So, I go yesterday to be checked for the first time (big mistake). I was 36w4d and she said this:
- 25% effaced
- 1cm dilated
- "head RIGHT there"
- "more than likely to go until at least your due date" < at least?!

OK, I didn't expect much from my first internal exam and I know dilation has little to nothing to do with when labor will begin....but, she said it herself: "more than likely to go until at least your due date".

So, now I am really upset and wondering....were any of you ladies either not dilated and/or effaced at all but still ended up giving birth ON or BEFORE your due dates?

*Mind you: I am always measuring a few days ahead and from all u/s (total of 4) throughout my pregnancy he has been a hefty baby. So, I really don't want to go over my due date because I want to avoid inductions and *try* for a vaginal.