https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 09 Apr 2026 17:47:12 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-know-110-you-were-done-done#post-1711360 Thu, 19 Jun 2014 21:13:11 +0000 MamaBehr 1711360@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My neighbor, who has two, said she knew she was done when she saw pregnant women and newborns and didn't feel jealousy. </p> <p>I, am not done. I currently have three kids 4 and under and can't wait to add to our family. DH, however, isn't on board yet. I picture my family in 8 years and there is one more there. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-know-110-you-were-done-done#post-1711350 Thu, 19 Jun 2014 21:10:01 +0000 winniebee 1711350@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it will depend on whether I have a difficult pregnancy again. No bed rest and We would probably have a third. My husband is from a family of 3 and I'm from a family of 4. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-know-110-you-were-done-done#post-1711348 Thu, 19 Jun 2014 21:08:59 +0000 Mrs. J 1711348@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@kml636: I did a correlational study in college on that! So interesting. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-know-110-you-were-done-done#post-1711327 Thu, 19 Jun 2014 21:01:33 +0000 Mrs. Pen 1711327@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@kml636: haha I came from six and loved it but definitely do not want six! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-know-110-you-were-done-done#post-1711271 Thu, 19 Jun 2014 20:48:11 +0000 kml636 1711271@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm curious about this too. We both immediately wanted another one as soon as we had LO which is why we are expecting #2 20 months apart from LO #1. My DH really wants a third, and I just don't think I'll be done after this one, but we'll see. </p> <p>Something i've noticed, I think it has to do with if you had a happy childhood yourself, and how many brothers and sisters you had? I know I came from a family of three so it just seems natural to me, but a lot of friends I know that came from families of two are definitely "TWO and DONE!" !!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-know-110-you-were-done-done#post-1711163 Thu, 19 Jun 2014 20:13:29 +0000 MamaG 1711163@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>#2 won't be here until November, but we are done. I was always, "one maybe two". I'll be 40 when this one is born and have no desire to be an even older pregnant mom.</p> <p>For us my age and our finances are our overriding factors to making our decision. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-know-110-you-were-done-done#post-1711154 Thu, 19 Jun 2014 20:10:12 +0000 littlek 1711154@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I will be done after 3, no question. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-know-110-you-were-done-done#post-1711151 Thu, 19 Jun 2014 20:09:33 +0000 Boogs 1711151@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are sure after this no more! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-know-110-you-were-done-done#post-1711089 Thu, 19 Jun 2014 19:55:34 +0000 Mrs. Pen 1711089@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're 99% sure that we're done. We wavered a bit for the past year, but when we started considering adoption as a serious option for the future - that's how we knew we were done having our own biological children. It's definitely not set in stone, but adoption is on both our hearts in the distant future. We would consider adopting older child(ren) - minimum age 4 most likely. That's kind of what spurred us to being done - we both realized that even separately, each of us have a heart to adopt and to us personally, it doesn't feel right to bring another baby into the world when there is another one out there that may need a home. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-know-110-you-were-done-done#post-1711081 Thu, 19 Jun 2014 19:54:12 +0000 matador84 1711081@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Curious to know! I waver sooooo bad. Would love more, but would love to enjoy my 2 too!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-did-you-know-110-you-were-done-done#post-1711065 Thu, 19 Jun 2014 19:50:56 +0000 regberadaisy 1711065@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm currently pregnant with our second and we're not positive yet that we're done. :P</p> <p>We're kinda just letting things be and seeing how having two will be like before deciding if we'll try for a 3rd. But if I'm completely honest I think we are both leaning towards a 3rd. ;)</p> <p>If you and DH knew you were done <i>done</i>; how did you know? </p>