https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 25 Apr 2026 23:31:26 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage/page/2#post-1128182 Thu, 03 Oct 2013 09:43:52 +0000 boots 1128182@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When I was 18 I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks. It was my first pregnancy. DD came 3 years later and I worried throughout my whole pregnancy!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage/page/2#post-1127960 Thu, 03 Oct 2013 08:41:24 +0000 T.H.O.U. 1127960@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@xInfinity: I'm so sorry for your loss. Hopefully you are healing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage/page/2#post-1127686 Thu, 03 Oct 2013 07:19:53 +0000 LovelyPlum 1127686@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@xInfinity: I'm so sorry :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage/page/2#post-1127460 Wed, 02 Oct 2013 22:42:27 +0000 xInfinity 1127460@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm 27 years old and lost my baby 21 weeks into the pregnancy this year. It was my first pregnancy and was a missed miscarriage. I went for my ultrasound expecting to find out if we were having a boy or girl and instead found out there was no heartbeat...baby had died about 4 weeks before. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage/page/2#post-1069302 Thu, 05 Sep 2013 23:48:29 +0000 Running Elley 1069302@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had two- pregnancies 1 and 2. The first was just over 6 weeks and the second was a chemical at barely 4 weeks. I was 22 heard old. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1069296 Thu, 05 Sep 2013 23:44:57 +0000 SAHM0811 1069296@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It happened at around 8 weeks </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1068911 Thu, 05 Sep 2013 20:39:51 +0000 beachbee 1068911@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CharityAnne: first pregnancy and m/c at 24 weeks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1068564 Thu, 05 Sep 2013 19:39:19 +0000 stargal 1068564@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was 9 weeks when the ultrasound showed no heartbeat, baby never made it past 6 weeks, 3 days. I was 24 at the time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1068555 Thu, 05 Sep 2013 19:38:21 +0000 MrsTiz 1068555@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My first pregnancy stopped growing at 6wk 4 days, I found out at 10 weeks. 20 y/o </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1068498 Thu, 05 Sep 2013 19:26:11 +0000 SweetiePie 1068498@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Two pregnancies, two miscarriages. One at about 7.5/8 weeks and the other at 11 weeks. Both happened at 31/very close to 32 years old.</p> <p>I know its easier said than done and I need to take my own advice, but worrying will get you nowhere :-) You just have to assume that all is well until it isn't, which hopefully will never be your reality. Enjoy the pregnancy, mama! :-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1040601 Fri, 23 Aug 2013 17:50:27 +0000 swedishfish 1040601@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was 29 and in my 9th week of pregnancy with twins. I had a vanishing twin and gave birth to the surviving baby this past June. This was my first pregnancy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1040594 Fri, 23 Aug 2013 17:39:48 +0000 delight 1040594@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First pregnancy and I was 30, had just gotten off the pill the month before. I found out at 4/5 weeks that the pregnancy really hadn't developed but didn't miscarry until 7 weeks. I got pregnant 3 months later and have my one week daughter in my arms right now. It's hard not to worry! Best wishes to you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1040589 Fri, 23 Aug 2013 17:34:30 +0000 StbHisMrs 1040589@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was 27 with my second pregnancy, between 5 and 6 weeks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1040588 Fri, 23 Aug 2013 17:34:13 +0000 mrskc 1040588@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I found out at 12 weeks but they think the baby stopped growing around 6/7 weeks. Second was a chemical pregnancy so around 4 weeks. Now I have a healthy 10 month old son! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1040583 Fri, 23 Aug 2013 17:28:00 +0000 Dandelion 1040583@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have a 6 year old boy...last year I miscarried at 6 weeks, and then I got pregnant again and lost the next baby at 39 weeks during labor.</p> <p>Now pregnant again, I'm 8 weeks along and so far so good. I'm 31. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1040579 Fri, 23 Aug 2013 17:25:23 +0000 Torchwood 1040579@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Miscarried at 9.5 weeks, but baby stopped growing at 7 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1040566 Fri, 23 Aug 2013 17:17:59 +0000 LovelyPlum 1040566@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am 29, lost both at 28.</p> <p>1st pregnancy, lost at 4+ weeks<br /> 2nd pregnancy, lost at 6 weeks</p> <p>Currently pregnant for a third time, 7+4!</p> <p>Hang in there. It is scary, but there is hope!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1039277 Fri, 23 Aug 2013 10:20:35 +0000 Mrs Checkers 1039277@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>6 weeks </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1038593 Fri, 23 Aug 2013 02:18:27 +0000 TheSwissWifeStyle 1038593@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First pregnancy, I was 31 and found out at 9 weeks + that baby had stopped growing (missed mc.) This was after seeing a normal heartbeat. </p> <p>2'nd: I was 32 (took a year to get pg. again) and it was measuring small and slow heartbeat from the beginning. (First appt. was at 7 weeks +) Natural mc at about 8 weeks. </p> <p>Good luck, hope all is fine for you. Most likely it is! