https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 17 Jun 2026 20:10:32 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-114551 Sun, 08 Apr 2012 00:47:03 +0000 babyz 114551@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just my DH. I also need an hour with just DH and my baby post delivery because I think it's important we have that time with her before everyone else shows up. We only plan to tell a selected few when I am in labor, so DH will tell everyone after she arrives, which will logistically give us that hour to be with her anyway. It'll also depend on what time she's born and when visiting hours are allowed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-114045 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 18:29:15 +0000 MrsBrewer 114045@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When the time comes I plan on it only being me and DH. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-114043 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 18:26:23 +0000 aunt pol 114043@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow things are totally different here. Here it's just you and your DH/birth partner and medical personnel- about 9 or so - and that's it. Full stop. Nobody else in the recovery room, and certainly nobody else in the labour room. Everyone else has to wait for visiting hours like any other visit to a hospital.<br /> Consequently we just don't have that culture of people turning up while you're giving birth, or directly after.<br /> According to the midwife, the average list here for bodies present during labour includes midwife, obstetrician, 2 nurses, runner, paediatrician (2 of those for multiple births) anaesthetist if necessary, student midwife. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-114015 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 17:25:38 +0000 lavender 114015@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It was just DH, our hospital was all about skin to skin. And it was great. It was just two hours of the three of us in the L&amp;D room before I got transferred to my recovery room. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113923 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 14:56:30 +0000 regberadaisy 113923@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I ONLY want my husband.<br /> If it was a long labor to relieve my husband before transition I would choose my good friend. Because I think she will be the best support person for ME.</p> <p>I don't know what I will do if my mom is here already when I'm in labor. She doesn't speak English so I think it will be more stressful for me trying to explain to her what's going on.</p> <p>@mrstilly: @artbee:<br /> That's what I Love about the hospital we will be delivering at. The first hour they call the Golden Hour where it's just mom, dad and baby. They encourage skin on skin contact along with breastfeeding then to create that bond. They allow no one else in. Everyone else can wait till we get to the mother baby unit. :)</p> <p>@miss-spunkin:<br /> That's actually a really good idea to encourage skin on skin contact between my husband and baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113917 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 14:45:06 +0000 yoursilverlining 113917@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just my husband. I love my mom and MIL dearly, but no. Having them there fussing over me would only stress me out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113907 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 14:22:58 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 113907@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When I get pregnant and am at that point I really want my husband, mom, and mil in the room. I don't think there will be people in the waiting room because we only have an aunt and uncle that live in the same state. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113902 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 14:18:31 +0000 chopsuey 113902@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mom and DH! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113901 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 14:17:56 +0000 mrs. wagon 113901@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just Wagon Sr. This time around it'll be him and a doula. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113898 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 14:16:22 +0000 mrstilly 113898@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was kind of ticked that my dad and in laws were let in right away too. My MIL swooped in and picked DS up before I was comfortable with it. I wish we had and extra hour or so. We would have if they hadn't camped out overnight. </p> <p>My stepmom was like my doula too. She was the perfect compliment to DH and could get me to eat, drink, move around,.etc... without me feeling like she was nagging. It let DH be more quiet.support, which was good because he is terrified of hospitals. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113678 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 09:25:07 +0000 Mrs. Pen 113678@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@artbee: both DH and I did a lot of skin to skin the first week as well, I actually think that's partly why he is soo good with DH. </p> <p>I had my DH and mom. I couldn't have done it without either of them. I needed a hand to squeeze through every contraction, so my DH couldn't leave my side or else I freaked. My mom got me water, took pictures, talked to me, made sure they followed ny birth plan- she was kinda like my doula :) my mom and I are very close so it meant a lot that she was there. And I was actually there when she gave birth to my sister ;)</p> <p>I was going to have my older sister with me too (I was at her birth), but she didn't make it to the hospital in time, so she got there about half hour after I delivered. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113565 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 08:05:42 +0000 volksgirl64 113565@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Before I delivered I talked to my good friend about being in there and she was all for it, but the closer we got to EDD the more weird it felt. I only wanted DH in there but didn't know how to tell BFF.<br /> Well, DD came at 2:44am so it didn't matter as much, BFF was at home asleep! