https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 08 Apr 2026 12:27:15 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572829 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:33:44 +0000 MrsBrewer 572829@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You are not the worst person, or even close to it! Don't feel bad! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572825 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:31:52 +0000 anonysquire 572825@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsjyw: Thank you! I hope so too!</p> <p>@MsLipGloss: Ya I never ever thought it would take a while to get pregnant :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572811 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:26:13 +0000 MsLipGloss 572811@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Anonysquire: For those comments, I would add your sister to the *Worst* list. People just don't get it. It took us a little while (6 months), but I feel insanely lucky that that's all it took. I'm so sorry doll. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572807 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:24:28 +0000 mrsjyw 572807@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>HUGS! I think the fact that you self-evaluate and critique just goes to show that you're not HORRIBLE!!! It's hard to go through what you're going through and put on a smile 100% of the time. I hope the road gets easier for you and you have your baby soon!!!! HUGGGGGGS </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572806 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:24:02 +0000 anonysquire 572806@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Shutterbug: Thanks!!!</p> <p>@MsLipGloss: Lol I was always the tall kid in middle school, then I stopped growing and everyone caught up! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572803 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:23:01 +0000 anonysquire 572803@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: Ya it is hard. I'm sorry you get left out too :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572800 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:22:19 +0000 anonysquire 572800@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pastemoo: Dang, I can't remember the first part in Up. And I will read the blog, thanks! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572797 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:21:34 +0000 anonysquire 572797@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsLipGloss: Lol Kelly from third grade? Hahahha! And yes my whole family knows about our infertility issues but still I don't think they get them. My sister was always making comments like you need to try longer and that I'm acting all crazy about wanting a baby. Ya.... easy for someone to say who got pregnant the first month she tried.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572787 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:17:31 +0000 MsLipGloss 572787@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Shutterbug: you totally made me lol irl! :D But she was . . . she hit me with her lunchbox, and I got in trouble because I hit her back (because I was taller than she was . . . wtf?) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572779 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:14:58 +0000 Shutterbug 572779@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsLipGloss: haha that Kelly, what a b*tch</p> <p>@anonysquire: ((((hugs)))) and I totally feel you. It's hard when you can't have the thing you want the most in the world, and you have to put on a happy face while someone close to you gets to have it all. That definitely doesn't make you the worst person in the world, not even close! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572776 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:14:13 +0000 mlm2934 572776@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This isn't fertility related, but I live 2 hours from my hometown where my 3 siblings and dad live. No one invites me to things on the weekend and I can count on my fingers the visits to see me since I moved 9 years ago. It drives me mad and really hurts my feelings so I can at least relate to the not feeling included part. *hugs* emotions are hard - and jealousy is a natural one even if it does make us feel icky. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572757 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:07:50 +0000 pastemoo 572757@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Jealousy is the worst! It is hard to kick and it burns you up inside.<br /> I'm sorry you're going through this. The most important part is you are going THROUGH it--keep going and you will find yourself on the other side.<br /> Did you see the new blog post/letter?</p> <p>PS You are not the worst person ever. You are human and jealousy is a human emotion--and it is worst when it comes to fertility. Remember the first few minutes of the movie "Up?" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572745 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:04:25 +0000 MsLipGloss 572745@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Is your sister aware of your fertility issues? Maybe she senses how hard it is for you? </p> <p>Infertility sucks. I am so, so sorry for you! I just wanted to give you a big (((hug))) and tell you that you are NOT the worst person ever. </p> <p>I mean, seriously, EVER includes people like Ivan the Terrible, Hitler, Jeffrey Dahmer, Kelly from my third grade class . . . . :P (That was my sick attempt at humor, but I thought you might appreciate it). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572733 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 15:59:29 +0000 anonysquire 572733@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ok so my little nephew is like 4 weeks old and I adore him! I am always loving on him and buying him everything I see and trying to talk to my sister and be interested in her life. As many of you know my sister has always been just not a warm person, and it was even worse during her pregnancy. She was just mean to all of us. </p> <p>Anyways I am a HORRIBLE person! I get so jeaous :( Everytime we all hang out I go home crying. I just want to have my own baby. And again I love the baby but I guess I am too immature to handle the fact that now I get no attention and everyone is focused on the baby and my sister. My parents don't txt or call anymore. The only time they let me come over is when I offer to help my mom with cleaning or setting up parties or something. Everyone else is constantly over at my sisters house or babysitting or whatever. I wait for an invitation and it never comes so then I sneakily text asking if my sister needs anything or a babysitter or dinner and she always says no. </p> <p>So I know I am sounding like a child. I guess I am having a much harder time dealing with my infertility. I talked to my mom about how we are starting the foster process and didnt get a very nice reaction from her last night. </p> <p>Help me not be so jealous! I feel like I dont even want to go over anymore when my sister and nephew are there because I am completely ignored. </p>