https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 04 May 2026 10:12:47 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-has-more-hand#post-606779 Fri, 01 Mar 2013 17:44:30 +0000 Weagle 606779@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH. He's the leader of the household. Though, when it comes down to it, he would probably do whatever makes LO and me happy as long as it wouldn't ruin the family :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-has-more-hand#post-606778 Fri, 01 Mar 2013 17:44:27 +0000 MrsTiz 606778@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think we're about equal, I make a lot of decisions but if DH vetoed them, that's that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-has-more-hand#post-606776 Fri, 01 Mar 2013 17:44:19 +0000 MamaMoose 606776@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Honestly I think we are pretty even in terms of "power". But he's more stubborn so he probably wins more arguments. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-has-more-hand#post-606771 Fri, 01 Mar 2013 17:42:59 +0000 Alivoo01 606771@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me because I handle the finances and am more level headed abotu big purchases. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-has-more-hand#post-606763 Fri, 01 Mar 2013 17:41:06 +0000 MrsH 606763@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have more hand on a lifestyle/living/jobs perspective because I'm the breadwinner. Dh makes a nice earning too but if he got a wonderful job offer someplace else I'd put the kibosh on it because I'm happy working where I am. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-has-more-hand#post-606754 Fri, 01 Mar 2013 17:38:09 +0000 LuLu Mom 606754@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think when it come down to it I have more "hand" but I try not to abuse my power! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-has-more-hand#post-606743 Fri, 01 Mar 2013 17:33:28 +0000 mrbee 606743@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>According to relationship expert George Costanza, every couple has one person who has the upper hand. This person controls the power dynamic, and can make most of the important decisions should they want to.</p> <p>Do you think that's true? If so, who has more hand: you or your SO? </p>