Last week, my daughter went in to our family doctor to receive two vaccines. When we get there, a new assistant introduced herself (a small practice), and said she'd be helping out a bit around the office. When it was time to head back, the nurse asked this woman if she wanted to help. I heard them in the room, the nurse was showing her how to fill syringes, and other details. Then, we we went into the room, the nurse asked her if she wanted to do the shots.

She started by wiping down DD's leg without gloves, and the nurse had to stop her to remind her about gloves. Then she did the first shot (so slowly. Like, do it fast & get it over with), and started to put the first band aid on. The nurse interrupted her to say that she should do both shots before the band aids, and there was a fluster and confusion before she did the 2nd shot. By that time, DD was hysterical. She then took her gloves off before putting the syringes in the waste, and the nurse reminded her that her gloves needed to be on the whole time.

My heart was hurting after this. I feel like I should have put my foot down in the beginning to say that I'd rather just have the usual nurse so the shots. I honestly think these were the first shots this woman has ever administered. Shining mom moment.

What would you do? I think everyone needs to learn, so that's where I'm torn. I go back in Tuesday to have my blood drawn, and I really don't want this woman drawing my blood. Also, do you think it's worth sending feedback to the office? I would highlight her bedside manner (she's an absolute doll, just not the best at shots), and try to sandwich the issue between two (true) compliments. I don't want to come off as a tattle tale or like, "How dare you hurt MY child".

Also, my friend pointed out that I should always double check the vaccines before they are given. It's ok to ask to see the vial to record the batch # (to keep record of in case of strong reaction). Does anyone else do this?

*This is not a post to spark a vaccine debate*