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Hellobee Boards Topic: What did you do in memory of your miscarriage? https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 06 Jun 2026 23:30:42 +0000 mlm2934 on "What did you do in memory of your miscarriage?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-you-do-in-memory-of-your-miscarriage#post-1477331 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 07:52:51 +0000 mlm2934 1477331@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We went to one of those paint and drink classes the next day after we found out to try to cheer ourselves up. The painting was of a budding branch in spring. I have them hanging in my bedroom and they remind me of a sad time, but that new things grow. imbali on "What did you do in memory of your miscarriage?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-you-do-in-memory-of-your-miscarriage#post-1470524 Wed, 05 Mar 2014 16:05:12 +0000 imbali 1470524@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Ours was a bit different b/c it was quite late at 20 weeks, but DH and I both got tattoos, we organised a plaque for the baby an put it on my grandparents' grave and then we had a kind of memorial, just the two of us, on his due date. So sorry about your loss :sad: gingerbebe on "What did you do in memory of your miscarriage?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-you-do-in-memory-of-your-miscarriage#post-1470249 Wed, 05 Mar 2014 15:05:24 +0000 gingerbebe 1470249@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We were going to get me a piece of jewelry but I never found exactly what I wanted in either case. For both our losses, we named our babies (while it was early, we both had a sense that they were each girls). We sent out cards (basically like a baby announcement) to our friends and close family that included their name, the meaning behind it, and the Bible verse that helped us through each loss. We have saved one of each and will eventually have them framed. We were very open about our loss with our family and community and it allowed us to go through the full grieving process - almost like having a wake - because it acknowledged the life and the death. We found it to be very healing and oddly super helpful to other women we knew who had miscarried but had never talked to anyone about it until we brought our own MC up. Torchwood on "What did you do in memory of your miscarriage?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-you-do-in-memory-of-your-miscarriage#post-1470184 Wed, 05 Mar 2014 14:52:22 +0000 Torchwood 1470184@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I got a bracelet off etsy. It had the doctor who quote- "The way I see it, every life is a pile of good things and bad things… The good things don't always soften the bad things, but vice versa, the bad things don't necessarily spoil the good things, and make them unimportant." I also intended to get a Christmas ornament, but now that I think of it, we never found one I liked so I didn't. I'd still like to do that. My second loss was so early I didn't do anything for it. Had it been my first, I probably would have, but after a later one it just didn't seem as big of a deal. deactivated_account on "What did you do in memory of your miscarriage?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-you-do-in-memory-of-your-miscarriage#post-1470180 Wed, 05 Mar 2014 14:51:12 +0000 deactivated_account 1470180@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I walk with my friend who lost a baby in an annual Walk to Remember. I think that organization has chapters throughout California and maybe other states. catlady on "What did you do in memory of your miscarriage?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-you-do-in-memory-of-your-miscarriage#post-1470169 Wed, 05 Mar 2014 14:49:28 +0000 catlady 1470169@https://boards.hellobee.com/ After my mc, a lot of cardinals started hanging around our yard. I remember thinking they somehow came by to tell me that everything would be ok. So we bought a christmas ornament of a small cardinal to remember. purrpletulips on "What did you do in memory of your miscarriage?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-you-do-in-memory-of-your-miscarriage#post-1470164 Wed, 05 Mar 2014 14:49:11 +0000 purrpletulips 1470164@https://boards.hellobee.com/ My friend planted a weeping cherry tree in their yard MrsH on "What did you do in memory of your miscarriage?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-you-do-in-memory-of-your-miscarriage#post-1470159 Wed, 05 Mar 2014 14:47:48 +0000 MrsH 1470159@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We planted a hydrangea. spaniellove on "What did you do in memory of your miscarriage?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-you-do-in-memory-of-your-miscarriage#post-1470152 Wed, 05 Mar 2014 14:46:41 +0000 spaniellove 1470152@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We have an angel ornament for our Christmas tree. It's part of our tradition where we get an angel for special people we've lost that year. swedishfish on "What did you do in memory of your miscarriage?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-you-do-in-memory-of-your-miscarriage#post-1470080 Wed, 05 Mar 2014 14:33:30 +0000 swedishfish 1470080@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I'm thinking about buying a necklace or bracelet to help heal. What did you do? Do you have any suggestions for me?