https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 06 May 2026 11:45:13 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200354 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 19:00:06 +0000 Kemma 1200354@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sound's like the poor woman is up to her neck in sh*t and just needs to let it all out! Can you flick her a pm to ask if she's ok? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200340 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 18:50:03 +0000 Corduroy 1200340@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If I saw a friend post that I would tell her I'm on my way over to give her a break. Since it's a random facebook person I would ignore it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200146 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 16:35:05 +0000 pui 1200146@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd probably just ignore it... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200141 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 16:31:29 +0000 mrs. bird 1200141@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sounds like she's venting. I don't think I'd want my family to ever see me speaking of them like that, hopefully she'll rethink it &amp; delete soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200135 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 16:25:57 +0000 swurlygurl 1200135@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have a cousin who posts like this ALL THE TIME. It drives me crazy, but she's family? Then, like 30 minutes later she's going on and on about how amazing her boyfriend is and the kids are angels... I think some people just love the attention... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200134 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 16:25:49 +0000 sunny 1200134@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>OMG! I would just ignore it. It sounds like a post where she is ready to engage in aggression not like a cry for help. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200121 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 16:13:41 +0000 Vegmama 1200121@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>*as bad as </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200120 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 16:13:33 +0000 Vegmama 1200120@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsBrewer: I think that's the consensus. No one else has responded either. I feel for her, but really, I feel for her poor family. I hope her husband isn't has been as he sounds. AND, her kids? How could you talk that way?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200096 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 16:03:09 +0000 MrsBrewer 1200096@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Pen: Completely agree! </p> <p>Hmm truthfully, I think I would ignore it. I wouldn't want to risk a confrontation. (even if it is only on social media) Maybe if you see other posts from her, where she might be reaching out for help, or if things seem to get worse, maybe consider it then? Hopefully she was just having a REALLY rough day today, I mean nothing would give her the right to say those things about her family.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200080 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 15:56:59 +0000 Vegmama 1200080@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sunshineandsushi: Agreed. I just felt compelled. Usually I would just delete that from my feed. Such negativity &amp; hate for her family ... You're right though, it's not a "Please help me!" kind of post. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200079 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 15:56:08 +0000 Vegmama 1200079@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Pen: Totally agree. I have never even seen the word she used to describe her husband. How terrible!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200074 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 15:53:00 +0000 Mrs. Pen 1200074@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>oh my goodness... same reaction as you - wow she's crazy but then, she must be having a really hard time :( I'm not sure what I'd say...</p> <p>FWIW, I don't think it's ever appropriate to use that language about your family on social media, or at all. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200073 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 15:52:48 +0000 sunshineandsushi 1200073@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't think I would. She seems pretty aggressive, which I read to mean that she wants to wallow in her anger, versus receive sympathy or support. That's just my take on it though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-respond-to-this-if-so-how#post-1200068 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 15:51:23 +0000 Vegmama 1200068@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't know this girl, but we are in the same group on FB for photographer mamas. At first, I thought, "Whoa! Crazy lady!", but after reading into it, it sounds like she could use some kind words ... Sounds like she's really having a hard time. </p> <p>Would you respond to this? </p> [attach=2961/13/mvv0lo.506x203.Screen-Shot-2013-11-06-at-12.46.55-PM.jpg]