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I did once before we were married. Some girl from his past all of a sudden wanted to get together with him and it sounded fishy to me so I read one of her emails to him. She totally wanted him back! But I don't read his email now...

Nope. We keep our email passwords to ourselves.

Sometimes. He's like your husband and hates checking it but there's some important stuff that comes to email. So I check in once in awhile or when he asks to make sure everything's getting done. He might look at mine if I have it open just to see if anything interesting is going on but nothing much comes to mine.

yep. only if we're expecting something, or have to send something for the other. i have no reason to regularly check his or vice versa. we definitely know all of each other's passwords and stuff... we don't have any secrets. to me, there's no reason to have anything private. if i can't tell him about something, i probably shouldn't be doing it.

Nah, but we do forward some stuff to each other, or we'll be like, "hey, get on my phone and go read that email from so-and-so" if it's something the both of us are concerned with like family plans or lately grad school related things.

I don't, but I often have my husband checking my email, he knows the password and I know his.

No, we know the passwords but don't check. And if he can't manage his personal inbox then that is his own problem! I would not feel the need to clean it up. If I really want him to see something when he is not home, I will send him a text.

No way. In fact if one of us ever leaves our email open on our laptop the other will close it immediately. Privacy is important, and if I had reason to believe he was hiding something serious I don't think reading his emails would be the best way to go about opening that can of worms. Other than for general snooping there'd be no reason for us to look into the other's account.