If your parents or in-laws were on good terms with you and wanted to take your toddler LO away with them for free on a 2-day trip about 90min away, how would you feel about that? Would your response change if you were on maternity leave with a newborn?
When I have time maybe I'll post the details of this possibility, but that's the gist of my question I'm not sure what I want.
ETA: My LO is 2y2m.
ETA2: I had never been away from him overnight until Feb when I had LO2 - my in-laws watched him at our house. Then he got RSV, and stayed at their house for 5 days with DH. So they have watched him overnight but only starting recently. They babysit him M-F 7a-3p.