https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 06 May 2026 02:26:40 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1479045 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 15:45:20 +0000 snowjewelz 1479045@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So many in-law woes :sad: </p> <p>I'm not really sure what we fight about most... Our fights is more emotional based, stemming from misunderstanding or mis-communications. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1479021 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 15:37:55 +0000 London Mama 1479021@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When he tells me how to do certain tasks, I don't respond we'll to that. Makes me fuming when he tries to tell me how to do things I've managed to do on my own, successfully, for 20-30 years. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1478784 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 14:27:52 +0000 sunny 1478784@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We used to fight about chores all the time. Now we fight about in laws :-( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1478700 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 14:04:46 +0000 Raindrop 1478700@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Okay I'm surprised no one said this... a hot button for us is CHORES! :) If we had more money I think a housekeeper might be good for us. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1478608 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 13:38:47 +0000 MrsADS 1478608@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pretty much the only thing we fight about is time and all his extracurricular activities. He is involved in so much stuff at night - like he's usually gone 3 nights a week. We don't have a LO yet but I do get really upset sometimes that he's gone so much. It's an ongoing issue. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1478401 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 12:45:56 +0000 charmed 1478401@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Our fights are usually money related... I'm the one that pays bills/budgets, so I also end up being the bad guy if DH spends more than normal or wants to make a big purchase. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1478398 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 12:44:08 +0000 dc yoga bee 1478398@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Whether or not we would stay in the south after I graduated law school and we got married, or move to DC. I told DH on our first date I was moving to DC upon graduation, and he kept on dating and proposed anyways. Then he tried to back out of it, so I almost called off the wedding exactly one month before the wedding, because I was very up front on our first date. He moved. We love it. All's well that ends well! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1478391 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 12:41:04 +0000 snowjewelz 1478391@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pui: Yes! One time DH got so mad at me cause I said I'd walk the dog while he was out but didn't when he came back cause I lost track of time. I didn't understand why he got so mad for one little thing. But it ended being that it made him feel like what he says is not important! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1478379 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 12:36:04 +0000 pui 1478379@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Worst fight... probably back when we were dating. We were at a party and I wanted to stay longer while he wanted to go home. He ended up leaving and I slept over at a friends house where one of my ex's also stayed. The next day was bad.</p> <p>Most common fight is when one of us forgets to do something the other asked for. Apparently we both hate that lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1478352 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 12:28:17 +0000 oliviaoblivia 1478352@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>MIL and tennis.<br /> MIL is very disrespectful towards me and he has a hard time standing up to her.<br /> Tennis - he plays too much. There are days he doesn't see DD because he leaves early to play and comes home after bedtime. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1478298 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 12:10:19 +0000 snowjewelz 1478298@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs tartan: Your big fights were pretty legit! I never even remember what we fought about! For us it's usually someone is already in a bad mood and it just spirals like @RUNNERD said! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1478292 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 12:08:45 +0000 snowjewelz 1478292@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@AmandaB8: Same here about $! It's not even fighting; I just nag haha. He doesn't put up a fight b/c he knows his money management sucks! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1478289 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 12:08:18 +0000 Mrs tartan 1478289@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Our worst ever fight was within the first 6 months of us dating, he sent a message to me meant for another girl...oh yes that happened. That fight was hugely one sided (just me shouting). Then we split up and got back together years later when we had grown up. Now we laugh about it, about how he couldn't even sneak around properly (he didn't cheat). </p> <p>In the past 5 years we have been together we have perhaps had 3 big fights which were about who would move for us to be together (he did) who would change jobs for us to be together (he did) and how I needed help planning the wedding. The rest is small bickering maybe once every 2 months. </p> <p>We are not perfect, but we do adore each other! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1478253 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 12:00:52 +0000 mlm2934 1478253@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh man we have had some nasty nasty fights, but we have been together since 18 yrs old, so the worst ones were in the earlier years of our relationship. Thankfully we have matured a lot.</p> <p>I can't really say what our worst fight was about, they always start or something stupid then spiral. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1478239 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 11:57:53 +0000 AmandaB8 1478239@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Money and time. We fight about money bc he doesn't look at the bank account, and I worry too much. It all works out in the end, but stresses me out. And time isn't so bad when I'm working. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477940 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:39:01 +0000 Bookish 1477940@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Our biggest fights have been over his cat and my ILs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477936 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:38:19 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 1477936@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We got in a big fight the first month we were dating that caused us to break up for a day. It was a huge miscommunication. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477909 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:31:25 +0000 MamaMoose 1477909@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>All of big (and only) fights have been about my in laws. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477905 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:31:05 +0000 MamaMoose 1477905@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HLK208: Food is SERIOUS business when you're preggers! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477894 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:29:02 +0000 Ra 1477894@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We pretty much only fight about my MIL. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477862 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:21:20 +0000 snowjewelz 1477862@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsH: in-laws are tough just b/c you can't control them so you can't really control whether you end up fighting about them :sad: Feel free to vent if you need!! Hugs :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477837 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:16:43 +0000 MrsH 1477837@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@snowjewelz: I'm not sure who is luckier. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477823 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:13:08 +0000 HLK208 1477823@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It was while I was pregnant with our second. The fight was over...food....</p> <p>Otherwise, we've been through a lot together so I think it takes a lot for us to argue. Usually lack of sleep, stress and pregnancy or pp hormones are the main factors into why we've bickered in the past. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477813 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:10:58 +0000 Smurfette 1477813@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@snowjewelz: yep! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477805 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:09:18 +0000 snowjewelz 1477805@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Smurfette: I guess I know when our next big fight will be! I should get a free pass though for giving birth &amp; being a milk cow?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477800 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:08:27 +0000 snowjewelz 1477800@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsH: For us we've def fought about the 1st two but not the last :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477794 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:07:21 +0000 MrsH 1477794@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CupQuakeWalk: seriously. I've heard the three major topics of fights are sex, money, and in laws. In our case it is just the last one. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477775 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:03:49 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 1477775@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@snowjewelz: see, I hate that. But of course we make up very quickly (like very), but then I'm like, "damn, I really said that to ya,huh?" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477773 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:03:14 +0000 Smurfette 1477773@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No clue....we have only fought a handful of times since we started dating. I am sure the biggest was after R was born, no sleep, hormones, house a mess, and I was pissed at something super stupid he didn't do. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-fight-you-had-with-so#post-1477769 Fri, 07 Mar 2014 10:02:50 +0000 snowjewelz 1477769@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CupQuakeWalk: I really hate how ugly we get and the mean things we say when we fight! But sometimes I feel like it's healthy to just let it all out knowing that our fight ends and we'll be okay after lol. </p>