https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 12 Jul 2026 07:59:30 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740641 Fri, 26 May 2017 09:23:11 +0000 Mrs. Blue 2740641@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Absolutely. I moved elementary schools after first grade and then stayed there all the way. DH moved to tons of different cities and different schools within those cities. I think he attended like 8 different schools. Because of that, he is less prone to want to move our kids, but he wouldn't have any problem doing it once or twice, especially when they're in elementary. I think both of us would be hesitant to move them while they were in junior high or high school because DH really wants them to feel like they have a hometown, something he doesn't feel like he has. If it was a good move for our family or a once in a lifetime opportunity, I think we would do it even then, though.</p> <p>While DH comes from that school of thought, I would have probably thrived in a different school. We lived in the country near a small town and there was only one option for schools. I would have loved somewhere that offered more things, different friends to choose from, etc., so it's not always a bad thing to move. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740633 Fri, 26 May 2017 09:19:14 +0000 sauerkraut 2740633@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes! Especially if I was unsure about staying in the area through HS. Much easier to move small children than teenagers, IMO. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740630 Fri, 26 May 2017 09:16:34 +0000 petitenoisette 2740630@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would move for necessity but would prefer to avoid it. We might move to the next town over (which would be the same high school and middle school as now either way bc it's regional) but I think we'd do that by kindergarten. </p> <p>I moved when I was 5 and 12 and though I adjusted just fine and made lifelong friends in the town we ended up in I still feel slightly like an outsider sometimes. It's kind of a running joke among my friends that I'm not "really" from there. I would love for my LO to have the experience to have lived some place her whole life and also I think it would be really hard on me to have to start over. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740593 Fri, 26 May 2017 08:40:34 +0000 Truth Bombs 2740593@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wouldn't move like one town over for the heck of it. We specifically moved a couple years ago into a excellent school distract so our children could start school there right off the bat. But if it we were presented with a job opportunity that required a longer distance move we would certainly give it fair consideration. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740589 Fri, 26 May 2017 08:32:36 +0000 looch 2740589@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: My son is in public school. He's in a magnet school that will go k-8. I am not sure what we'll do for high school yet, it's totally up in the air at the moment and I am not really ready to worry about it yet. He'll likely be going to another town and might be the new kid, but he'll have to deal with it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740544 Fri, 26 May 2017 04:47:52 +0000 bloved 2740544@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, but not after 6th grade. We moved a lot whe I was a kid (I changed schools 5 times) and it was really hard always starting over and I am jealous of my friends that have a history. Plus, for my last move it was beginning of high school. By then everyone is tracked, so you even wind up taking most of your specials with the same kids based on the way schedules fall. Because I was honors, I really only knew about 40 kids by the time I graduated (it was a small school, but still).<br /> I feel like as long as they were somewhere 6th and up, that would be long enough to establish that connection and get a good feel for the whole grade level of kids. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740540 Fri, 26 May 2017 04:10:30 +0000 Kemma 2740540@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wouldn't want to be shifting on the regular but we're a military family so relocating is part of our life. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740539 Fri, 26 May 2017 03:11:46 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 2740539@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, we moved when I was in HS and my bro was in elementary. We both made friends. If I were to do it with my own family I would try to move at the start of school or during the start of the Spring quarter in an effort for LO to have class assignments completely wrapped up. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740520 Thu, 25 May 2017 22:56:44 +0000 808love 2740520@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No. I moved a lot and made friends but I don't think it is good to have a kid 'learn' a whole new system if avoidable. I learned how to not get attached to people because they would all be new again when my parents decided to move again. Also, there will be gaps because each school's curriculum is spiraled differently from grade to grade in various subjects, even with common core. Maybe one move might be ok. Maybe. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740511 Thu, 25 May 2017 22:15:57 +0000 DesertDreams88 2740511@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes bc we want LO(s) to go to schools we work at so finding the right school(s) for all of us will take some time and maybe some switches.<br /> Other than that reason I would rather not, unless it was in elementary" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740433 Thu, 25 May 2017 19:47:02 +0000 MrsKRB 2740433@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Probably not, but maybe if I was miserable where I was. I moved a few times when I was a kid and felt like I missed out on some things. It's important for me for my kids to grow up in the same town and probably house their whole lives. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740369 Thu, 25 May 2017 17:35:09 +0000 Foodnerd81 2740369@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@looch: I went to catholic schools and the high schools were all totally separate, so everyone was new, pretty much. Sure some people knew each other from grammar school but there was no "new kid". I'd be totally fine with that but we plan on public school. