https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 10 May 2026 09:58:23 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-624202 Fri, 08 Mar 2013 10:16:47 +0000 irene 624202@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No you are not being difficult. That is absolutely ridiculous. Those are all red flags! The director and the teachers doesn't even communicate, and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out a 3 month old baby should be put in the infant room (room 1), needs 3+ naps and needs to go down whenever he/she goes down. Can you imagine what kind of crazy thing they can come up with as time goes by?</p> <p>I would pull LO off and look for another daycare. Good daycares are out there. I hope you find your match... good luck! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-621337 Thu, 07 Mar 2013 15:15:20 +0000 purrpletulips 621337@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You are not being difficult and that sounds like a safety issue. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-621307 Thu, 07 Mar 2013 15:07:51 +0000 hellobeeboston 621307@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>oh great! i just saw your pumping post (yay) and I was wondering what ever happened with the daycare situation! hopefully a little less stress for you right now ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-621303 Thu, 07 Mar 2013 15:05:44 +0000 pinkcupcake 621303@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@78h2o: awesome! So glad it all worked out for you, and good for you for sticking to your guns! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-621302 Thu, 07 Mar 2013 15:05:11 +0000 78h2o 621302@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: lol @ "all hot and bothered" :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-621217 Thu, 07 Mar 2013 14:50:25 +0000 mediagirl 621217@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank goodness. I just read this and was getting all hot and bothered. I'm SO glad they moved her to the right room!!</p> <p>I do think it's awesome that they have a room that has designated nap times for the older babies. I do wish our daycare did that. Sounds like it's all working out for you. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-621192 Thu, 07 Mar 2013 14:46:12 +0000 T.H.O.U. 621192@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@78h2o: glad it's been resolved. Glad you spoke up! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-621172 Thu, 07 Mar 2013 14:43:04 +0000 mrsmenow 621172@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@78h2o: So glad the straightened everything out! FWIW I would have done the same thing:) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-621151 Thu, 07 Mar 2013 14:40:40 +0000 78h2o 621151@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wanted to thank you all again... I went back and spoke with the staff again on Tuesday and they moved her to the correct room. I like the caregivers in that room and am so much more comfortable with the current situation!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611675 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 14:34:04 +0000 Mrsbells 611675@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This would bother me for sure! Infants should be with infants and not in a room with older toddlers who play rough </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611646 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 14:26:39 +0000 LuLu Mom 611646@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would not be happy about this, and the fact that they were only going to give a 3 month old 2 naps is scary to me! At 3 months they should be allowed to sleep when they want they are growing babies! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611627 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 14:21:07 +0000 hellobeeboston 611627@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>umm, yikes - that would bother me too! especially with the older babies walking around! agree with mungbean - see if she can be moved asap! any chance there are any other daycare options for you? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611561 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 14:00:02 +0000 Mrs. Bee 611561@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>this would definitely bother me. mixed ages don't matter as much when babies are a little bit older and on 2 naps, but for a 3 month old infant that needs at least 3 naps a day, she should definitely be in an infant room. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611540 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:55:33 +0000 78h2o 611540@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MungBean: Yeah, and they are walking, not just crawling. My friends daughter was in the room with my daughter during her trial day last week and I know for a fact that child is 1.5 years and 30+ lbs, so I was a unnerved by her walking around and laying on my baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611501 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:49:47 +0000 pinkcupcake 611501@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd be livid. A three month old shouldn't be in the same room as crawlers - she could totally get hurt. Babies should be grouped at the same age. I would meet with the director and request that she be removed immed, not two weeks from now. IMO, this is a safety issue. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611444 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:39:16 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 611444@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sounds like there is a space and staffing issue that will not be resolved until two weeks. You may not be able to change that. Perhaps you can schedule a meeting with the director and teacher in the room your daughter is in. You can voice your safety and comfort concerns. Ask that the teacher to accommodate a 3 month old's schedule similiar to Room 1 babies for the two weeks you daughter has to stay in her room. If you really want to know, ask them why they accepted your baby in daycare if they could not accomodate her to per their gudielines. