https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 11 Apr 2026 13:58:44 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679827 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 16:40:41 +0000 LilSprinkles 2679827@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We haven't come across bad words get, but we have words that are allowed at home (booty, booty butt and using fart<br /> And poop silly) and not appropriate outside of the house. DS is really good about it too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679814 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 16:21:24 +0000 littlejoy 2679814@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugsmama: "And you want me to do what about it?" ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679795 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 15:59:58 +0000 Boogs 2679795@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Stupid, dumb, idiot and the major bad ones of course. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679792 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 15:56:56 +0000 mrsbubbletea 2679792@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JenGirl: i like this, thanks for bringing it up! </p> <p>@Meowkers: @littlejoy: I was observing in my son's new class, and one of the older kids ran to tell the teacher "he said Donald trump!" About another older kid. She was like "ok." Haha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679568 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 12:16:26 +0000 JenGirl 2679568@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Personally, I'm trying to work on removing ableist words from my vocabulary. It's really hard because some are so ingrained (stupid, dumb, crazy, nuts idiot, lame, etc.), but I'm making some progress. This list of ableist terms and alternatives has really helped:<br /> <a href="http://www.autistichoya.com/p/ableist-words-and-terms-to-avoid.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.autistichoya.com/p/ableist-words-and-terms-to-avoid.html</a> </p> <p>Right now my son's only 15 months so this hasn't become a concern yet, for him, but I imagine I will try to discourage him from using ableist words as well.</p> <p>As far as squeemish words, like fart or panty, while I may not like using them myself, I don't think I'd teach them as off-limits words. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679562 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 12:03:32 +0000 littlejoy 2679562@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Meowkers: He was on the TV the other night, and our 3 year old said, "Is that Donald Trump?" ... I honestly felt gutted for a second. First of all, I'm not sure how she even knew (we rarely have the TV on), but I thought we had a few years until she'd know who he was. Sounds silly, but it was so weird. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679557 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 11:59:14 +0000 Meowkers 2679557@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No one is allowed to say TRUMP in our house. :silly: </p> <p>Any words that are mean or hurtful are not allowed. One particular one that really gets my blood boiling is "retard(ed)." </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679514 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 11:24:54 +0000 littlejoy 2679514@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I kind of go with the idea of "no bad words" ... thought, meaning and actions are what I care about. If LO picks up a cuss word (which is the only word I'd consider "bad"), we nonchalantly tell her that's a word that adults can use, and I'll usually apologize for using it around her. If she says things like "stupid", we'all consider the context and remind her of a better word (but that's really only if she's being mean - the word doesn't really matter). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679495 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 11:07:29 +0000 808love 2679495@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We also have sub-rules for inappropriate words. For example:<br /> We should not say butt but somehow butt-butt is ok. And butt pronounced like "boot" is approved. But only spoken at home with family. And never say inappropriate words at school. LOL. Fart and panties are a go! Especially Aunty Panties. Just not at school. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679431 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 10:01:55 +0000 caterw 2679431@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: OMG my daughter scolds us if we use a "bad" word too. We don't say stupid/ dumb, hate (we say don't like), shut up, fart (we say puff) , or butt (we say tush or bottom). </p> <p>It's hilarious when she hears those words in a movie or on the radio- she will scold them too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679385 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 09:06:36 +0000 Mamaof2 2679385@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Its not bad but I cannot stand when my kids call each other DUMB! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679372 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 08:45:08 +0000 ShootingStar 2679372@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: What's wrong with the word panties?</p> <p>I'm not really all that big on anything other than swear words being "bad". For example, the word stupid isn't inherently bad. But you shouldn't call someone else stupid. I also don't see anything wrong with fart. We call both my kids farty-pants at times, lol. To me whether you call it a fart, a toot, a boop, it's still the same thing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679357 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 08:25:41 +0000 littlebug 2679357@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Butt, fart, shut up, and anything that's mean. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679331 Fri, 13 Jan 2017 01:18:51 +0000 808love 2679331@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I asked LO and she said, "Bad words are fat, mean, and stupid. And butt is inappropriate." </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679280 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 22:54:22 +0000 travellingbee 2679280@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Well it was mostly just curse words until he "got in trouble" at daycare for saying stupid so we had to make it a big taboo. Now he is always correcting my parents and in laws. "We don't say that!" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679260 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 22:22:46 +0000 Foodnerd81 2679260@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ummmm f*ck and godammit. Oops. </p> <p>We limit words like stupid and shut up and will gently say it's not nice but those haven't been an issue. We had a fly problem and now we keep saying flies are jerks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679255 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 22:13:35 +0000 Anagram 2679255@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>hmmm...my husband keeps telling me that I should tone done my usage of "butt" and poop related jokes, but so far I haven't been listening. :silly: I call Peppa pig "Poopa pig", for instance. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679245 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 21:59:03 +0000 mediagirl 2679245@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@oliviaoblivia: hahaha. My daughter scolds us - "mommy...did you hear daddy...? We don't say that!" (She's just missing the finger wag) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679242 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 21:50:50 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 2679242@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Haha DH HATES the word panties. So we say underwear. </p> <p>We don't use stupid or shut up. She's also started saying "freaking" but I swear we don't say it that often so I'm surprised by how much and how correctly she uses it. I'm trying to get her to stop. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679237 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 21:44:54 +0000 oliviaoblivia 2679237@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>"Did you just say STUPID?!?!"<br /> she gets all offended like I called her mother a whore.. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-are-bad-words-in-your-house#post-2679232 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 21:35:11 +0000 mediagirl 2679232@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Stupid and fart are bad words in our house. We have never discussed curse words and try to minimize their use so, "bad" words are minor ones. We get scolded by the 4 year old if we use stupid. </p> <p>We use toot instead of fart. </p> <p>I also discourage the use of the word panties. </p> <p>What are bad words in your house? </p>