Since April, I have had two losses. One was a very early CP and, the other, was a blighted ovum at 10 weeks in August which ended in a D & C. I just got my first AF. My OB originally told me to wait 3-6 months but I talked to my GP (who I have a great relationship with) and she said that I am good to start trying now that IA have gotten AF.

SO, here's my concern: My 30th birthday is in the end of October. I was hoping to be pregnant with a healthy pregnancy by my birthday. If I actively TTC this month, I would POAS a couple days before my birthday which could either be great or disappointing right before my 30th. More importantly than my birthday, if I got pregnant in October, I would be due in July which is the second best month for my husband and I (we are both teachers.) June would have been the best but not possible. If I have a baby in July, I will get double my insurance payout.

On the other hand, I feel like I have been through enough and need to just chill out for this month, not put pressure on myself especially right before my 30th.

Anyway, sorry if this seems like excessive crowd-sourcing, but I am not wondering what you think I should do what would you do in this situation?