I'm very, very happy with my one LO and do not want any more children.

I was thinking today that I spent nearly 10 years actively preventing pregnancy before having LO, and have been actively preventing ever since, and probably will until one of us takes some sort of permanent measure.

It worked out to 5 months of my life wanting to be pregnant before getting knocked up, and the entire rest of my adulthood (until menopause/permanent BC) is spent preventing pregnancy! That's crazy to me.

How long did you TTC vs actively avoiding getting pregnant?