https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 07 Apr 2026 10:09:53 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before/page/2#post-2154149 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 11:56:05 +0000 MediaNaranja 2154149@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd like to drop at least 20-30lbs, purchase a home, and visit my husband's family in South America before trying :D </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before/page/2#post-2154131 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 11:44:14 +0000 LovelyPlum 2154131@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Anya: LOL. Do you guys co-sleep, too? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before/page/2#post-2154128 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 11:41:26 +0000 LovelyPlum 2154128@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH needs a raise (he's in line for one soon-ish), and I need to finish my qualifying exams and start dissertation research. He'd like to STTN first, but I'm ambivalent. I'd like to lose a bit more weight, but it's not a deal breaker. I do need my period to start again, though ;) </p> <p>I'd love to TTC again in the fall. DH may want to wait until early next year. We'll see what happens. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before/page/2#post-2154080 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 11:18:16 +0000 Applesandbananas 2154080@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@anonysquire: aww, why does she hate him?? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before/page/2#post-2153904 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 10:10:08 +0000 cascademom 2153904@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@hilsy85: @mrsjyw: As a second pregnancy, this one has been different and more tiring than the first. Managing a toddler on top of being unable to bend down and play fully with LO is tough. Physically, this dude is positioned differently than LO was. He makes walking tough a lot of the time. With LO, I had a ton of infections. This time around, I'm battling head colds galore. I'm on my third or fourth one. I'm so over being pregnant right now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153830 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 09:41:04 +0000 catlady 2153830@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>A few more months to pass. That's it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153787 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 09:21:22 +0000 mediagirl 2153787@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Winning the lottery. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153781 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 09:19:50 +0000 MrsKoala 2153781@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Either my DH or I get a hefty raise or a new higher paying job. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153780 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 09:19:16 +0000 Smurfette 2153780@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mexico in November for a friend's wedding but we will probably wait till next summer to TTC. That way we only have two in day care for a couple months at most. We are ready for another, but are being smart about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153778 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 09:18:46 +0000 BandDmommy 2153778@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Weaning. I keep getting pregnant and miscarrying because I'm EBF. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153774 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 09:16:39 +0000 mrscobee 2153774@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Have this baby, and then after about 8-9 months pass, will start trying for #2, assuming we adjust to parenthood okay. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153766 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 09:11:54 +0000 MrsH 2153766@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@loveisstrange: :) count me in as a +1 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153685 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 08:37:22 +0000 snowjewelz 2153685@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DD has to be at least 1, then we will think about when we want to TTC again. Currently I don't want to try till she is closer to 2. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153667 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 08:25:15 +0000 mrsjyw 2153667@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>have baby #2 in July and see how life is with two :) then we'll reassess. I'd also like to nurse for a year and lose pregnancy weight before ttc. I'm 50/50 at this point, this pregnancy has been much more taxing than my first. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153664 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 08:23:54 +0000 hilsy85 2153664@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Have this baby, nurse for 1-1.5 years, and have weaned for a few months! No interest in tandem nursing/nursing while pregnant...and this is assuming that having 2 doesn't drive me bonkers. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153660 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 08:20:44 +0000 Mrs. Toad 2153660@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>After I finish grad school in Dec 2016, so until May of 2016 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153621 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 08:02:03 +0000 Chillybear 2153621@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd like to loose 20ish lbs, trade in both our cars, and move into a bigger home </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153603 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 07:52:35 +0000 Anya 2153603@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Definitely a king sized bed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153574 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 07:41:35 +0000 TheReelDeal 2153574@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Figuring out how to pay for daycare for two kids. Once that is done, I'll be ready to start TTC again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153561 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 07:33:32 +0000 catomd00 2153561@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wait 3 months to make sure I'd deliver after I'm eligible for Fmla at my new job! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153548 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 07:26:08 +0000 illumina 2153548@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Our travels for the year need to be done with because I do not want to be travelling if I feel as rough as I did when pregnant with LO. I'd like to get back to my pre-preg weight as well. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153512 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 06:56:33 +0000 yellowbird 2153512@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I need to go back for more training and start a new job. At least 3ish years from now, maybe more. Maybe we're done?? I'm not sure! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153494 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 06:46:25 +0000 blackbird 2153494@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Have this baby......get my career situated.....E in school.....so, 5-6 years need to pass? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153490 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 06:42:49 +0000 Peasinapod 2153490@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Dd1 needs to be in kindergarten. Also have to see how our finances are at that point. So won't start trying for just under two years! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153485 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 06:39:18 +0000 Mrs. Champagne 2153485@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH wants to wait until he gets through this insane program at work. He wants me to be due the month after he finishes. Sooo waiting for November to ttc. Unless I convince him sooner ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153465 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 06:15:37 +0000 hotchildinthecity 2153465@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For us, it would be adopting again so we would have to save the money. Also we'd have to be able to afford two in day care, or have LO in UPK or kindergarten. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153443 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 05:28:33 +0000 avivoca 2153443@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Husband needs to get on board (we both agree that there will be another, but he's not ready to TTC). I'd like to get pregnant this year, I am eager to put my baby making years behind me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153442 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 05:10:57 +0000 miramira 2153442@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DS has to start school! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153420 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 03:33:09 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2153420@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@lamariniere: true!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-has-to-happen-before#post-2153409 Thu, 23 Apr 2015 03:06:16 +0000 regberadaisy 2153409@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>#2 to turn 1 and me to get a full time job or figure out some way to SAH but still have. A supplemental income. </p>