She's taking it out on my SIL. From the beginning SIL and I always had a great relationship. Her mom and I have had great times and horrible times and right now we're at a crossroads and don't really talk and she makes it very known to everyone she does not like me.

MIL has the type of personality that if you like someone she hates, she's just mean to you too. I've told SIL in the past to just pretend she doesn't like me either so that her mom doesn't give her a rough time. She refused. I love her for that but what happened to her today is beyond unfair.

SIL found out that she's pregnant but there maybe a problem with the baby and it may end in a miscarriage. A few years ago I suffered a miscarriage and because of that she felt most comfortable coming to me to talk about the possible pregnancy/possible loss. We're waiting on her levels to come back. She decided to tell her mom. Welllll the response she received was unbelievable. Her mother has been dying for another grandchild that's not from me and has always talked about how excited she is for the day SIL is pregnant. So we did not expect what came next.

She said to SIL "well I know who you told first" meaning me. Goes on a rampage how she's a backstabber, if she loses the baby then it's God's will, she wants no parts of it...all because she told me first. SIL tried to explain it was because she was fearful of the loss and wanted in advice since I recently experienced one. But MIL wasn't trying to hear and was beyond nasty.

I feel so horrible for my SIL. I'm praying like hell the baby is healthy and makes because if not this argument with her mother and the loss of her baby will destroy her. I honestly don't know what I can do for her at this point.

I never thought someone's hate for me could transfer to someone else so badly.