https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 01 May 2026 17:14:52 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so/page/2#post-1359496 Sun, 19 Jan 2014 11:43:11 +0000 travelingnanny 1359496@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon Oh no :( I really wanted to defend the dad but I just sat there and watched it unfold. I don't think he's touched the laundry since : )</p> <p>I loved these stories! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so/page/2#post-1357169 Fri, 17 Jan 2014 16:12:18 +0000 Beyond2 1357169@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@beckysue: Haha, Men! I'm still not sure what is funny about it... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so/page/2#post-1357152 Fri, 17 Jan 2014 16:03:02 +0000 prettylizy 1357152@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Smurfette: It was epic. Probably one of the most ridiculous things I've ever done. We reference the "door fight" often. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so/page/2#post-1357147 Fri, 17 Jan 2014 16:00:44 +0000 MadamBabyFever 1357147@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We had a ridiculous argument last summer, we live about one and a half hours away from the beach, so going takes a little planning. We'd decided to leave at 8am on a sunday and as I'm getting ready, making sandwiches and sorting the rest of the stuff we need hubs comes downstairs declares he is ready to go. Except he is wearing jeans and CAT boots with his t-shirt, not really beach attire. I asked if he wanted me to pack his shorts so he could change when we got there, but no he was planning wearing his boots and jeans to the beach. At that point I just flipped, and said something like I'm not going to the beach with you dressed like this.<br /> Well that didn't go down well, and there was a lot of yelling on both sides.<br /> So ridiculous, we made up about an hour later and then tried to head to the beach. never did get there, but that's another story. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so/page/2#post-1357104 Fri, 17 Jan 2014 15:40:46 +0000 Smurfette 1357104@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@prettylizy: That is freaking awesome </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so/page/2#post-1357093 Fri, 17 Jan 2014 15:36:51 +0000 beckysue 1357093@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Beyond2: My husband does that...a lot! So very annoying! He thinks it is hysterical. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so/page/2#post-1357061 Fri, 17 Jan 2014 15:24:06 +0000 prettylizy 1357061@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ok so it's a little long but here goes. </p> <p>I was reading in bed with my light on, He wanted me to turn it off, I wanted to finish my chapter. (We were both crabby) He then storms out of the room to go sleep in the spare room, which I HATE and he knows drives me crazy. So I follow him out there and say "Don't close the door, the dogs will whine to get in and I don't want to wake up DD" He closes the door. I open the door. He closes it again, I open it again. This goes on along with some ridiculous whisper fighting (so as to not wake DD) for a few minutes. Then I think I've got it figured out, so I go into the spare room, pull out the hinge pins and take the door off the frame and walk down the hallway holding our spare room door in my hands. I was pretty pleased with how clever I was at this point. So he gets up and and walks over to our master bedroom and pulls that door of the hinges to put back on the hinges to the spare room. At this point we are both standing in our hallway holding doors staring at each other and just bust out laughing. I don't think I've laughed that hard in a long, long time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so/page/2#post-1357042 Fri, 17 Jan 2014 15:14:41 +0000 indi 1357042@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ours was over him ordering me a vanilla cone dipped in chocolate rather than a chocolate cone dipped in chocolate at the drive-through. Seriously. :grin: </p> <p>I refused to eat it, it was melting, there were debates on why the driver shouldn't order for the whole car or what the proper way to order in the drive-through was, if he was "reaally listening" to me, how did he not know I didn't like it, I should like the treat it's all the same, blah blah blah. Oooh, being teens and dating was so fun sometimes. LOL. We don't fight much anymore, but some of those early dumb ones were hilariously stupid. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so/page/2#post-1355205 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:42:59 +0000 Beyond2 1355205@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH thought it was funny to put his finger in my mouth when i yawned once. i was in a bad mood and FLIPPED out... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so/page/2#post-1355114 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:21:56 +0000 mrs. wagon 1355114@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@travelingnanny: oh my glob. That was ours. He is NOT allowed to do the laundry.</p> <p>Well, he knows not to mess with folding because I have a certain way of folding clothes. He has the items he can fold and I fold the rest. </p> <p>BUT. Once every 3 years or so, he will forget our rule and try to help out and run a load of laundry. Every time he's done the laundry on his own, he's destroyed something. And considering the care I take in choosing clothing items and waiting for them to go on sale, holding onto coupons, etc. I get pretty upset. Once he ran all my bathing suits through hot wash and high heat dry. Needless to say, they were all destroyed and women's bathing suits are NOT CHEAP! A few were from target but two were from j. crew. I waited and waited until they finally went on sale and there was a 40% off all sale items clearance. I had only worn one once. Once he didn't check pockets and gum destroyed a pair of his pants... etc.</p> <p>So the last time I was really sick he was going crazy taking care of both kids, so he ignored a lot of other household things that he's normally in charge of (vacuuming, trash, etc) BUT he decided to run a load of laundry. He didn't use the stain stick and ran it through high heat dry again (!!) so stains galore.... Bahhh. I got so angry because I specifically told him not to touch the laundry (even though he should already know from our rule and multiple laundry fights from the past!) and he didn't even do the vacuuming or trash!!! because he was too busy doing the laundry!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1354526 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 18:24:17 +0000 MediaNaranja 1354526@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Omg, today we were fighting about where to put a bookshelf. I wanted it 6 inches more to the left of where he put it. So stupid, but while it was happening we both had to leave the room, lol.</p> <p>I'll move it myself in a few days, and I doubt he'll even notice. I should have just done that in the first place. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1354522 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 18:23:19 +0000 Torchwood 1354522@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@grizz: DH has been warned MANY times that dutch ovening me is grounds for getting kicked in the nuts. Period. As far as I am concerned, they are equally terrible to do to someone. He really wants to do it, but he knows I'm serious. Farts gross me out SO bad. I would probably wind up throwing up if he ever did it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1354489 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 18:16:01 +0000 Mae 1354489@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We got into a really big fight about who was going to wash a muffin tin. And by wash I mean, transport it the 3 feet from the counter to the dishwasher. Like, a BIG FIGHT. lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1354485 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 18:14:34 +0000 mrs. 64 1354485@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Our fist big fight was because he thought I was eating too many of his Wendy's fries.