https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 03 Jul 2026 13:50:08 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128917 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 21:26:15 +0000 cyneswith 128917@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I came up with three styles I liked, and my flower girl picked her favorite. It was beautiful on her. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128907 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 21:20:56 +0000 sulli301 128907@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We picked the flower girl dress for our flower girl in our wedding but I did ask the mom her opinion &amp; if she wanted to help me pick </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128682 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 16:59:33 +0000 Rainbow Sprinkles 128682@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh wow. I picked the dress for the flowergirl in my wedding. The mom just told me her budget and I picked a dress within her price range. I was picky! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128667 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 16:45:41 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 128667@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My two year old flower girl picked her own dress! I had three or four for her to try on. She refused to put on a couple because of the crinoline. She put on another and then wouldn't take it off. She was twirling around the store. I asked her if that was the one she wanted and she said yes. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128659 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 16:39:28 +0000 HabesBabe 128659@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it's up to the bride to determine who decides... if that makes any sense. If she has a particular dress in mind, then she gets to choose. If she tells you to choose whatever, then it's up to you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128656 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 16:38:23 +0000 banana 128656@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I bought my flower girls their dresses. I didn't even think about having them pick actually. I just bought it sent it to them to wear. Same with the shoes. I just asked them what size they were and bought/sent it to them. I let them do their own hair though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128624 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 16:16:25 +0000 Alivoo01 128624@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I let the mom of my flower girl pick the dress since she was going to be her mom's flower girl first. I was letting her reuse the dress, and I just supply a sash to make her match my wedding colors/party. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128619 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 16:12:26 +0000 chopsuey 128619@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I went shopping with my SIL and niece. I ended up choosing, but didn't really care what she wore. She was cute in everything! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128601 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 16:05:23 +0000 Mrs. Bicycle 128601@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The Bride! She's the boss! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128587 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 15:57:50 +0000 Adira 128587@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When I was a flower girl, my mom went shopping with the bride to pick out my dress.</p> <p>But I agree with what others have said. Maybe you could narrow down your choices to three and then ask her to pick one of them? Or just tell her "I'm getting this one unless you hate it, let me know!" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128584 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 15:55:57 +0000 LuLu Mom 128584@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I sent my sister some options for my nieces and we ended up liking the same one and ordered that one (after the one came in and was the wrong color!) And they looked adorable. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128527 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 15:25:03 +0000 heffalump 128527@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Goldilocks1107: I ended up having my mom pick because my sister refused to. So I sent her my mom's final decision just to make sure even though I'm 99% sure she'll say yes to anything I show her. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128513 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 15:11:17 +0000 Goldilocks1107 128513@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If she's giving you the ability to pick your own - that's great! Maybe just send her your favorite and say "I'm going to order this one on &lt;&lt;date&gt;&gt;, if you don't like it, let me know and I'll keep looking."<br /> That way, she has the opportunity to nix it, without feeling like the decision has been placed back with her (maybe she delegated to you because she really doesn't care and wanted it off her to do list). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-picks-the-flower-girl-dress#post-128507 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 15:08:18 +0000 heffalump 128507@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For my wedding, I knew the mom of the flower girl would want to pick the dress, so I gave her a color and let her at it. She actually wanted something more formal and expensive than I had in mind, but it was adorable and ended up being perfect. </p> <p>My LO is going to be a flower girl in July, and the bride also gave me color choices and said I can pick. I've been emailing her options because I feel like she should make the final decision. I know she'll love anything on my LO, but I would hate to pick something that she doesn't love. </p>