I'm thinking of ordering the uptown espresso, but I'm nervous that it will look too Wha-bam! in our living room. Is the stainless steel super shiny?

I'm looking for a kitchen that will sort of "blend" with the decor since it will be in our main living area. The Vintage one seems a bit more furniture like, but the reviews say it's pretty small...I'd like my little one to get many years of use out of it and not outgrow it too soon.

And yes, I'm way overthinking this kitchen decision