https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 11 Apr 2026 12:54:24 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174847 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 13:31:14 +0000 Koolbreeze 1174847@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I ask a million questions a day. About anything and everything. And about two million questions each time we watch football. I'm pretty sure he purposely ignores me then! LOL. I can't help it. I'm just curious! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174813 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 13:17:34 +0000 MsLipGloss 1174813@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Over the course of a few days, I will leave a pair of shoes in almost every room of the house.</p> <p>I constantly forget to put things back in the fridge (that is a carry-over from my pg days!)</p> <p>I flip out over small stuff . . . but I always take the big stuff in stride. *shrug* I am a little high strung! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174798 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 13:12:40 +0000 bpcmarj 1174798@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am not a great cleaner...at all. I also take all of his bad moods personally, which make them worse, when they usually have nothing to do with me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174762 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 13:00:30 +0000 spaniellove 1174762@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I make giant piles - my clothes, books, old mail. In the beginning he was quasi-horrified and now he's learned to live around it. Like in our current home I just have a bench for the clothes and he doesn't say anything, or he just moves aside my pile of books when it gets in his way. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174750 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 12:53:50 +0000 .twist. 1174750@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I leave my cereal bowls on the counter so my cat can drink the last of the milk. Then the bowl gets crusty. I leave dishes around the house. I leave clothes around the house. I don't eat well balanced meals unless he makes them for me. The list could go on and on! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174704 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 12:36:23 +0000 2PeasinaPod 1174704@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@littlek: I do the same thing and it drives DH nuts. He's started saying things like, "You SHOULD be sorry. Why couldn't you control the weather today?" </p> <p>I leave things out to remind myself to do something. I'll leave a piece of paper on the kitchen table to remind myself to make a doctor's appointment and it will sit there for a week or more. Drives him bonkers. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174700 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 12:33:22 +0000 Littlebit 1174700@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't clean enough. He likes things super clean, but doesn't care if things aren't tidy. Whereas I like everything in it's place, but I'll go a little longer without cleaning.</p> <p>Oh, and when I'm anxious (99% of the time), I massage my scalp/mess with my hair/scratch my head like crazy. He hates that! </p> <p>He also hates that I'm such a picky eater. But I've been working on that one..I'm getting a little better! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174699 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 12:33:16 +0000 Cherrybee 1174699@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I ram things in cupboards when Im tidying - outta sight, outta mind - and they fall on him when he opens them. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174655 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 12:12:04 +0000 Alivoo01 1174655@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@swedishfish: look at you.... sly dog you.... hahahaha! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174650 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 12:06:17 +0000 MamaMoose 1174650@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I leave bottles of water with two sips left all over the house. It makes him ca-razy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174571 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 11:32:25 +0000 Lindsay05 1174571@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I dont tell him what I want, then I get mad when he doesnt figure it out! I just tell him that I dont want to be a nag! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174527 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 11:13:07 +0000 littlek 1174527@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I say "I'm sorry" too much. I apologize for things I did not do, it drives DH crazy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174495 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 10:57:04 +0000 bushelandapeck 1174495@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@lovehoneybee: I am the same. Its so hard for me to make decisions but I'm good at telling him what I don't want to do :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174461 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 10:44:42 +0000 swedishfish 1174461@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Alivoo01: haha I compliment his bathroom cleaning skills and then ask him to doe a huge favor and clean it while I'm at work. :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy/page/2#post-1174107 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 08:46:07 +0000 Alivoo01 1174107@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Bee: I'm a chronic scratcher too! DH sometimes has to come over to me and physically hold my arm/hand to prevent me from scratching!</p> <p>@SwedishFish: how do you do that?? I want to know the secret! </p> <p>I'm super duper indecisive and always make the hubby decide. on EVERYTHING! He also hates it when we have an argument that shut down completely and don't say a word. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173903 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 07:34:50 +0000 irene 1173903@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So many things!!!!</p> <p>1. If I left used plates/cups on my desk and not bring it back to the kitchen. He's threatening to take pictures and put it on facebook (ETA: Clarify, it is not THAT bad. Occasional 1 or 2 cups / plates, it's not like I have 12 cups on my desk);</p> <p>2. If he opens the fridge and it is not organized in a way he'd like (something like this: <a href="http://theglamoroushousewife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/organized+fridge+6.1.jpg)" rel="nofollow">http://theglamoroushousewife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/organized+fridge+6.1.jpg)</a> - phew. This one causes serious fights for many times.