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@Truth Bombs: this. I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything I did before, I still do most of it. But it has to be scheduled and I end up feeling a little guilt over it. Miss the spontaneity and being carefree.

My job. Which sometimes I miss and sometimes I'm A-OK with.

Free time.
Working out regularly.
Leisure cooking (haha)

We have two kids now though, and the baby is 6 months. I feel like we're still adjusting to life as a family of 4, I'm hoping we can get back to having some personal time (including working out) back when the baby gets a little older... I also used to love coming home after work with a glass of wine and some music experimenting/cooking and making a nice meal. That NEVER happens now, but I'm sure someday I'll cook for fun again!

Working out
Me time
Staying up/out late with friends
Buying myself random things I wanted

Doing whatever I want, whenever I want.
Being lazy. I have to keep up on chores and life after a long day working and then parenting. There is no downtime anymore.

Exercising more
Long hikes
Dinners at restaurants that aren't toddler friendly
Facials
Buying clothes for me
Drinking more than 1 glass of wine or more than 1 beer when I'm not pregnant
Long quiet car rides to the beach or mountains

I am looking forward to seeing how things evolve as LO gets older. Hopefully we'll exercise as a family when he's a few years older. And maybe he'll like going to eat sushi.