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1354473 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 18:08:34 +0000 mjane 1354473@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Silva: I've only had one glass of wine, but I side with you. :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1354304 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 17:16:53 +0000 Mrs. Tiger 1354304@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We got in a huge fight that started with DH upset that I leave the little tops to breastmilk storage bags on the counter! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1354257 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 17:01:44 +0000 Silva 1354257@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mjane: lol the worst part is neither of us can remember why we were arguing because we both agreed that brad was the person with a commitment, so he takes the blame. Angelina isn't blameless, but he gets more. I think then we got into some hypothetical about "what if Jen and Angelina were friends" and I said that in that case Angelina held equal blame because then she too had a commitment to Jen.</p> <p>Eta: I remember! I said that brad was to blame completely, and that although immoral, Angelina couldn't be "blamed" because she had no responsibility to Jen or brad/jens relationship. I think my husband was saying that there is a social obligation to respect committed relationships, so she held some blame.<br /> We got pretty existential with it. Like I said: alcohol was involved. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1354247 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 16:58:25 +0000 Boogs 1354247@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH deleted someone off the DVR, he finished watching and I hadn't. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1354246 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 16:58:07 +0000 mjane 1354246@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Silva: I have to know... Who is to blame? Angelina, or Brad? And what about Jen??? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1354157 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 16:39:35 +0000 Silva 1354157@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We haven't actually gotten angry about one of our debates in awhile, but we used to get a little out of hand....<br /> -The disadvantages of poverty versus marginalized race/ethnicities<br /> - who is to blame more, Angelina or brad? (This involve some alcohol, and was the only time my husband has ever yelled at me. It was bad.)<br /> - and basically anytime we watched the sopranos or the wire we'd get into a nature/nurture debate or a debate about whether or not there are truly evil un-changeable people in the world.</p> <p>We probably agree on all of these. We just like to debate and hear ourselves talk a little too much. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1353962 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 15:41:10 +0000 mrs.shinerbock 1353962@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We had a huge fight about whether or not we should sign up for a veggie co-op. Silly. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1353947 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 15:38:09 +0000 Mrs. Champagne 1353947@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@yoursilverlining: omg he so is! I'm on your side!</p> <p>hmm I can't think of anything specific, but most of our fights are *so* dumb! haha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1353910 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 15:30:29 +0000 psw27 1353910@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>oh gosh, we fight over nothing all the time... I can't even remember. I'm sure there will be a silly one tonight! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1353903 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 15:27:27 +0000 TemperanceBrennan 1353903@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It wasn't with my husband, but our close friends and I (four couples total) got in a HUGE discussion/argument about how people may or may not perceive colors. It was a drop down, drag out fight that went on for hours - two couples against two couples. Nothing was ever resolved and now we joke about the conversation that must not be named. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1353877 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 15:21:45 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 1353877@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had had a really rough day &amp; had drank 1/2 a bottle of wine....we went to a friends house for game night &amp; he had been making rude/silly comments toward me all night &amp; the combination of alcohol &amp; already being aggravated something he said set me off, I threw my game piece at him (the one &amp; only time I d ever thrown anything at him) &amp; left the friends house. I really embarrassed myself (&amp; him!) that day but thankfully our friends have a sense of humor. lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1353872 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 15:21:22 +0000 travelingnanny 1353872@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@locavore_mama- ok, I can appreciate that. I am very cautious with what I post online and don't think I overstepped any lines today. It was just meant to be for fun. My old bosses and I love to laugh about that story. They also know I write about them : ) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1353871 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 15:21:06 +0000 mrbee 1353871@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@IRunForFun: Ooh, that is some advanced guilt technique he busted out there! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1353864 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 15:20:22 +0000 lovehoneybee 1353864@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@grizz: Ah, the old dutch oven joke! D has decided that he will do this to me once in our lives. I (jokingly) told him I'd divorce him if he did. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1353856 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 15:18:42 +0000 IRunForFun 1353856@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We got in a fight about flossing teeth. He's a floss Nazi and sometimes I forget to floss and he hounds me about it. He'll follow me around with floss and it drives me nuts. One day we got in a fight about it and he said I must not love him as much as he loves me because by not flossing I'm going to die early of heart disease and leave him alone. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-the-silliest-fight-but-very-serious-at-the-time-that-youve-ever-gotten-into-with-your-so#post-1353852 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 15:17:20 +0000 Boheme 1353852@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@IRunForFun: hahaha! I just do NOT want to be trapped with a fart! Under the covers, elevators, in a car.... *shudders* </p>