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<title>HLK208 on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 13:37:36 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;DH. It wasn't my first choice, I'm picking the next house!
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<title>Modern Daisy on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 13:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;DH is a lot pickier about our living space than I am, so it was mostly him who picked out our last two places. The rental we moved into together was in a building he had always wanted to live in, but definitely wouldn't have even made my list. I liked it though and was happy. When we bought our apartment a year ago, I wouldn't even go to an open house until he went to one first because he is so ridiculously picky I didn't want to waste my time! Thankfully he liked it and we actually ended up getting a pretty good deal since the owners had to sell by a certain date and there weren't a lot of buyers.
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<title>BKCaribBaby on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 13:33:14 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>BKCaribBaby</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;DH bought our place before we were even engaged, so he was the one who ultimately picked it. I did play broker though as I was helping him search for a place. I love where we live currently, but I know we'll eventually have to move.
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<title>lavender on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488779</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 13:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We both picked our house, #45 was the winner.
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<title>mamabolt on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488753</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 13:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>mamabolt</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We picked it together, but DH was much more gung-ho about it.
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<title>Bao on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488681</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 12:42:19 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Bao</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We picked our apartment together, and will pick our house together.
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<title>prettylizy on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488626</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 12:24:41 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We did it together. It was so much fun looking at house listings online and deciding what we did and didn't want in our first home.
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<title>winniebee on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488621</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 12:24:24 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We bought it/picked it out together when we were engaged.  BUT, I preferred this place and DH preferred a bigger place in a not as ideal location.  I won ; )
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<title>Bookish on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488620</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 12:24:23 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Bookish</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We spent weeks driving around looking at neighborhoods, and then once we did that I looked online for houses. The one we ended up buying was one I had to convince him to look at, but the more we went to see it, the more we loved it, and it was definitely a joint decision at the end!
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<title>fussygal on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488606</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 12:21:37 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>fussygal</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We usually pick our places together, but the last time we moved I saw it and made an appointment to sign the lease the next day so he could see it at the last minute. It was a unique circumstance though, we needed a house ASAP and it was the ONLY decent place avail so he gave me permission to jump on it.
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<title>ladyfingers on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488603</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 12:20:45 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>ladyfingers</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We picked it together, DH would have been pissed if I'd dropped $150,000 on something without asking ;)
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<title>Mrs. J on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488597</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 12:19:41 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mrs. J</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We picked out our apartment and house together, although he lived in our apartment with our now BIL before we got married. It definitely required deep cleaning after being a &#34;boy&#34; apartment!
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<title>iluvpink on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488581</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 12:16:07 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>iluvpink</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@mrbee: we picked it together..our home has everything we were looking for
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<title>lovehoneybee on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488528</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 12:03:42 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>lovehoneybee</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Together, technically. I was lukewarm about it...but DH was crazy in love with it, so I went along.
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<title>Mrs. Pen on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488524</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 12:03:19 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mrs. Pen</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;always together!&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;well except the first one... I picked it out.
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<title>BelugaBean on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488520</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 12:02:16 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>BelugaBean</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I found it online but we both loved it in person.  And honestly, it was big enough, it was an okay price (not perfect but okay), and it was in a nice neighborhood that was close to things (most importantly my doctor) so we went with it.  We pretty much had to though because I was 39 weeks pregnant and we were living with my in-laws two hours away from my hospital and DH's new job. &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;We generally pick things together and did here too (we both agreed we just needed a place to live).
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<title>Mrs. Pickle on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488493</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:58:20 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mrs. Pickle</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Our house was my husband's #1 choice when we were looking. I wasn't that convinced. I came around and now I love it.
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<title>Alivoo01 on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488488</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:56:42 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Alivoo01</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We picked our apartment and our house together.
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<title>LindsayInNY on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488399</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:30:03 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>LindsayInNY</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We picked out our first apartment together. Then he picked out our first apartment in the NYC-area since I was studying for the bar. I picked out our current apartment but had him look at it before fully committing. We're about to start looking again and will be doing that together!
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<title>ShootingStar on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488377</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:24:49 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>ShootingStar</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I bought my house when DH and I were just friends.  He did go around with me to all the houses and help me pick, but ultimately it was my decision.
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<title>.twist. on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488368</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:22:46 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;My husband. I moved in with him and then I bought the house from his parents.
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<title>rachiecakes on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488366</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:21:49 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>rachiecakes</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We were renting in Boston and bought a house in Upstate NY. We thought we wanted to live there after 5 years vacationing there. We lived there for 8 weeks before moving back to Boston, haha. When we came back I was a mess, I was so stressed moving and sad that we didn't love NY, I let DH pick out the apartment. It's a loft-style townhouse with lots of open railings and balconies. Not great for a baby/small child. But the location is PERFECT. Ugh.
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<title>Foodnerd81 on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488358</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:20:11 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Foodnerd81</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We picked our current place together, although DH found the listing when it came up on Craiglist. We are currently apt or condo hunting and doing it together, but he is more knowledgeable about this stuff and more picky, so he is leading the charge. I just point out the specifics that won't work with a baby that he doesn't think of.
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<title>Minnie_Girl on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Minnie_Girl</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We picked our house together, but DH was responsible for helping me look past the mess it was in. I was in the middle of  morning sickness when we were hunting, so I had a hard time focusing in the tours and making reasonable judgments!
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<title>Smurfette on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picked-out-your-homeapartment-you-or-your-so#post-488354</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:19:24 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Smurfette</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;DH bought our condo before we met. I would have never bought it. We are closing on a house that we picked out together on the 1st. Makes me happy that we now will be living someplace that we both like.
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<title>Meridian on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:17:59 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Meridian</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We picked out our current condo together!
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<title>Adira on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:13:01 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Adira</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We picked it together, but I definitely think I had more of a say.  I LOVED the house and Hubs just really liked it, but since I was so in love with it and Hubs didn't have as big of an opinion, we got it!
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<title>Mrsbells on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:12:37 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mrsbells</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;we picked together before we got married, but he moved in first. I  moved in after the wedding
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<title>MrsBrewer on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:12:10 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>MrsBrewer</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We both picked out our house together. I was the house hunter, who looked online at listings, but we decided together that this was our house :-)
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<title>autumnlove on "Who picked out your home/apartment: you or your SO?"</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 11:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>autumnlove</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;We picked it together!
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