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611441 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:37:59 +0000 anbanan15 611441@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@78h2o: ugh! Hence the two week wait. How frustrating?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611435 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:35:10 +0000 78h2o 611435@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>THANK YOU all so much! So glad to know that I'm not overreacting. I'm not going to be the one to pick her up today, but I will go in tomorrow and talk to the director again and see if they can move her earlier. They didn't seem to think it was a big deal at all, but it bothered me and I'm glad to see that I'm not being unreasonable. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611431 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:32:33 +0000 Dandelion 611431@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah, I'd be upset. I hope they fix it fast for you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611429 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:31:57 +0000 78h2o 611429@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mamabolt: Yeah, they told me that in the youngest infant room that each baby could eat and nap per his/her own schedule...but the teacher in her room today made it sound like she would nap with the others until I reminded them that she is only 3 months. The teacher then said that she wouldn't have to follow the others' nap schedule. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611423 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:31:09 +0000 littlek 611423@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow, that is disorganized. I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. Why would they put your baby in with the oldest infants when she is only 3 months old? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611420 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:30:34 +0000 NovBaby1112 611420@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would be livid. That is totally unacceptable in my opinion. She is only 3 months, and should be with babies her age! Why is your baby and the other baby the only ones who are not allowed in the "baby" room?? that makes no sense to me. I would call asap and demand that she be put in the baby room. it seems like the teachers and director are not communicating that well, but I guess I just dont understand why they would think to put her in room 3 anyways if she is not walking?? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611417 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:29:44 +0000 sunny 611417@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That is totally unacceptable to have bigger babies falling all over your 3 month old! And she NEEDS her 3 naps.... She is so tiny still! My LO is 6 months and still naps 3 times usually. </p> <p>I would try to get them to move her into the infant room ASAP. I don't think you are being unreasonable at all. If they really cannot move her, at least they need to accommodate her nap schedule and assure you that they are keeping the bigger mobile babies away from her. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611416 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:29:03 +0000 T.H.O.U. 611416@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@78h2o: I think that is their fault and they should look at getting the staff needed to find a spot in Room1 immediately. They should be able to call in a sub or extra staff to meet the needs for the next two weeks. This is their mistake and they should deal with it not at the expense of your child. I would be worried taht its a safety issue with her being in the bigger room. Someone could step on her, she could find a piece of food on the floor, etc. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611413 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:27:43 +0000 78h2o 611413@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@anbanan15: Yeah, 1 &amp; 2 are full, but apparently there are some babies ready to move up. I think they have to do parent-teacher conferences first. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611412 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:27:43 +0000 T.H.O.U. 611412@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't think this is right at all! I would demand her to be moved immediately because that is what you were told and that is where she should be. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611407 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:25:57 +0000 anbanan15 611407@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would want my LO with children closer to their age. It would make me uncomfortable with new walkers falling all around. I think you have ever right to question and asked for her to be moved.</p> <p>I wonder why they keep putting her in room 3? Short staffed or rooms 1 &amp; 2 are full so they are just putting her where there is room? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611405 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:25:30 +0000 78h2o 611405@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mamabolt: Your post prompted me to edit my post... I remembered that it was supposed to be non-mobile in room 1, crawling in room 2, and walking in room 3... but apparently not!</p> <p>Ok, I'm glad that this would bother other people too! I was wondering if I was crazy! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611399 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:23:34 +0000 Arden 611399@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It would bother me that the director and the teachers apparently aren't communicating. If you were told one thing by the director, the teaches need to follow through on what you were told! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-this-bother-you#post-611398 Mon, 04 Mar 2013 13:22:56 +0000 blackbird 611398@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Um, it seems kind of dumb to me to not have them all grouped together by age when they're so young. And unsafe. </p> <p>I'd call and speak with the director again about getting the switch done asap, not 2 weeks from now </p>