I had the Jewish panel done because I am half Jewish. I didn't even bother with my son -- it wasn't covered with insurance and because my husband isn't Jewish, they said it wasn't worth it. This time it was covered, so I said why not. The nurse just called to say I'm a carrier for Fanconi anemia, a very rare and horrible disease found mainly among Ashkenazi Jews and South Africans that involves the bone marrow. It affects about 30 babies per year in the USA.

I AM FREAKING. OUT. Now: My husband is not Jewish. They suggested he come in for testing to "rule it out" and said I could also talk to a geneticist if I wanted. The nurse was very nice and said that this testing always opens a can of worms, et cetera, and not to worry. But of course I am worried. And the test takes a week to come back. What do I do?? Has anyone had experience with this? Also, the disease sometimes is not apparent until a kid is six or more, and so I am freaking out about my five year old too.