My oldest is turning 4 this week, and I don't know if this is normal for her age (I'm thinking no) or what, but I'm running out of ideas. If we run into someone we don't see a lot, or a stranger says hi, or a kid in the park wants to play my LO is shy, BUT half the time also gets mean. Today for example, we had friends stop over randomly. She was crying, then got an attitude and mean, turned bossy etc etc etc. It happens more than I think it should and I think her behavior is unnecessary. Does anyone go through this with their LO? How can I help change this type of behavior? Shyness is one thing, the attitude/rudeness isn't ok with me. Help!