https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 20 May 2026 08:48:51 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-2007378 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 21:18:03 +0000 FliegepilzHut 2007378@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Banana330: Just saw this... Yes, that's absolutely it. And I'm so sorry for your loss. :crying: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-2000921 Mon, 29 Dec 2014 11:23:38 +0000 Banana330 2000921@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I found it hardest until I was pregnant again, I found my due dates (sept and Nov) surprisingly ok but i'm sure it was because I was thinking about this new baby. </p> <p>But I still find twins hard. Knowing we lost them, it kills me even now when people announce twins. </p> <p>@FliegepilzHut: I'm always I bit weary with people who announce early. It's that feeling of innocence and joy that I can't quite have in early pregnancy anymore. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-2000900 Mon, 29 Dec 2014 11:01:40 +0000 FliegepilzHut 2000900@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For a while, it was ladies due in March. Now, I'm apparently hypersensitive to ladies announcing broadly at "maybe 6 weeks?" :bummed: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-2000750 Mon, 29 Dec 2014 09:18:41 +0000 LulaBee 2000750@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Currently struggling with babies due in March... also had to hide that due date board. Any newborn babies, especially boys... pregnant women... driving by the hospital where I delivered my son... but it varies day to day. Today, I feel dead inside, so there's that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-2000532 Sun, 28 Dec 2014 23:45:23 +0000 DesertDreams88 2000532@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Too many things currently. Feeling/looking bloated and thinking "there should be a baby in there." The holidays, because we were supposed to be 12 weeks on Thanksgiving and find out the gender (16 weeks) for Christmas. People mentioning or somehow referencing our child-free status. The medical bills that are still arriving, despite the loss being late Oct / early Nov. </p> <p>There are also many bittersweet things, like drinking as much Diet Coke as I want and making spring break hiking plans, when I should have been 6-7 mo pregnant at that time having a baby shower.</p> <p>I have good days and bad days, it seems. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-1998767 Sat, 27 Dec 2014 09:51:12 +0000 alohaorchid 1998767@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry you experienced that, it's never a good feeling. </p> <p>Mine is other people due around then. I know at least 3 women with very similar due dates to what mine should have been and when I see/hear their updates I feel a little sad. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-1998663 Sat, 27 Dec 2014 02:27:34 +0000 Anya 1998663@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: I'm so sorry for your loss. It is so hard to be surrounded by something you yearn for, especially around holidays which are so family-centric. </p> <p>I have two scars on my abdomen and it is hard for me to see and feel them, even now with a successful (FX) pregnancy, it is a painful reminder of not only my loss but also of all the anxiety and worry I saw in my husband for me when he was in the hospital with me. I know it wasn't my fault but it still haunts me that I had to put him through that. My due date, which is approaching, is another source- I used to feel grief/jealousy over others with successful pregnancies around the same time, which I don't anymore but the date itself it still emotionally-charged for ME. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-1998641 Sat, 27 Dec 2014 00:13:25 +0000 simplyfelicity 1998641@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I really struggle with friends due in March. March 5th will be a hard day. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-1998635 Fri, 26 Dec 2014 23:56:41 +0000 jaguar 1998635@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pregnancies due around my babies' dates.. so I'm going to be a wreck in March, and again in July. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-1998628 Fri, 26 Dec 2014 23:51:11 +0000 Crystal 1998628@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For me, it's definitely seeing babies that would be the same age as my miscarried baby. Or ornaments/items saying "baby's first Halloween/thanksgiving/Christmas/ etc" knowing it would have been my baby's first whatever. </p> <p>A few weeks ago it was being at my nieces school play and worrying id never be at one of those for a baby of my own. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-1998621 Fri, 26 Dec 2014 23:20:52 +0000 Ms.Badger 1998621@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Seeing kids that make me think of how Lucas would be now, what he would look like. Sometimes it doesn't even me sense, like I was shopping and a girl much older than Lucas was saying "dad" over ands over to get his attention and it made me think how he'd be talking now. Also my sister got me a little boy figure with a balloon that says " miss you" and I can't look at it or think about it without breaking down. The thought of him missing me the way I miss him is unbearable. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-1998610 Fri, 26 Dec 2014 22:59:08 +0000 Princie_b 1998610@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I know exactly how you feel...even though I felt like I've moved on and everything is back to normal, certain moments still sting. For me it's commercials with babies for some reason, it sounds silly but I have to change the channel because I don't want to get emotional. I know it'll get better till then let's all stay strong and once in a while we can allow ourselves a moment of weakness :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-1998576 Fri, 26 Dec 2014 22:00:24 +0000 Dandelion 1998576@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Right now, toddler girls. Seeing what S would be like if she were here now really triggers. There's other things, like seeing her name. it has gotten better, and there are less triggers, but I assume I'll never be completely rid of them. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-1998546 Fri, 26 Dec 2014 21:23:33 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1998546@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: I totally get that, I had to hide my due date board from view and every time I access HB not signed in and I see May 2015 I get a knot in my stomach. Yay for the babe on the way! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-1998544 Fri, 26 Dec 2014 21:18:41 +0000 Jess1483 1998544@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My biggest trigger is people who are due around when I was, especially if I didn't find out about the pregnancy until after my loss. Even though I'm pregnant again, I struggle with the idea of babies born this March. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whats-your-trigger#post-1998542 Fri, 26 Dec 2014 21:17:27 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1998542@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Months ago I had a loss and was able to talk about it as a matter of fact about a week after. I thought it didn't affect me, maybe it doesn't and what I felt today was just baby fever. Anyway, with having such a great holiday with my mom and ILs and seeing how happy our moms were to have their own children over the holidays I was overcome this morning with emotion. Before heading back home Mr. Lime and I stopped off at Chick-fil-A for breakfast and their were a bunch of parents with LOs. No matter the age of the children they were all so beautiful and I just wanted my own. I cried. </p> <p>What's your trigger? </p>