</p> <p>3. If the kitchen counter is not spotless when he needs to use it (he'd say I didn't keep it clean during the week)</p> <p>4. If I didn't "make an effort" to "keep it together": eg. Last weekend I put my unfinished coffee on LO's stroller (there is a lame fabric cupholder) while we were paying for parking at the parking lot. IT was a chaos anyway. So when we were ready to go I forgot the cup was just leaning on the stroller, not really inserted into the cupholder. DH pushed the stroller over a bump. The cup flipped and coffee spilled everywhere. My God. That just ruined our weekend completely because he was very upset at me "not making an effort to make sure the cup is in the holder so coffee doesn't spill".</p> <p>Sometimes I feel like I am married to a version of that guy in "Sleeping With The Enemy". (no no, no that extreme at all. Maybe 1% of it). Grrrr. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173886 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 07:25:06 +0000 SugarplumsMom 1173886@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I almost forgot: when I crack my neck, and scratch "like I'm taking my skin off" :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173881 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 07:22:34 +0000 SugarplumsMom 1173881@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't know about crazy, DH's pretty laid back and doesn't get upset much. But he does comment when I don't recycle and when I forget to put the cap on the toothpaste. He makes fun of me when I refuse to eat bread that isn't pre-sliced (that he loves to buy) and I also looooove boxes and acts like it's a treat when I tell him he can throw it away. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173867 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 07:15:08 +0000 mediagirl 1173867@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Leave the lights on and doors open. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173848 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 06:57:55 +0000 MCD919 1173848@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He is definitely tidier than I a, and likes things put back neatly in their place. I'm getting better.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173799 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 05:37:09 +0000 Bao 1173799@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He dislikes when I pull the sheets up over the bed, he likes them tight and I like them jumbled up around my feet. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173773 Fri, 25 Oct 2013 01:50:06 +0000 sandy 1173773@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband hates it when he asks me "what did you just say" and instead of just repeating what I said louder I say something different. He's always telling me he just couldn't hear me not that he didn't understand and needed me to rephrase </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173673 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 23:40:40 +0000 MediaNaranja 1173673@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BabyMats: I say "what" a lot to and it drives him nuts. I'm also really messy, but am overly anal about where to put things away and always point it out when it's wrong. I am also a terrible backseat driver. Terrible! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173668 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 23:32:42 +0000 Mrs. Bee 1173668@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>peel the dry skin off my lips, and scratch, scratch, scratch. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173633 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 22:58:12 +0000 PointeShoesTutus 1173633@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My bed time routine drives him crazy. It takes me a bit to get settled into a comfortable position (due to chronic pain) so I flop around a bit. Then I read on my iPad for a while. Then, I inevitably have to get up to pee so I disturb hi. Getting in and out of bed again. </p> <p>He's one of those guys who falls asleep almost as soon as his head hits the pillow but doesn't go right into deep sleep. So my nightly routine can wake him once or twice. I tell him it's my revenge since his snoring keeps me up at night and I'm already a raging insomniac....I need no extra help not falling asleep. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173625 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 22:43:00 +0000 808love 1173625@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Remind him and then complain about reminding him....aka nag. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173591 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 21:47:59 +0000 nana87 1173591@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I leave the faucet in the bathroom dripping-- I always forget that you have to turn the hot water knob way extra tight to turn it off all the way </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173580 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 21:42:04 +0000 StbHisMrs 1173580@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am ocd about cleaning, not as much as I was before young kids (no time!) but it drives him nuts that I have to have everything at least picked up and the dishes done before I come to bed or leave the house. I also ask too many questions. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173578 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 21:41:17 +0000 BabyMats 1173578@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I buy DVDs out of the$5 sales bin it's drives him nuts because I have a few hundred movies and still rent movies out of the red box. That bugs him.<br /> When he is taking to me I say, "huh" or "what" before I fully process what he is saying then I answer without him repeating what he had to say in the first place. I process it slower..can't help it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-do-you-do-that-drives-your-so-crazy#post-1173577 Thu, 24 Oct 2013 21:38:50 +0000 Ree723 1173577@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I worry about everything and am completely indecisive - both traits drive him nuts!</p> <p>I refuse to kill bugs (but still want them dead) and won't dispose of them once they are dead.</p> <p>I am super anal retentive and usually refold laundry after he has just folded it all because he doesn't do it the same way I do. Same with some chores. Drives him absolutely insane! </p>