I feel like a baby wearing idiot. Evertone says it's the key to having two under two but I always feel like I'm not doing it right!

Here are my million questions:

1. Do you BW around the house? I feel like I'm always bending down and getting up and down with the toddler so it's kinda hard.

2. Do you BW when baby is asleep, or put them down? Is it still beneficial for bonding if they are asleep? He sleeps so easily why worn, but I feel like it's easier if he is just in the bouncer.

3. Any tips for hot sweaty babies? We call LO the space heater. He is always hot and sweaty. I feel bad carrying him some days.

4. Is putting a blanket in the ergo instead of using the carrier safe?

5. When I have LO in the ring sling, I feel like when I tighten the top rail to support his head, his face is covered too much. Is the pocket too deep?

6. When you do the newborn kangaroo carry in the moby, do they go in the pocket or skin to skin?

7. I have a becco butterfly 2. Do you like it? Is it worth learning?

I know that's a lot of carriers for someone who is clueless. But they were all gifts or hand me downs.

8. Has anyone reintroduced being carried with a toddler? I stopped when my belly got big. Last time he was worn was a back carry in the ergo and my ILs freaked out because he kept leaning his head back to eat his cracker and they thought he was too uncomfortable.