I'm getting together with an old buddy I haven't seen/kept in touch with for many, many years. She is hosting me so I wanted to get her a gift either for herself or baby. Admittedly I don't know much about her life now except where she lives and works. It's not enough to guess her likes and wishes. I don't want to ask cause she would prob just say oh I don't need anything. Suggestions for a thoughtful gift for a new mom currently on mat leave or even just a general thoughtful gift for a 30 something yr old woman?