https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 08 Apr 2026 01:55:50 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-do-you-start-hunting-down-rsvps#post-2522640 Tue, 12 Apr 2016 14:26:22 +0000 regberadaisy 2522640@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pinkcupcake: didn't you have a bunch of surprise guests last year??? :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-do-you-start-hunting-down-rsvps#post-2521763 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 17:30:57 +0000 pinkcupcake 2521763@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't bother tracking them down, just assume it's a no. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-do-you-start-hunting-down-rsvps#post-2521740 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 17:00:52 +0000 Boogs 2521740@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't bother and ask people anymore. I have a list of who usually comes and I moreso go off that now. I don't get why people don't RSVP ugh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-do-you-start-hunting-down-rsvps#post-2521651 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 15:12:22 +0000 SweetiePie 2521651@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>As tempted as I am to ask before, I hold out and let the date pass. Then maybe another day after that in case it slipped their mind. And then I'll just send a friendly text or email and say we really need a final count for food, favors, whatever. And make sure they know that either answer is ok in case they can't come and feel bad. I just need to know. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-do-you-start-hunting-down-rsvps#post-2521639 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 15:02:35 +0000 yoursilverlining 2521639@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't follow up, I assume they are a no. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-do-you-start-hunting-down-rsvps#post-2521636 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 15:01:18 +0000 jetsa 2521636@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't even put RSVP dates on invites anymore, no one ever responds anyway. =/ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-do-you-start-hunting-down-rsvps#post-2521550 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 14:14:36 +0000 Andrea 2521550@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't. I assume they are not coming. I've had people RSVP after the date though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-do-you-start-hunting-down-rsvps#post-2521522 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 13:51:42 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 2521522@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I start after RSVP has passed although I find people RSVP yes fairly quickly if they intend to come. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-do-you-start-hunting-down-rsvps#post-2521507 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 13:47:43 +0000 Truth Bombs 2521507@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>With family I would check in after the RSVP date has passed. For school friends I don't hunt them down, I assuming they aren't coming if they don't RSVP. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-do-you-start-hunting-down-rsvps#post-2521493 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 13:42:00 +0000 Mamaof2 2521493@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We had DD's first big party this year - 12 kids invited.</p> <p>I voted I didn't track down invites however I did for 1 because I personally knew the mom. Turns out she lost the invite and forgot about it</p> <p>The others I assumed weren't coming - 2 people rsvp'd 2 days before event </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-do-you-start-hunting-down-rsvps#post-2521483 Mon, 11 Apr 2016 13:37:54 +0000 regberadaisy 2521483@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Do you start before the RSVP date? ON the RSVP date? After?</p> <p>The RSVP date for DD1's birthday is Friday and we're doing good so far! Only 5 invites left that haven't responded. 4 are preschool friends and 1 is family.</p> <p>I probably won't bug people till the weekend/Monday. </p>