https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 07 Aug 2026 23:05:59 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-426069 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 20:49:39 +0000 prettylizy 426069@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For the most part it's him. I'm the bad cop, but I'm okay with it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-426058 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 20:45:31 +0000 travelgirl1 426058@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lantern: I thought I'd be all about putting her in her own room from day one, no pacis, putting her down as soon as she was asleep, no comfort nursing etc,</p> <p>In reality, she's slept on me pretty much from day one, I cuddle her when she's asleep all the time, I let her fall asleep at the breast and DH can't believe what a soft touch I've become, lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-425112 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 12:59:58 +0000 chopsuey 425112@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're both softies, but I'm the bigger softie. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-425104 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 12:52:40 +0000 Mrs. Lantern 425104@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@travelgirl1: do elaborate! What has changed? :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-425096 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 12:49:52 +0000 Alivoo01 425096@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Definitely the hubby. He's the softie about everything in life. I'm very firm with my decisions. No wavering. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-425092 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 12:48:52 +0000 winniebee 425092@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm a softie about comforting him during the day....DS gives in much more frequently to night wakings! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-425084 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 12:44:56 +0000 shopaholic 425084@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH for sure! I already know I will have to be the stricter one, the disciplinarian. DH is such a softie with our dog and everyone's kids. He never sees things that other kids do as being wrong or needs to be corrected. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-425015 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 12:05:33 +0000 lovehoneybee 425015@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So far me, for the most part. I get the feeling I'll be the pushover parent and he'll be the strict one. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-425009 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 12:02:37 +0000 Weagle 425009@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH for sure. We have a good system going and it always gets thrown off when DH has long weekends. He's too much of a softie to stick to the routine :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-424464 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 06:32:39 +0000 Andrea 424464@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Neither of us when it comes to stuff like sleep training. We're both strict! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-424394 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 02:46:14 +0000 travelgirl1 424394@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're only 3 weeks in but so far I'd say me - not at all what I expected!</p> <p>Good luck with your sleep training! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-424392 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 02:40:22 +0000 BoogieBea 424392@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Overall, my husband is more of the softie but he always has less patience. So, LO takes advantage of his dad's soft side, my husband can get furious pretty quickly. That's when I become the softie. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-424390 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 02:39:40 +0000 Rosie Girl 424390@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH by FAR!!!! I work night shifts and when I get home in the morning, DD is almost ALWAYS in bed with him! He tells me she just doesn't sleep well when I am not there! He also is the one to move things she gets in to, whereas I move her and tell her no. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-424386 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 02:31:51 +0000 Sweet T 424386@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH is a complete softie. He always tells me I'm going to be the mean parent. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-424372 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 02:00:13 +0000 autumnlove 424372@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH for sure! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-424369 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 01:55:57 +0000 Mrs Checkers 424369@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think we take turns being the softie, but more often it's me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/whos-the-softie-you-or-your-so#post-424366 Fri, 30 Nov 2012 01:55:02 +0000 Mrs. Pen 424366@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH for sure is!! It's funny most of the time, but can sometimes get in the way... Like sleep training! DS has woken up four times in the last four hours and demanded to stay awake for 30-60 mins each time and crying a lot. I said we could comfort him for a few minutes but we had to let him CIO or he'll keep waking up but DH can't do it! He said its too sad to listen to him. Aww :) I am just hoping it doesn't negatively affect DS's sleep!! I did all the sleep training 3 months ago and I'll be disappointed if we go back to square one..</p> <p>Who is the softie? </p>