https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 05 Apr 2026 09:03:32 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2678152 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 15:23:31 +0000 Mrs D 2678152@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Rent the runway! You can get a dress in both sizes...or a different style...</p> <p>I one time ordered two dresses and got different styles for my secondary...so I had a total of 4 options show up! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2678079 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 14:26:56 +0000 Boogs 2678079@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@looch: Exact same situation for me. It's always surprising to me when even petite sized things need to be taken up so much. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677813 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 09:35:09 +0000 looch 2677813@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: Haha, I can understand then, wanting to do something different.</p> <p>I think Rent the Runway would be a total disaster for me...nothing ever fits me off the rack without at least needing to be shortened on the bottom, so I can't even imagine what I would do, with like 2 days left before the event to find something if it doesn't work out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677614 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 22:04:24 +0000 Foodnerd81 2677614@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SLR: I was looking at that exact one. It's really pretty. I'll wait to see how the red one looks and then may order some from lord and Taylor. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677610 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 22:02:23 +0000 SLR 2677610@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think black is always okay. Lots of pretty ones already posted. I like this one too - <a href="http://www.lordandtaylor.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/en/lord-and-taylor/brands/wa-gowns-evening/beaded-bodice-evening-gown" rel="nofollow">http://www.lordandtaylor.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/en/lord-and-taylor/brands/wa-gowns-evening/beaded-bodice-evening-gown</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677598 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 21:51:54 +0000 Mrs. Pen 2677598@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I went to black tie optional wedding once back in 2011. I wore a black cocktail dress from white house black market and dressy champagne colored heels.<br /> There was a pretty even mix of cocktail dresses and full length gowns. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677583 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 21:38:38 +0000 Boogs 2677583@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: Maybe it's a sign! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677578 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 21:33:52 +0000 Foodnerd81 2677578@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Boogs: woohoo- Off Saks had it for even less than Nordstroms, free shipping and I can return to store, in one size. I'm in between two sizes so this one might be big but worth a try. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677496 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 19:06:22 +0000 Boogs 2677496@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: Return shipping would be minimal, so worth the risk. But like you said, you have time. Can't wait to see what ends up winning. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677495 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 18:59:06 +0000 Foodnerd81 2677495@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: @Boogs: I actually found that Vera wang one on bonton in most sizes. It's still on sale but a little more than Nordstrom. Free shipping but I would have to pay return shipping if I don't like it. I'm going to keep looking but that's my front runner for now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677427 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 16:21:42 +0000 youboots 2677427@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd rent something from Rent The Runway- there are filters for formality, neckline, length, etc </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677423 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 16:18:01 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 2677423@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: do you have a Lord &amp; Taylor or Dillard's near you? They have a great selection of formal wear too. I like the Vera Wang rouched V neck you posted. The wedding is in a couple months so she may launch the dress with new colors soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677407 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 16:00:34 +0000 Boogs 2677407@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: I don't, especially with the right styling.</p> <p>@lawbee11: I've tried that style, not a friend to those with belly issues, unfortunately. :/ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677385 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 15:33:06 +0000 lawbee11 2677385@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I like this one:</p> <p><a href="http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/adrianna-papell-beaded-mesh-blouson-gown-regular-petite/4584206?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=HUNTER" rel="nofollow">http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/adrianna-papell-beaded-mesh-blouson-gown-regular-petite/4584206?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=HUNTER</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677375 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 15:24:01 +0000 Foodnerd81 2677375@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Boogs: The one time I did RTR it was the right call- I was such a weird size that there was no point in spending more on something else and I wasn't going to love anything. </p> <p>Do you think this looks too bridesmaid-y? <a href="http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/social-bridesmaids-v-neck-georgette-gown/4470508?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=BURGUNDY" rel="nofollow">http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/social-bridesmaids-v-neck-georgette-gown/4470508?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=BURGUNDY</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677367 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 15:13:02 +0000 Boogs 2677367@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: That has always been my fear with RTR, especially because of my height. Love the dress you found! I looked around, even on eBay, but no luck finding another size. :(</p> <p>And I don't see anything wrong with black, that's so pretty! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677365 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 15:09:04 +0000 Foodnerd81 2677365@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Black is still frowned upon for a wedding as a family member ,right? (I would have no problem with it as a guest) <a href="http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/jenny-yoo-gwenyth-metallic-lace-chiffon-gown/3955470?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=BLACK" rel="nofollow">http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/jenny-yoo-gwenyth-metallic-lace-chiffon-gown/3955470?