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1038263 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 21:41:22 +0000 cavalierkcs 1038263@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Around 8 and a half weeks. I had my first ultrasound just days before and there was no heartbeat. I was 26, first pregnancy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1038248 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 21:35:12 +0000 mlm2934 1038248@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>At my 9.5 appt, I found out the baby stopped growing at 8 weeks. That was after seeing heartbeat at 7.5 weeks.</p> <p>ETA: I had spotting from pretty much the beginning of the pregnancy, so it wasn't an unsymptomatic loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1038103 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 20:50:22 +0000 singingbee 1038103@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CharityAnne: congrats! We lost our first baby at 20 weeks. We are currently 31 wks with our second. This pregnancy is complete different than my first. I think something was wrong from the beginning. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1038090 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 20:47:56 +0000 Mrs. PBJ 1038090@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Richelle: Thanks a bunch for the sweet thoughts!! I appreciate it!! I am definitely going to go buy something this weekend! :happy: I really just want to be happy about this baby and stop thinking that the worst is going to happen. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1038068 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 20:41:47 +0000 Mrs. PBJ 1038068@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runsyellowlites: Thank you so much for the encouragement! You're definitely right! Every baby does deserve to be celebrated! I feel better now about already planning out the nursery and wanting to buy stuff! Lol :happy: </p> <p>@MamaMoose: I might go ahead and call just to see what they say. I was going to wait because I didn't just want to go in so they could make me pee in a cup and tell me what I already know. I wanted to hold out until they would do an u/s and hopefully find a heartbeat. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1038052 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 20:36:53 +0000 Richelle 1038052@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had two miscarriages. The first was at 7 weeks followed by the second 6 months later at 5 weeks. I was 27 for both. My third pregnancy was the one that stuck but it came 15 months after the second miscarriage. </p> <p>I agree with Runsyellowlites. Be excited and celebrate. I was quiet about my first 2 pregnancies and it didn't make it any easier when they failed. With my third pregnancy, I announced it to everyone before the pee had time to dry. I bought a diaper bag within the first 48 hours of knowing. Better to live in the moment and enjoy dreaming about this new little life than worry. </p> <p>Good luck and all the sticky baby dust in the world to you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1037988 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 20:18:27 +0000 heffalump 1037988@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My first pregnancy, I was 28, and 6 weeks along. But it was a missed miscarriage so I didn't find out until 12 weeks. Since then I've had a healthy baby and I'm 23 weeks along with my 2nd. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1037966 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 20:14:20 +0000 runsyellowlites 1037966@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CharityAnne: I think it's perfectly a-okay to be excited AND to buy things AND do whatever you want to celebrate being pregnant. We announced at 9 weeks.. did pictures and everything and while I felt kind of dumb for a minute, in reality I'm glad we did everything! Every baby, no matter how small or short of life deserves to be celebrated. ;)</p> <p>I see a CPM &amp; she comes to my home so she saw me at 5ish weeks &amp; again at 10. All providers are different so just give yours a call &amp; they'll let you know what their policies are (if you want to be seen sooner then you can even find another provider that fits your needs better if you want). :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1037958 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 20:12:12 +0000 MamaMoose 1037958@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CharityAnne: just call your doc and let them know you got a positive home pregnancy test and they'll tell you when they want you to come in. My doc does the first appt at 8 weeks and does a dating ultrasound. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1037927 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 20:04:37 +0000 Mrs. PBJ 1037927@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runsyellowlites: I know I just need to chill out, but I'm so excited and I want to do stuff and buy things, but then I think it's too early to get excited I just need to quit thinking about till I'm a little further along. When did you go to the doctor? Like I said I'm 6 weeks, I think (considering my lmp), and I wasn't going to go to the doctor for 3-4 more weeks because I didn't really see the point. Should I go earlier? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-miscarriage#post-1037918 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 20:02:34 +0000 Caly 1037918@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First pregnancy, was around 5 or 6 weeks. I was 30 at the time...I'm currently 25 weeks &amp; the worry hasn't ended. </p>