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113544 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 07:48:29 +0000 heffalump 113544@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Only my husband. And I wouldn't change a thing. Also, I did skin on skin after she was born for an hour. This way I didn't about having anyone else trying to scoop lo up, and we got to be a little family before all the chaos. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113523 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 07:17:31 +0000 anbanan15 113523@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My mom and DH were there. </p> <p>I didn't want anyone else there and no one to come back until I was moved to recovery. They even asked us when we checked in if anyone else would be coming after the birth or switching out with my mom or DH because they needed to be on "the list". Well somehow my BIL got in RIGHT after I gave birth. I wasn't cleaned up yet and I hadn't fed DS. I was like ummm are you leaving so I can get naked to feed my son (BIL didn't even aknowledge me or DS he was all looking at his phone and talking to DH about his day. So annoying lol). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113522 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 07:02:10 +0000 pelikila 113522@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Only my husband. We didn't even call anyone to let them know I was in labor so we wouldn't have people waiting. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113510 Fri, 06 Apr 2012 06:29:01 +0000 mrstilly 113510@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsjyw: If you want your mom and no one else, just tell the nurses. It's best to be honest with people before hand about when you would like visitors, but the nurses are usually great about keeping out guests who are early or uninvited. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113400 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 23:27:18 +0000 owlmom 113400@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just DH. My parents were at the hospital but stayed in the waiting room. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113394 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 23:01:08 +0000 MsMini 113394@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am only having myself and DH. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113390 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 22:43:31 +0000 cyndistar3 113390@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just had my husband, I didn't want anyone else distracting me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113376 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 22:25:52 +0000 tequiero21 113376@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just the hubs... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113369 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 22:18:30 +0000 lemondrop 113369@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just my husband. I had him tell the rest of the family to come the next day. I had left the option open, but in the end did not want anyone else there when labor actually hit. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113367 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 22:16:50 +0000 leelee 113367@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It will just be DH in the room, which I know will create drama with his side. His whole family took turns in the L&amp;D room and camped out in the waiting room for 2 days when his sister had her baby. We agreed that DH would call them with updates however we wanted some family time before anyone came to visit. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113329 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 21:31:13 +0000 Weagle 113329@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're planning on just having DH and our doula in the room. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113323 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 21:29:23 +0000 mrsjyw 113323@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So I really want my mom in the L&amp;D room with me... but how do I go about anyone else waiting?... I sort of don't want anyone else there until after birth!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113316 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 21:26:08 +0000 Mrs. Yoyo 113316@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Only my husband. Family is far away so it wasn't an issue, thankfully! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113305 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 21:20:29 +0000 autumnlove 113305@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just my DH! Family came to visit after LO was born! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113294 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 21:16:37 +0000 mrstilly 113294@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had my husband and my stepmom, who is a nurse, in the room with me during labor and delivery. DH held my hand and my stepmom held a leg! </p> <p>I had a scheduled induction a week and a half past my due date, so everyone knew when I was going in. My FIL and MIL showed up (uninvited) at noon and stayed until I delivered at 6am the following morning. My SIL and BIL visited briefly while I was in labor, but went home. </p> <p>MIL was miffed that she wasn't invited into the room, but we aren't close enough for me to want her in there, plus she is high strung and overbearing and I wanted calm. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113288 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 21:13:49 +0000 cupcakemama 113288@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just dh. I would have found anyone else intrusive. We also did not have people in the waiting room. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113286 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 21:13:21 +0000 MamaMoose 113286@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I plan on only hubs but I know if I get too scared I will want my mommy : ) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/who-was-in-your-delivery-room#post-113284 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 21:11:39 +0000 Andrea 113284@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Only DH. I think any more is unnecessary! </p>