https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 19 May 2026 08:07:34 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-40#post-1442095 Fri, 21 Feb 2014 22:40:19 +0000 snowjewelz 1442095@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wouldn't say anything... I can see why your DH just wants to be helpful and get the info out there but the other person CAN take great offense to it and seeing that they work together, it might get awkward! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-40#post-1442060 Fri, 21 Feb 2014 22:13:48 +0000 LemonLong 1442060@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@blackbird: the complaints go back to 2005, but there is some from 2013 and late 2012. The license probations occurred in 2013. The child abuse complaint was in July 2012, but it does say that in November 2012 they statused the complaint as unfounded. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-40#post-1442047 Fri, 21 Feb 2014 22:06:13 +0000 Corduroy 1442047@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would say *something* about what you found but I wouldn't imply that they need to leave. I was surprised nobody in my moms' group checked the state licensing record for their daycare. I consider them all very intelligent responsible women so I would think very few people actually do. Every daycare I've called to look up has been very interested what the state had to say about them - almost as if nobody has ever called before. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-40#post-1442041 Fri, 21 Feb 2014 22:03:10 +0000 immabeetoo 1442041@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would feel AWFUL if something happened and I hadn't said anything. I would have him mention it, bluntly. Better safe than sorry for that LO. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-40#post-1442001 Fri, 21 Feb 2014 21:40:42 +0000 Synchronicity 1442001@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yikes! I probably wouldn't say anything, because if they did their research (this is a big deal, I would hope that they had), the reviews are obviously something they have chosen to live with. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-40#post-1441998 Fri, 21 Feb 2014 21:39:18 +0000 blackbird 1441998@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Are those violations old?</p> <p>I would feel weird not saying something. They are friendly enough. Even if it was just "hey I looked into that daycare you use, have you seen this?" Guys are more chill about this kind of stuff. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-40#post-1441997 Fri, 21 Feb 2014 21:39:14 +0000 lemondrop 1441997@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If he asks, I would just say thank you for the reference, but it wasn't a good fit for you. If he asks why, then I'd mention just that you checked the sites and leave it at that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-40#post-1441993 Fri, 21 Feb 2014 21:36:26 +0000 kjpugs 1441993@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It would depend to me how close they are. If it was me, I would keep my mouth shut if it was just a normal coworker, but if we were close I might hint at it, try to start the convo, ask about their research, etc. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-40#post-1441989 Fri, 21 Feb 2014 21:34:58 +0000 swedishfish 1441989@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd let it be unless he asks your husband why you've chosen to not send your LO there. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-40#post-1441988 Fri, 21 Feb 2014 21:34:09 +0000 DillonLion 1441988@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>They are adults and made the decision that is best for them. I wouldnt meddle. You get what you pay for, unfortunately </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-40#post-1441979 Fri, 21 Feb 2014 21:30:20 +0000 LemonLong 1441979@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So my husband came home from work all excited yesterday after having a conversation with a coworker about a daycare his coworker was sending his child to. This daycare was $100 cheaper a week then the one we send LO to.</p> <p>So I looked up the daycare on our state's website and it had a huge list of complaints (dangerous environment, lack of supervision, unqualified providers, etc), including a child abuse complaint. The daycare has had its license put on probation twice. I also checked the Better Business Bureau and the daycare had a D rating. </p> <p>DH wants to tell his coworker about the complaints, but I feel like it would be construed as an attack on his parenting- I mean, I assume they did some sort of research on the daycare before sending their 2 year old there. I suggested that DH just mention the state website and let his coworker look up the daycare himself if he's inclined, but DH thinks he shouldn't beat around the bush. </p> <p>What would you do? </p>