https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 27 Apr 2026 03:01:56 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-358951 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 16:54:02 +0000 Penny Lane 358951@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was his first girlfriend and first kiss! I like to joke that he had to move halfway across the world (CA to NZ) to find a girl ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-358841 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 15:45:56 +0000 DigAPony 358841@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>His big relationship before me finally ended about...two years before we got together? Year and a half? It's hard to say, because they did the typical break up and get back together thing several times, and they were long distance when their relationship ended. </p> <p>He didn't date anyone in between. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-358834 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 15:43:56 +0000 SugarplumsMom 358834@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He never had a serious relationship before me. But he was in love with a girl in his dorm. We were just friends for a few years before we got together, so I heard it all. He was so honest and cute, it was hard not to fall for him (although he didn't know it then)! He was officially over her (and realized it) the winter before I planned to drop off the face of the earth and hibernate in the countryside of South Korea! I even wrote him a "goodbye letter". Then we talked after not speaking for months and when I arrived in Korea, the first email I'd gotten was from him saying he liked me! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-358831 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 15:43:16 +0000 PurplePumps 358831@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>3 months before we started dating. It wasn't serious and was only 3 months. Before that? I have no idea.. probably 6 months or so before that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-358817 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 15:35:55 +0000 littlebug 358817@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>6 years! And it ended because she just stopped calling and returning his calls. He had zero closure and was pretty messed up by it. No wonder he got curious when she came back into his life 8 years later, breaking us up in the process. But then she did the SAME thing again! And he realized that I was the best darn thing that ever happened to him and begged me to come back. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-358808 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 15:32:47 +0000 wheres_c 358808@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>SO's last relationship ended about a year before he started dating me, but she kept "checking in" every so often and trying to come back around. They were in a year long relationship, but she married someone else for citizenship purposes and it ended then. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-358242 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 12:15:05 +0000 mrs. wagon 358242@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wagon Sr.'s last girlfriend before me (and pretty much only "real" relationship other than me) was right at the beginning of freshman year of college. Then nothing serious until we started dating in the middle of senior year. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-358229 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 12:11:41 +0000 lovehoneybee 358229@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He'd been in a 3-4 year relationship up until 6 or so months before we met. She was his brother's best friend, and was in love with him (even though BIL was seriously dating/had a kid/ got married over the course of her relationship with DH). So says SIL, anyway. </p> <p>She actually tried to reconnect with him about 3 years ago (not very long before DH and I got engaged). He responded to her email by talking all about how awesome his girlfriend was, how much the family loved her, and how I'd kicked everyone's asses in Scrabble. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-358221 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 12:10:18 +0000 Honeybee 358221@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH broke up with his high school girlfriend before he left for college. We started dating about a month into our Freshman year. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-358210 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 12:07:29 +0000 Alivoo01 358210@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He was in the process of getting out of a relationship when we met. We started officially dating 6 months after we met. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-358155 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 11:52:51 +0000 Smurfette 358155@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Like a year and couple months before we met. They broke up a couple months after his Mom died and he said that he then took time to deal with that and get healthier. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-358035 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 11:12:57 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 358035@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm his first GF, first kiss, first everything... so he's never had a last relationship! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-358006 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 11:05:32 +0000 alayaya 358006@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My hubs had some casual relationships, but nothing serious before we started dating. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-357986 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 11:00:41 +0000 Minnie_Girl 357986@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When we started dating, he'd been officially divorced for a couple of months, and had been separated for a year before that. He didn't date during the separation because he still considered himself married. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-357865 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 10:23:47 +0000 mrsjyw 357865@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He'd been single for three years when we met. His last relationship was his on/off again college gf. </p> <p>I'd just come out of my on/off again college relationship when we'd met. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-357831 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 10:15:23 +0000 oliviaoblivia 357831@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH was living with someone else when we met. They had dated for four years and she moved across the globe to be with him. Their breakup was really difficult. She expected to marry him and he didn't want that at all. We got together three months after they broke up. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-357829 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 10:14:23 +0000 BelugaBean 357829@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We had both been on dates but were each other's first relationship! We were 17, almost 18, when we started dating. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-357825 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 10:13:12 +0000 heffalump 357825@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He never really had any big serious relationships before me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-357821 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 10:12:33 +0000 littlek 357821@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH dated one girl for about 6 months and it was long distance, he was at UNC and she was at University of MD. It wasn't a serious relationship. I'm the only serious relationship DH has ever had. It has it's pros and cons. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-357811 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 10:10:41 +0000 chopsuey 357811@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Dh got out of a 2-3 year relationship about 6 months before we met! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-357804 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 10:09:29 +0000 wahine08 357804@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Same as you, @autumnlove. He had a live in GF for about 3 years but then no other GF's after for about 5 years. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-357799 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 10:08:41 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 357799@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He was on and off with a girl for a year and finally managed to end it completely a couple months before we met. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-357797 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 10:08:00 +0000 Bookish 357797@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't know the exact time frame, but it had been at least a few years before he dated anyone in any serious sense. He had some 'casual' (friends with benefits :p) relationships in the years between her and when he met me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-was-your-sos-last-relationship-before-you#post-357792 Wed, 24 Oct 2012 10:06:32 +0000 autumnlove 357792@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH's last relationship was about 5 years before we started dating. He didn't date anyone seriously during grad school. </p>