https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 08 May 2026 14:44:28 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717522 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 14:28:23 +0000 Raindrop 717522@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>1st date! :) I was in dating marathon when I meet DH and wanted to weed out guys fast. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717515 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 14:25:35 +0000 banana 717515@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not until may 6 months in. We both agreed we wanted children and that we wanted 2. Glad we were on the same page on that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717332 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 13:45:01 +0000 IRunForFun 717332@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think we talked about the fact that we both wanted kids really early on, like within the first few dates. We weren't discussing having kids specifically with each other at that point, but just generally talking about the future and what our life goals were. Once we got serious we talked more about WHEN we both wanted kids. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717331 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 13:44:55 +0000 Rhdscait 717331@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Within the first 3 months of dating for us. Family is very important to us and thankfully, we held the same opinions/desires on the matter. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717323 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 13:42:00 +0000 heffalump 717323@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't remember at all. We talked specifically about what to start TTC the night we got engaged. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717308 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 13:38:58 +0000 oliviaoblivia 717308@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ironically we were both dating other people when we had that talk. We were friends and the guy I was dating had announced he didn't want kids and I talked with DH about how I was planning on breaking up with the other guy because no-kids was a deal-breaker. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717305 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 13:38:46 +0000 MrsTiz 717305@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We were friends long before we started dating, so we'd talked about it socially with friends before we were official. Once we started dating we talked about it more in depth. He's right on track with my goals. Kids young, 3 years apart, at least two, no more than 3. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717292 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 13:36:39 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 717292@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Before dating, when we were deciding if we wanted to date each other. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717291 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 13:36:37 +0000 Alivoo01 717291@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Once we were serious about each other and not just "dating" each other, we discussed our life goals. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717287 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 13:36:02 +0000 yellowbird 717287@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Probably within a year of dating. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717284 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 13:35:40 +0000 Weagle 717284@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I voted within 3 months, but in reality, we probably talked about it before. I just don't remember. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717280 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 13:35:01 +0000 swurlygurl 717280@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Once we were really serious (started dating in college, so it wasn't super serious right away), we carefully talked about it a couple times... once we both knew that we each wanted kids, we didn't go into too much depth... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717271 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 13:33:45 +0000 Dandelion 717271@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It was discussed early on...we were both "whatever" about it, lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-and-your-so-discuss-whether-or-not-you-wanted-children#post-717264 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 13:32:42 +0000 sunny 717264@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When did you and your SO discuss whether or not you wanted children?</p> <p>We did pretty early on... Within the first few months we talked about a lot of our life goals. </p>