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740364 Thu, 25 May 2017 17:26:28 +0000 looch 2740364@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I should have put more thought into my answer, my son's school is in a totally different town and I have no idea what he will end up doing for high school, so there is at least one time when he'll be the new kid and that's going into 9th grade if we stay put. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740357 Thu, 25 May 2017 17:11:14 +0000 caterw 2740357@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: I changed schools in 6th grade and 9th grade and it was a rough transition both times, and my DH moved in the middle of 7th grade and also had a bad experience. I am going to try very hard not to change my kids schools once my oldest starts kindergarten.... But if I had a great job opportunity I would consider it. DH and I both ended up surviving- and we ended up going to the same high school so you never know what good will come out of a rough move! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740347 Thu, 25 May 2017 17:03:24 +0000 Purpledaisy 2740347@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would really rather not. It would have to be a really good opportunity and I don't see that happening. I went to the same school district that my kids will from k-12. I love having friends that I've had since kindergarten. I want the same for my kids. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740345 Thu, 25 May 2017 16:59:39 +0000 Finfan 2740345@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would be fine with moving in elementary school (we moved two times between K and 4th grade and I wound up back in the same school I started in). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740344 Thu, 25 May 2017 16:59:35 +0000 Boogs 2740344@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If it was just a one time thing. I would rather do it on elementary than middle or high school. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740317 Thu, 25 May 2017 16:28:59 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2740317@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, but not as readily as before school. I went to three different elementary schools (changed four times-once back to the same school I had previously attended) and knew a lot of military kids that changed schools even more frequently. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740315 Thu, 25 May 2017 16:26:55 +0000 youboots 2740315@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would move without hesitation up until middle school and after that it's something I would consider if it was an outstanding work opportunity. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740299 Thu, 25 May 2017 16:15:51 +0000 Foodnerd81 2740299@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd rather not but we would for the right reasons. But we bought this house with the idea that the kids will graduate from the local high school unless something changes. </p> <p>I really do want to avoid moving around middle school age though. I just feel like that is such a hard time for kids, especially girls, and I wouldn't want to uproot them then if I could help it. Plus at that age you don't get to meet the MIT friends parents really, or even get to know the kids as well as when they are younger. </p> <p>But I switched schools going into 3rd grade and don't have any negative memories about it at all. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740258 Thu, 25 May 2017 15:21:27 +0000 Somebunny 2740258@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, my dad was in the military and we moved a lot. I went to 4 elementary schools. I loved moving. I thought it was an adventure getting to know a new place and make new friends. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740232 Thu, 25 May 2017 15:00:40 +0000 Littlebit7 2740232@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Of course! I moved 4 times during elementary school and I'm totally ok. TBH the hardest move was between 10th and 11th grade. The others were easy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740230 Thu, 25 May 2017 14:58:59 +0000 Mrs.Pinecone316 2740230@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am happy we moved across the country before our kids were in school for that reason but I wouldn't let it keep me from moving either. Families have to do it all the time for various reasons and kids usually adjust and make new friends. I would have more concerns though if my child was really shy. I think getting them involved in sports, or church right away helps that though with a move. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740219 Thu, 25 May 2017 14:49:41 +0000 travellingbee 2740219@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I attended only one elementary school and stayed with that track all the way through high school. As did my my DH. (Different states) We are both very adaptable and easy going though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740215 Thu, 25 May 2017 14:43:36 +0000 skinnycow 2740215@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would. I attended 4 elementary schools, 3 middle schools, and 1 high school as a child and adjusted fine.</p> <p>Also, moving during elementary school is much easier than middle/high school. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740197 Thu, 25 May 2017 14:27:28 +0000 Smurfette 2740197@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. We moved a lot growing up. It wasn't an issue for me to make new friends. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740193 Thu, 25 May 2017 14:21:13 +0000 winniebee 2740193@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes...I mean, it's not ideal, but it may happen. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740191 Thu, 25 May 2017 14:19:44 +0000 Alba4 2740191@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Maybe, for the right reason... but we plan to stay. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740185 Thu, 25 May 2017 14:17:49 +0000 mrs.shinerbock 2740185@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, kids are adaptable- it's good practice for them handling change when they are older and if it's better for the family, then it will be good for the kids too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-move-your-kids-after-they-started-elementary-school#post-2740160 Thu, 25 May 2017 13:49:30 +0000 catgirl 2740160@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, if it was the best choice for our family as a whole. </p>