She's turning into a toddler. Girlfriend can't walk or talk and barely crawls, but my 11 month old has the opinions of a toddler already. THIS WASN'T SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN TO ME!!!

So my specific problems:
1) HOW do you brush an 11 month old's teeth? I started rubbing her gums daily with a washcloth as a newborn and now? Oh no, she will push that tongue forward and grow six extra hands to keep that toothbrush from touching her (two) teeth!
2) She has gone on a vegetable strike. Will. Not. Eat. Vegetables. Even cutting them up really small and mixing them in with other things doesn't work. She gums everything, swallows the carby stuff, and spits out the veg!

Help?!