https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 24 May 2026 16:25:22 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2241393 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 23:22:11 +0000 CRGmama 2241393@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are pretty laid back but we both have things that we worry about. I'd say we're even. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2241363 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 22:05:47 +0000 Anagram 2241363@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We worry about different things, but we both worry! I worried majorly about SIDS and I worry about car seat safety. My husband worries about general bumps/falls/bruises a lot more than I do--he shadows LO on the playground like nobody's business and I hang back more. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2241159 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 17:23:20 +0000 MrsStar 2241159@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am more of a worrier but we're both pretty laid back </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2241102 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 16:11:19 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 2241102@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH for sure! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2241013 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 15:08:06 +0000 Mrs Green Grass 2241013@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH. I'm totally prepared for little bumps and bruises and things, so I'm okay with a little bit of risk. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240997 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 14:57:14 +0000 NurseDMB 2240997@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me for sure. But I have anxiety issues and DH is way more laid back than I am. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240968 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 14:29:58 +0000 MrsKoala 2240968@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me for sure. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240954 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 14:17:17 +0000 FaithFertility 2240954@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH and I are pretty close (poor kid) but he is a little more than me :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240951 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 14:16:08 +0000 Torchwood 2240951@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It varies. I worry more about the irrational things, like her getting cancer or that I'll drop her or whatever. DH worries more about safety. He's more obsessive about not falling asleep holding her ever, etc. I also worry more about how she's progressing, like that she might not be gaining weight (if her cheeks are any indicator, she definitely is), or that she'll never get the hang of nursing. He's generally not a worrier about anything ever, so I was surprised that he does worry as much as he does. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240884 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 13:38:47 +0000 snowjewelz 2240884@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me for sure! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240880 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 13:37:17 +0000 sapphire 2240880@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Definitely me. I'm a doctor so I've seen too many bad things. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240864 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 13:29:31 +0000 LuLu Mom 2240864@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh me for sure! DH has a more laid back approach to parenting, which isn't bad it kind of mellows out my type A personality. It's a good mix. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240832 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 12:59:37 +0000 teawithpaloma 2240832@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH for sure. </p> <p>My friend and her husband came over and she noticed it too. Now I don't feel so crazy for thinking this was the case. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240825 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 12:54:26 +0000 2PeasinaPod 2240825@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Irrational things? Me for sure. I'm worried that something bad is going to happen since it took us so long to have LO#1 and even get pregnant with this baby. I make DH call me when he's dropped LO off at daycare b/c he's not the person who normally does it, and I'm horribly afraid that either I or he will leave LO in a hot car all day. Like I said...totally irrational, b/c DH has the best memory ever, and is extremely attentive, but I can't shake that fear. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240815 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 12:42:23 +0000 Charm54 2240815@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Me, for sure </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240814 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 12:42:07 +0000 mrsjyw 2240814@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Dh! Most for safety related just like you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240800 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 12:29:33 +0000 ineebee 2240800@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Both of us, in different ways. I worry more about the safety stuff, and DH is more worried about teaching/rewarding bad habits. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240790 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 12:25:42 +0000 NovBaby1112 2240790@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My DH is the biggest worrier, where as I am super laid back. He is constantly worrying about stuff in regards to her health or a bruise or Something. It drives me crazy!!! I know part of it is engrained in him, bc his job is an attorney who deals with child abuse/child neglect, etc, so I know it's hard for him to separate them. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-is-the-worrier-when-it-comes-to-parenting#post-2240778 Mon, 20 Jul 2015 12:20:58 +0000 mrbee 2240778@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am definitely the worrier! I worry most about physical safety stuff: if the kids aren't holding someone's hand when we cross the streets, or if they are sleeping and their face is covered by a blanket.</p> <p>I've never really been a huge worrier before, so this is new for me!</p> <p>Who is the worrier when it comes to parenting? </p>