https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 05 Apr 2026 02:17:28 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139787 Fri, 10 Apr 2015 11:42:49 +0000 Alivoo01 2139787@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First and we were the 1st to be on #2. Might still be depending on when we conceive again, unless my BFF and I conceive together, then that'd be cool too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139736 Fri, 10 Apr 2015 11:08:36 +0000 LauraBear 2139736@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Of most of my hometown/college friends, I am one of the last (but I'm from Georgia). Of DH's friends and our in-common friends, we're the first (but we live in WA State). I'm 31 and DH is 30. First in both of our immediate families, though! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139727 Fri, 10 Apr 2015 11:02:40 +0000 NovBaby1112 2139727@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@petunia354: same!</p> <p>First with both my friends and DHs friends even though he is 5 yrs older. I was 25 when I got pregnant with DD, and around here that is on the younger side. Lots of my friends now are still single and dating and no where near ready to have kids! One of our close couple friends is close to trying though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139715 Fri, 10 Apr 2015 10:53:58 +0000 MoreCoffee 2139715@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Of my closest friends, I was the last. If I look at the wider circle of my friends both male and female, I was somewhere in the middle (at 35!). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139700 Fri, 10 Apr 2015 10:38:20 +0000 Andrea 2139700@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139610 Fri, 10 Apr 2015 09:32:34 +0000 megjay18 2139610@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>first. and now that we're having kid #2, some of them are starting to talk about having kid #1. we were ahead of the game, i guess! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139590 Fri, 10 Apr 2015 09:20:09 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 2139590@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We will be the last couple among my husband's friends. I will be the first among my friends. Most of my friends have long expressed no desire to become a parent. The rest are focused on career and their comfy marriages. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139522 Fri, 10 Apr 2015 08:36:27 +0000 GoGoSnoGirl 2139522@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Last... for now. Lots of my hs classmates had kids really early &amp; some are even grandparents. :shocked: I do have friends my age (AMA) who have babies or have been trying, so hopefully more will follow along behind me, too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139472 Fri, 10 Apr 2015 08:15:57 +0000 Finfan 2139472@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Middle to early with high school friends and one of the first of my college friends (a few of us were pregnant around the same time and have birth within a few months of each other). A lot of my friends still don't have kids. I am 31. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139395 Fri, 10 Apr 2015 07:27:05 +0000 MrsRcCar 2139395@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would say first mostly I had N at 24. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139392 Fri, 10 Apr 2015 07:24:58 +0000 MrsF 2139392@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pretty much the first </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139373 Fri, 10 Apr 2015 07:16:46 +0000 Tanjowen 2139373@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Last. And I swear that somehow between my pregnancy and 15 months in to being a parent, all my friends have had 2 kids and are pregnant with the 3rd. I'm the turtle of the group in regards to babies :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139267 Fri, 10 Apr 2015 01:12:31 +0000 Mrs.Pinecone316 2139267@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would say middle. We have a lot of friends who started having kids several years ago, a lot who are in the same boat as us and pregnant with their first or have a baby and some friends who are trying or getting married now so are a little ways away from kids. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139252 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 23:57:51 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2139252@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I know a lot of young moms but for my age group I'd still say I was one of the first. I was very young! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2139251 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 23:51:01 +0000 AprilFool 2139251@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First and I was 31. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2138552 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 14:49:38 +0000 BandDmommy 2138552@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>last </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2138551 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 14:49:31 +0000 lamariniere 2138551@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First by a long shot and I had just turned 30 when LO1 was born! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2138548 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 14:48:18 +0000 JennyLayneAZ 2138548@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I will definitely be the last. We're all in our 30's now (I'm the youngest at 32) and my friends who are having babies did so already. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2138538 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 14:39:02 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 2138538@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First for both of us. Most of my friends are just thinking about trying this year - 4+ years after we had our first. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2138465 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 14:03:10 +0000 JessKas 2138465@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First for both my friends and DH's friends. I now have a few friends pregnant with their first, and a few of DH's friends are starting TTC. I'm pregnant with our second though... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2138235 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 12:20:14 +0000 buttermilk 2138235@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First!! And I'm 29! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2138151 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 11:30:48 +0000 BKCaribBaby 2138151@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Middle for my group of friends. Definitely last for DH's college friends. Of his high school friends, only one has kids. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last/page/2#post-2138070 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 10:54:56 +0000 rattles 2138070@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@petunia354: that was my experience too. It's so tough. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last#post-2138068 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 10:54:20 +0000 rattles 2138068@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First. I'm glad not to be alone in it anymore. I wasn't young, but being an attorney, most people wait longer than I did. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last#post-2138064 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 10:52:27 +0000 snowjewelz 2138064@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would say middle </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last#post-2137960 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 10:14:21 +0000 petunia354 2137960@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First and only so far, it's a lonely existence..... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last#post-2137946 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 10:08:25 +0000 swurlygurl 2137946@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>WAY first. I have 2 and am thinking about #3, while none of my friends are even thinking about kids yet :(<br /> I have inherited some of DH's friends that have kids, thankfully. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last#post-2137942 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 10:06:08 +0000 prettylizy 2137942@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First/same time as my bestie, early for our broader circle in general.. though my circle of friends has changed since having kids as others have said </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last#post-2137923 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 10:00:56 +0000 Anagram 2137923@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Depends on the circle of friends. First in my "adult single girl friends"; middle if college friends; last of high school friends. </p> <p>DH is middle of his friends. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/were-you-one-of-the-first-middle-or-last#post-2137915 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 09:58:11 +0000 mrscobee 2137915@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LibbyLou: Me too!! Haha!</p> <p>We are closer to the back end among most our friends. However, most our friends are between 2-5 years older than us... Adjust for age, and we are having #1 about the same age they all had #1 like 2-3 years ago... Among people we know, in the grand scheme of things, we are closer to middle... </p>