https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 28 Apr 2026 19:12:53 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2403262 Tue, 29 Dec 2015 14:25:42 +0000 Boogs 2403262@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If I found something that made me happy and I could work with my family's schedule. It's really hard maintain mental health wellness as a SAHM, I'm starting to learn. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402707 Tue, 29 Dec 2015 07:35:17 +0000 looch 2402707@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>At this point in my life/career, no, but if I were changing fields or beginning, I would consider it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402687 Tue, 29 Dec 2015 06:43:59 +0000 ValentineMommy 2402687@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No way. I would love to be at home, and if I were only making enough to cover childcare, I would just stay home. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402562 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 22:21:51 +0000 californiadreams 2402562@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>not for a few years. i want to continue my career, but if i could stay home completely for 5 years, then i would. and i could technically make that choice, but i choose to work because i was just starting my career when i got pregnant the first time, and after years of living the "poor student" life, i do want to make some money to help support the life we want (house, etc). The compromise is cutting back on some things so i can work part time - which i plan to do after my next mat leave is over. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402540 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 21:42:08 +0000 Canoli 2402540@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Currently with 2 children in daycare I am still bringing home a little money but soon with 3 I will be "losing" money. However, I work because I can not imagine being a SAHM (I don't know how you all do it, you rock), I want to stay in the work force, I like my job, I have great health insurance for a very affordable price, I have a great 403b plan with employer matching, and I feel a responsibility to pay my student loans ($600/month😳). So to me personally it is worth it. That being said I am fortunate that my husband does very well and can "carry" us financially. Other posters have made some valuable points why it would not make sense and I think it comes down to your personal preference and situation. Good Luck! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402478 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 20:37:36 +0000 catomd00 2402478@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lion: oh yeah, mental health is a definite reason to do it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402448 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 20:22:03 +0000 Mrs. Lion 2402448@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks everyone! I don't feel quite so crazy now...I am definitely hoping to find something that is more than just a break even, but in my field and location it is not likely. Going back to my previous job as a full time teacher I would be in the hole, and doing work I am passionate about and qualified for means low salary for me. </p> <p>This is definitely a mental health issue for me, so if I can find a job doing something I really love, I think I would take it even if it financially doesn't make sense. I was just feeling really guilty about it...like, how dare I send my kids away for no tangible financial reason. That's just my inner crazy talking, and I guess my mental health is probably a more valid reason than money anyway... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402446 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 20:20:44 +0000 Baby Boy Mom 2402446@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Personally for me no, but this is an ongoing argument I have with some family members and I do see all the great reasons that other posters have mentioned why you might choose this route. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402383 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 19:31:41 +0000 regberadaisy 2402383@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>In your situation as a SAHM going back into the workforce, no. It's not worth all the extra hassle and stress to just break even ino. Unless you *needed* the money I would keep looking until you found a job in your field that didn't just cover daycare costs.<br /> I was unemployed for a while and it was so much more work going back to work FT with two kids. I feel like we get no free time. The kids have to wake up by 6 every morning. When we get home it's a mad dash to dinner, bath and bed. By the Time both kids are aslee DH and I are usually beyond exhausted. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402381 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 19:27:03 +0000 travellingbee 2402381@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>After taxes, insurance and retirement is taken out, I barely clear day care. But I need the insurance and years toward retirement (teacher) and I enjoy my job, so yeah, it's worth it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402373 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 19:21:44 +0000 catomd00 2402373@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>As much as I love working and cannot imagine being a SAHM, there would have to be at least one intangible benefit outside of the salary (eg., good health insurance benefits, good retirement plan or pension, it's a stepping stone to a higher paying job, etc.) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402367 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 19:15:59 +0000 ShootingStar 2402367@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it depends. Is this pay the most that you can find in your industry at your experience level? Is this a job you would really enjoy? Is this a job or a career? How much longer do you have the same daycare costs for?</p> <p>I think if you'd love this job and it's the career you want to be in and it's the most compensation you can reasonably expect then yes, I think it's a good idea. There's a lot of value in working outside the house, especially to one's mental health (depending on the person). But if you could be better compensated then I don't think it's worth it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402311 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 18:18:52 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2402311@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If I liked the job then yeah!