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=BLACK</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677363 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 15:07:07 +0000 Foodnerd81 2677363@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Littlebit7: @littlebug: I actually did RTR for a wedding a few months after my second baby was born- it was black tie optional, I was in that weird between stage where I wasn't pregnant but wasn't my old size or shape, and I didn't have anything that formal. The dress I rented was lovely, but I just didn't love it on ME. And since I only got it a couple of days before, I wore it, and it was fine, but I don't want to leave it to chance for a family wedding. But no, I don't often attend black tie functions! I don't even attend business casual functions and there are a limited number of things that I do where yoga pants would be totally inappropriate :silly: </p> <p>I'm liking something like this, only I'm not a size 2 and that's the only one available. <a href="http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/vera-wang-jersey-pleated-fit-flare-gown/4462438?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=BURGUNDY" rel="nofollow">http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/vera-wang-jersey-pleated-fit-flare-gown/4462438?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=BURGUNDY</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677354 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 15:03:36 +0000 littlebug 2677354@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Littlebit7: That was going to be my suggestion. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677351 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 15:01:48 +0000 Littlebit7 2677351@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>try rent the runway!!The have a ton of full length options which are totally bra friendly.<br /> This is one instance that I'd rent over buying. I can typically justify buying cocktail attire because it gets worn more than once. But black tie? I never wear black tie (maybe you do, who knows).<br /> They even have maternity options </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677350 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 15:01:11 +0000 Boogs 2677350@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: I would focus on your comfort and budget, I'm sure others will wear navy also. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677346 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 14:59:19 +0000 Foodnerd81 2677346@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Boogs: That navy one is really pretty! The bridesmaids are wearing navy satin, though. I should probably steer away from navy then, right? I love that silver one too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677341 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 14:55:36 +0000 Boogs 2677341@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: Oops I added two more. These are better priced. They have a ton of options, you can put in length, price, and even a color if you have something in mind.</p> <p>[attach=186/17/ojky1a.337x600.IMG_9170.PNG]</p> <p>[attach=186/17/ojky39.337x600.IMG_9171.PNG] </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677339 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 14:54:25 +0000 Foodnerd81 2677339@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Boogs: the first one is really pretty and would fit the bill (although I am hoping I can spend less, but we'll see). And definitely shopping online with free shipping and returns would be way better. The second one would hug my tummy in all the wrong places. :bummed: </p> <p>@looch: Fun! But I feel like I would match my daughter the flower girl too much :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677337 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 14:51:20 +0000 looch 2677337@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would wear a ball skirt and a top. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677336 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 14:51:18 +0000 Foodnerd81 2677336@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@travellingbee: pictures? But yes, I'm thinking I will do long. I think it's more flattering on me too, and will downplay if I'm wearing more boring lower heel shoes. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677335 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 14:50:14 +0000 Boogs 2677335@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nordstrom is always my go to for stuff like this. I order online so I can try on multiple things at home. Something like this seems like it could fit your requirements: </p> <p><a href="http://m.shop.nordstrom.com/s/adrianna-papell-beaded-mesh-gown-regular-petite/4584334?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=BLUE%20MIST" rel="nofollow">http://m.shop.nordstrom.com/s/adrianna-papell-beaded-mesh-gown-regular-petite/4584334?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=BLUE%20MIST</a></p> <p>Or</p> <p><a href="http://m.shop.nordstrom.com/s/jenny-yoo-vivienne-pleated-chiffon-gown/4584540?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=EVENING%20BLUE" rel="nofollow">http://m.shop.nordstrom.com/s/jenny-yoo-vivienne-pleated-chiffon-gown/4584540?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=EVENING%20BLUE</a></p> <p>Or</p> <p><a href="http://m.shop.nordstrom.com/s/alex-evenings-ruched-gown-regular-petite/4479425?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=NAVY" rel="nofollow">http://m.shop.nordstrom.com/s/alex-evenings-ruched-gown-regular-petite/4479425?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;fashioncolor=NAVY</a></p> <p>Or </p> <p><a href="http://m.shop.nordstrom.com/s/adrianna-papell-cold-shoulder-gown/4540639?origin=related-4540639-60139442-3-MOBI_FTR-Data_Lab_Recommendo_V2-recently_viewed_hybrid_v3&#038;recs_type=related&#038;recs_productId=4540639&#038;recs_categoryId=60139442&#038;recs_productOrder=3&#038;recs_placementId=MOBI_FTR&#038;recs_source=Data_Lab_Recommendo_V2&#038;recs_strategy=recently_viewed_hybrid_v3&#038;recs_referringPageType=category_page" rel="nofollow">http://m.shop.nordstrom.com/s/adrianna-papell-cold-shoulder-gown/4540639?origin=related-4540639-60139442-3-MOBI_FTR-Data_Lab_Recommendo_V2-recently_viewed_hybrid_v3&#038;recs_type=related&#038;recs_productId=4540639&#038;recs_categoryId=60139442&#038;recs_productOrder=3&#038;recs_placementId=MOBI_FTR&#038;recs_source=Data_Lab_Recommendo_V2&#038;recs_strategy=recently_viewed_hybrid_v3&#038;recs_referringPageType=category_page</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677333 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 14:48:36 +0000 travellingbee 2677333@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>A full length dress if possible. Or a very formal cocktail length. Like, think sequence. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-would-you-wear-to-a-black-tie-optional-wedding#post-2677318 Tue, 10 Jan 2017 14:40:26 +0000 Foodnerd81 2677318@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For fun, what would you wear to a black tie optional wedding in the late spring? </p> <p>I'm starting to look for my BIL's wedding coming up in a few months. I'm not in the wedding but dh and my older daughter are. Bridesmaid dresses are long and formal, so I figure I should dress on the more formal side. And I haven't bought a fancy dress in forever! Finding something that won't make me look pregnant and that I can wear a real bra with is tricky!</p> <p>ETA: pictures or links if you have them! </p>