https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 15 May 2026 02:51:41 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613879 Tue, 05 Mar 2013 11:26:17 +0000 Bao 613879@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@highwire: I know I noticed that too, it was so odd..."do you want a hug, or a gift" "Do you want the dishes done, or a gift" "Do you want to spend time with your SO, or a gift" lol sheesh! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613872 Tue, 05 Mar 2013 11:25:06 +0000 .twist. 613872@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@highwire: I wondered the same thing.</p> <p>Mine is quality time with a close second for Physical Touch (which actually shocked me). </p> <p>I think acts of service would have been higher except that my husband does SO much already that it ended up pretty low on my list. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613816 Tue, 05 Mar 2013 11:05:39 +0000 DillonLion 613816@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Why is there so many questions about receiving gifts? Every single question seemed to be either Choice #1 or Something Related to Gifts. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613809 Tue, 05 Mar 2013 11:03:52 +0000 DillonLion 613809@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine is words of affirmation. I just sent it to DH for him to do. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613781 Tue, 05 Mar 2013 10:57:59 +0000 .twist. 613781@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have never even heard of this before and it sounds very interesting. I will have to go read up on it some more. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613776 Tue, 05 Mar 2013 10:55:06 +0000 bpcmarj 613776@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine is quality time and DH is acts of service. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613760 Tue, 05 Mar 2013 10:52:31 +0000 blackbird 613760@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine is Acts of service and Physical Touch. </p> <p>Dh's is Words of Affirmation and Physical Touch. </p> <p>I guess we're both touchy-feely people. Only in private, though! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613622 Tue, 05 Mar 2013 10:13:35 +0000 Sugar.Biscuit 613622@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had a 3 way tie, DH is screwed! Quality Time-Physical touch-Words of affirmation. Recieving gifts was the lowest. DH's is words of affirmation with acts of service as the second runner up. </p> <p>We have studied the book twice together. I read it about once year as a refreasher. Love this book &amp; give it as a wedding gift. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613476 Tue, 05 Mar 2013 09:21:17 +0000 dagret 613476@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are just like you. Mine is acts of service, then quality time. DH is words, then physical touch. </p> <p>It was an eye opener for me bc I have a temper and tend to say things I don't mean. Words hurt him more than they hurt me. For me, him promising to do something for me and not doing it is worse than anything he could say to me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613454 Tue, 05 Mar 2013 09:11:29 +0000 T.H.O.U. 613454@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Our past said that most men answer in a way to make themselves sound to be "physical touch". But we were told that your true love language would be the one thing that would sustain your love with nothing else. </p> <p>I love receiving gifts, but I know if I didn't get quality time and acts of service from my husband it would not sustain my love. Most men are the same way, sex is great, but if they just had sex but it was with a partner that didn't respect them and admire them then over time it wouldn't sustain them either. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613434 Tue, 05 Mar 2013 09:02:01 +0000 amreis 613434@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine: Quality Time followed by Words of Affirmation<br /> DH: Physical Touch followed by Acts of Service</p> <p>@T.H.O.U.: That's funny! I assumed that most men were Physical Touch haha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613428 Tue, 05 Mar 2013 08:57:07 +0000 MrsTiz 613428@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine was Acts of Service by a long shot. Second is Words of Affirmation. </p> <p>DH's is Physical Touch </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613425 Tue, 05 Mar 2013 08:54:41 +0000 T.H.O.U. 613425@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We had to do this as a premarriage counseling thing. </p> <p>My pastor was so funny, he said most men are "Words of Affirmation". He said, basically guys are like puppy dogs, they just want to be told they are doing a good job. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613022 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 22:14:03 +0000 runsyellowlites 613022@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine: Words of affirmations with quality time as a close secondary.<br /> DH: Physical touch with quality time as his secondary. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-is-your-love-language#post-613013 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 22:09:59 +0000 Bao 613013@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks to Mr. Bee's advice I looked into the 5 love languages, and boy oh boy did that make a difference in my relationship with my DH. I talked to DH about it one evening and we are now both on the same page and as cheesy as it sounds, we are getting along better than ever even in just a few days and I feel closer to him, and like a wife again...instead of just a mom. </p> <p>My love language: Acts of service and the close runner up is quality time.<br /> DH's love language: Physical touch and his close runner up is words of affirmation.</p> <p>The 5 love languages:<br /> -Acts of service<br /> -Quality Time<br /> -Physical touch<br /> -Words of affirmation<br /> -Receiving gifts</p> <p>What is your love language? What about your SO? </p>