https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 28 Jul 2026 10:47:10 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120919 Fri, 13 Apr 2012 08:49:14 +0000 mrsjyw 120919@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it'd be pretty hard. We work pretty much similar hours and are together outside of work. Dh also works at a bank and I work at the HQ building of my company; so neither of us would be able to do anything during work hours either! :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120907 Fri, 13 Apr 2012 08:43:46 +0000 twodoghouse 120907@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are pretty much together all the time and we live in a smallish town where everyone knows everyone else's business. So I think it'd be pretty hard to cheat. Also, my husband's job is 97% male so I don't know where he'd even find someone to cheat with! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120898 Fri, 13 Apr 2012 08:37:36 +0000 MamaMoose 120898@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I mean I guess it would be easy for me now because every day I have about 2.5 hours between when I get out of work and when my husband gets out of work. The thought has never crossed my mind though, and I would doubt it's crossed my husband's. Especially now that I'm pregnant and he knows I spend that time napping every day!! : ) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120845 Fri, 13 Apr 2012 07:49:49 +0000 Rock n Roll 120845@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It would probably be easier for him than me. I work and then have my LO whenever I'm not at work. He has LO when I'm at work and then works nights, but he goes out with his friends after work sometimes on the weekend, so he could cheat then and I wouldn't even notice since I'm asleep and don't usually know when he gets home. But I trust him and it's not something I really worry about. And I guess I could theoretically cheat when I go out with my friends sometimes. It just seems like it would take a lot of effort. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120796 Fri, 13 Apr 2012 07:22:11 +0000 Rubies 120796@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I suppose it would be possible for hubs to cheat but it would have to be at work, during work hours, and since I know his female coworkers, it would be difficult. Me? Well, unless I wanted to cheat with someone with my LO in tow...Plus, who as time to cheat when I don't have time to eat or sleep?? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120788 Fri, 13 Apr 2012 07:18:48 +0000 sulli301 120788@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, basically every moment that DH isn't at work he is here spending time with us &amp; I am almost always with LO. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120775 Fri, 13 Apr 2012 07:13:00 +0000 heffalump 120775@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No. Unless I wanted LO to be with me while I was cheating because I do have the day without my husband. But that would just be the worst mother ever. He gets home from work early, at 4:30, so he's always around in the evenings. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120723 Fri, 13 Apr 2012 05:54:24 +0000 tequiero21 120723@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think anyone who really wanted to could make it work.... I guess it would be pretty easy for either of us to cheat. He could just say a case came up and he has to go to the OR. I dont ask him for his on call schedule. I'm now a sahm, so technically, would be easy, but not exactly sexying it up right now so lol... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120681 Fri, 13 Apr 2012 02:49:03 +0000 mediagirl 120681@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When I was traveling, yeah. It would be easy. Without traveling, not really. We know each other's schedules too well and 99% of the time, we don't have to work late. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120616 Fri, 13 Apr 2012 01:16:55 +0000 Rainbow Sprinkles 120616@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It would be so hard for him!<br /> He goes to work at the same time every day and comes home at the same time every day. He works with my dad (he's his boss), works two blocks away from my parents, and eight miles from where we live.<br /> When he comes home, he stays with me until the next morning. If he leaves, we always go together.<br /> It would be bizzarre if he ever came home late from work one day without calling--I would think something is up! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120547 Thu, 12 Apr 2012 22:26:49 +0000 Andrea 120547@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, he would have to be having sex with someone at work in the office or else I don't think he would have time. So I guess it is still possible! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120543 Thu, 12 Apr 2012 22:09:23 +0000 chopsuey 120543@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep! Since DH travels it'd be easy.<br /> I know he'd never do anything to jeopardize our relationship and our family.. and I wouldn't do anything either! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120540 Thu, 12 Apr 2012 22:00:22 +0000 Mrs. Pen 120540@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>not at all... probably easier for me.</p> <p>I know my husband's work schedule, and he never really has to work later than his scheduled week. He is SO busy at work that there would be no time, and he spends all weekend with me and LO. </p> <p>For me, I'm home now 24/7 I guess if i really wanted to I could get my mom to babysit LO for the day haha. But honestly being a SAHM I would have no way to even meet anyone :)</p> <p>but that is obviously not a problem. I adore my dh :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-it-be-easy-for-you-or-your-so-to-cheat#post-120537 Thu, 12 Apr 2012 21:57:08 +0000 mrbee 120537@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It'd be pretty hard for me or Mrs. Bee to cheat, I think. We are both busy with the kids and work, and we generally are either in the same room or can see each other on IM. Plus we're just so tired these days.</p> <p>I guess we could cheat if we really worked at it, but it wouldn't be easy.</p> <p>Would it be easy for you or your SO to cheat? Logistically speaking, I mean. </p>