https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 10 May 2026 13:08:15 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/wedding-date-question#post-2874218 Wed, 27 Feb 2019 17:44:26 +0000 Mrs. Oreo 2874218@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, I agree with reaching out to ask if your kids are in the wedding party :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/wedding-date-question#post-2874199 Wed, 27 Feb 2019 15:33:09 +0000 misolee 2874199@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. Reach out and ask esp bc you have to fly. And the kids are in the wedding party. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/wedding-date-question#post-2874194 Wed, 27 Feb 2019 15:16:34 +0000 Mrsbells 2874194@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@annem1990: @erinbaderin: @kiddosc: Thanks guys, I'm glad I am not the only one that thinks its not ok to not give us a date! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/wedding-date-question#post-2874176 Wed, 27 Feb 2019 14:16:10 +0000 annem1990 2874176@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So weird. a "date range" is not accceptable. Definitely ask if they've chose. If they haven't, tell them you have other things that need to be scheduled and will do so accordingly. If it interferes, oh well. They can't expect anyone (especially those in the wedding party) to wait indefinitely. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/wedding-date-question#post-2874175 Wed, 27 Feb 2019 14:06:26 +0000 erinbaderin 2874175@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You can’t send out a save the date with a two month range, that’s absurd! People are supposed to not make any plans for two months? I would definitely reach out and ask. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/wedding-date-question#post-2874173 Wed, 27 Feb 2019 13:43:34 +0000 kiddosc 2874173@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrsbells: Definitely reach out an ask. If you're in the wedding, then you need to prepare. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/wedding-date-question#post-2874160 Wed, 27 Feb 2019 13:04:08 +0000 Mrsbells 2874160@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@josina: So it was an informal save the date message that just gave a 2 month range because they were still finalizing things...<br /> @Foodnerd81: Thats what DH keeps saying. I feel like its so weird to keep us in the dark and then expect us to make it there. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/wedding-date-question#post-2874155 Wed, 27 Feb 2019 12:58:42 +0000 Foodnerd81 2874155@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Also a “save the date” should include... the date? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/wedding-date-question#post-2874154 Wed, 27 Feb 2019 12:58:20 +0000 josina 2874154@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So the Save the Date didn't give the actual date? I think that's weird!<br /> Since your kids are in the wedding party, I'd just ask. I don't think that'd be rude at all since you need to know now to ensure you can actually be there. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/wedding-date-question#post-2874153 Wed, 27 Feb 2019 12:58:01 +0000 Foodnerd81 2874153@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrsbells: if your kids are in the wedding party you can definitely reach out for more details. That’s not rude, that’s you trying to do everything you can to make it to the wedding! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/wedding-date-question#post-2874150 Wed, 27 Feb 2019 12:55:38 +0000 Mrsbells 2874150@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When you receive save the dates for out of town weddings, when do you expect to get the actual invite with date? We have an out of town wedding this year and our kids are part of the wedding party. We are about 6 or 7 months away and havent been told the date yet and plane ticket prices are going up! We also have other vacations and events planned and cant tell if this will clash. Is it rude to reach out and ask for more details? Or is it better to just wait and see and then if the final date doesnt work just decline? </p>