https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 05 Apr 2026 00:17:52 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-ttc-after-loss#post-1880032 Sat, 27 Sep 2014 19:01:16 +0000 simplyfelicity 1880032@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks everyone. I feel like I have posted about this a million times (sorry!) I was planning to NTNP next month but after I realized October would be a July due date and my doctor gave me the "go ahead," I started to reconsider.<br /> Pretty sure I am going to go with my original plan. Thanks for hearing a lady out. :happy:<br /> @travelgirl1: I hope this is your month! :goodluck: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-ttc-after-loss#post-1880023 Sat, 27 Sep 2014 18:47:14 +0000 singingbee 1880023@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would wait. I would give my body time to heal. I know it's hard and I know the pressure of deadlines and trying again after a loss. The right time is when it happens. Good luck! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-ttc-after-loss#post-1880022 Sat, 27 Sep 2014 18:39:51 +0000 travelgirl1 1880022@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would NTNP. Fingers crossed for you, friend :heart: :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-ttc-after-loss#post-1880010 Sat, 27 Sep 2014 18:28:44 +0000 Crystal 1880010@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would also trust my OB, especially given the situation with the two mcs. I am afraid with the pressure of your bday as the deadline that you may put too much pressure on yourself this month when you need to heal... NTNP might be a good compromise. </p> <p>I am so sorry you are going through this. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-ttc-after-loss#post-1880000 Sat, 27 Sep 2014 18:16:44 +0000 jaguar 1880000@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I suppose NTNP could be an option for you? *big hugs* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-ttc-after-loss#post-1879994 Sat, 27 Sep 2014 18:05:47 +0000 GoGoSnoGirl 1879994@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I say go for it in as relaxed a way as you can muster. I think many of us have found we are not in control of our timing of getting pregnant, &amp; unfortunately, not even whether we continue to a successful delivery. I'm sorry for your losses, but very excited for you to try again. Best of :goodluck: &amp; keep us posted! :happy: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-ttc-after-loss#post-1879989 Sat, 27 Sep 2014 18:02:35 +0000 blackbird 1879989@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would trust my OB over a GP....I would talk to her </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-ttc-after-loss#post-1879988 Sat, 27 Sep 2014 18:00:45 +0000 Hoots 1879988@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Honestly, I'd try to chill, but then, I wouldn't be able to help myself and I'd decide to go for it. :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-ttc-after-loss#post-1879980 Sat, 27 Sep 2014 17:44:18 +0000 ladybee 1879980@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would typically say chill but as a fellow teacher I get how important timing is. I say go for it but I didn't get a summer baby even though I tried and we made it work. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-ttc-after-loss#post-1879973 Sat, 27 Sep 2014 17:35:45 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1879973@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Can you guys DTD in your window...but otherwise try to keep it low key and (try really hard to) not stress about it? :goodluck: :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-do-ttc-after-loss#post-1879963 Sat, 27 Sep 2014 17:25:24 +0000 simplyfelicity 1879963@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Since April, I have had two losses. One was a very early CP and, the other, was a blighted ovum at 10 weeks in August which ended in a D &amp; C. I just got my first AF. My OB originally told me to wait 3-6 months but I talked to my GP (who I have a great relationship with) and she said that I am good to start trying now that IA have gotten AF.</p> <p>SO, here's my concern: My 30th birthday is in the end of October. I was hoping to be pregnant with a healthy pregnancy by my birthday. If I actively TTC this month, I would POAS a couple days before my birthday which could either be great or disappointing right before my 30th. More importantly than my birthday, if I got pregnant in October, I would be due in July which is the second best month for my husband and I (we are both teachers.) June would have been the best but not possible. If I have a baby in July, I will get double my insurance payout. :shocked: </p> <p>On the other hand, I feel like I have been through enough and need to just chill out for this month, not put pressure on myself especially right before my 30th. </p> <p>Anyway, sorry if this seems like excessive crowd-sourcing, but I am not wondering what you think I should do what would you do in this situation? </p>