</p> <p>I wanted to say about whether there was room for advancement but I think you can turn most experiences into opportunities if you try. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402287 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 17:48:19 +0000 DillonLion 2402287@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sure, especially because daycare costs are temporary but your career aspirations can go on for decades if you choose :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402264 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 17:33:49 +0000 autumnleaves 2402264@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH has such a job. He's essentially paying for childcare salary wise but we're looking at this as the work experience he needs to move into a better paying job that he could support the family with one day if needed. Within 2 years he should be in another position and before that he'll have pay raises within his position. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402196 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 16:55:23 +0000 Ash 2402196@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No way. It doesn't make sense to me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402158 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 16:22:04 +0000 Finfan 2402158@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, if the job was otherwise good and would help my career. </p> <p>I'm not saying this is the case here, but I don't agree with the notion that child care is an expense that comes out of the mom's salary. Childcare is an expense of both parents! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402138 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 16:03:55 +0000 sapphire 2402138@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Absolutely for the right job that gets you the right experience. I work because I love what I do! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402133 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 16:02:45 +0000 hummusgirl 2402133@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes I would. My son loves daycare so I see that as a benefit to him too. Also I wouldn't look at it as just your salary covering childcare but something both you and your partner work for. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402129 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 15:58:07 +0000 Keybee 2402129@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not for me, but I think it's a personal choice affected by personal preferences and situation. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402123 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 15:52:00 +0000 AprilFool 2402123@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Absolutely! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402117 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 15:47:59 +0000 Modern Daisy 2402117@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If it would make you happy then yes. I view paying for childcare as a short term investment to achieve a long term goal of advanced/stable career, so even back when we were breaking even I still thought it was worthwhile for me to keep working. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402108 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 15:37:53 +0000 MoonMoon 2402108@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes! For so many reasons-to keep building skills/resume, to have a chance to do something I love, for insurance/401k etc. Plus as time goes by, childcare costs decrease, while incomes cayb increase.</p> <p>I only work part time but I'm not happy about it, so I'm looking to change careers to have a better chance to work full time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402103 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 15:34:56 +0000 Mrs. Carrot 2402103@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Absolutely. I'm not cut out to be a SAHP, so unless there were other major issues like not enough PTO, no flexibility with scheduling, benefits, etc., I would do it. I work because I love to (also in the non-profit sector) - I'm lucky to be making good money for the sector, but I would do it even if salary wasn't a driver. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402073 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 15:07:55 +0000 LuLu Mom 2402073@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No unless it was our only means for insurance/401K, then we would have to consider it. But honestly, if my entire paycheck went to daycare I would either find other employment or consider other options like cheaper care/part time work. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402052 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 14:56:47 +0000 Greentea 2402052@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No way! But then again, I work for very little but don't require additional childcare, so I understand doing something if it is important to you for other reasons. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402041 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 14:50:13 +0000 AB810 2402041@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When I start looking for a job in a few months I anticipate this to be the case for me. The way I look at it is by the time the kids are older and care is less expensive I will be making more because I'll have more experience. It's worth it for me, but I'm also not interested in being a full time stay at home mom. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402040 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 14:50:08 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2402040@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would say go for it. What about other benefits like<br /> - PTO - will you be stressing to take time off for kids appointments and illness? Will you have any extra PTO to relax and do fun time off?<br /> - Long term benefits like retirement<br /> - Cost of being busy - More meals out, less time for cleaning, etc. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402024 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 14:40:01 +0000 lawbee11 2402024@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Definitely. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/would-you-take-a-job-if#post-2402021 Mon, 28 Dec 2015 14:37:53 +0000 pinkcupcake 2402021@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, it would be worth it if this meant I would be more employable in the future or if it would get my foot in the door of a competitive industry. It would have to be a pretty special job, though, so that the intangible benefits outweigh the financial ones. </p>