be expected. You have a wonderful support system here and we will keep thinking of you. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264122 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 09:01:46 +0000 Modern Daisy 2264122@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry for your loss :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264086 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 06:13:47 +0000 Amorini 2264086@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: I saw your post on another thread and got the same feeling as many here: total heartbreak for you. So sad and mad for you, but you are strong. Stay grounded for as long as you need, but when you are ready, you will take the broken parts, put them back together and fly again. Wishing you comfort and healing as you go through this hell... :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264085 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 06:10:50 +0000 Tidybee 2264085@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: oh my gosh - this is such horrible news. I was so excited for you when you got pregnant. Having been through difficulty getting pregnant and then 2 miscarriages and D&amp;Cs myself, I can imagine how gutted you are feeling...it's just not fair. All I can say is to have hope that one day you'll be holding your precious baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264083 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 05:40:39 +0000 Crystal 2264083@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@AprilFool: thank you. ❤️ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264082 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 05:40:09 +0000 Crystal 2264082@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@2farmmoms: thank you. I hope your IUI works this month. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264079 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 04:37:06 +0000 AprilFool 2264079@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: I am so incredibly sorry. It is so so so unfair. Sending much love your way. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/we-lost-our-baby-1/page/5#post-2264052 Fri, 14 Aug 2015 22:09:04 +0000 Mrs. Turtle 2264052@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh no. This breaks my heart. I'm so sorry to hear this, but I am glad you have found a helpful doctor to use in the future. What an awful experience. I'll be thinking of you. </p>